what is inner beauty??
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My friend said this to me, "I was initially attracted to you because I thought you look like someone with lots of inner beauty. But now, I realised you don't have any. So basically, you don't have inner beauty nor outer beauty. "
What was that supposed to mean? Im so shocked and lost. What exactly defines inner beauty?
Looks like im not cut out to be a woman....haha...
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Umm my definition of tt is someone with a good heart, caring, kind, helpful, etc.. jus character traits tt are good lor..Originally posted by YuPLeNg: My friend said this to me, "I was initially attracted to you because I thought you look like someone with lots of inner beauty. But now, I realised you don't have any. So basically, you don't have inner beauty nor outer beauty. "
What was that supposed to mean? Im so shocked and lost. What exactly defines inner beauty?
Looks like im not cut out to be a woman....haha... -
Your friend is guy? YES? If not he would not be attracted to you.Originally posted by YuPLeNg: My friend said this to me, "I was initially attracted to you because I thought you look like someone with lots of inner beauty. But now, I realised you don't have any. So basically, you don't have inner beauty nor outer beauty. "
What was that supposed to mean? Im so shocked and lost. What exactly defines inner beauty?
Looks like im not cut out to be a woman....haha...
Inner beauty. Could be a natural character which will draw favour from people around. -
well, I've been pretty kind and caring towards him. Everytime he needs me there for him, I would be there as much as possible. But I definitely didn't expect this from him??
Perhaps his definition of inner beauty is someone of brains and wits...since he's always saying that im very stupid! -
He's quite definitely not looking for someone with inner beauty.Originally posted by YuPLeNg:well, I've been pretty kind and caring towards him. Everytime he needs me there for him, I would be there as much as possible. But I definitely didn't expect this from him??
Perhaps his definition of inner beauty is someone of brains and wits...since he's always saying that im very stupid!
Basically, he wanted you to be interesting....but unfortunately, he didn't find it in you.
When a guy went to a point of saying you're stupid.
It could be playful tone.
OR
He's trying to pull a stunt on you already.
I hope he's not your bf... -
Umm did he meant it when he said u were stupid?Originally posted by YuPLeNg:well, I've been pretty kind and caring towards him. Everytime he needs me there for him, I would be there as much as possible. But I definitely didn't expect this from him??
Perhaps his definition of inner beauty is someone of brains and wits...since he's always saying that im very stupid!
Mayb u did something to provoke him into this sudden attack on u? -
what kind of stunt do you mean? its definitely not playful tone. He's very convinced that i am a stupid woman....Originally posted by M©+square:He's quite definitely not looking for someone with inner beauty.
Basically, he wanted you to be interesting....but unfortunately, he didn't find it in you.
When a guy went to a point of saying you're stupid.
It could be playful tone.
OR
He's trying to pull a stunt on you already.
I hope he's not your bf...
Guess my life is boring compared to his..Im more down to earth kind...He's the funky and wild type... -
Be more honest with yourself and people here.Originally posted by YuPLeNg:what kind of stunt do you mean? its definitely not playful tone. He's very convinced that i am a stupid woman....
Guess my life is boring compared to his..Im more down to earth kind...He's the funky and wild type...
Is he your bf or a love interest? -
Inner beauty is what he dosent have
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I think he's bullsh--ing. How can you tell someone has "inner beauty"? "Inner beauty" is discovered, not "predicted". Sheesh.
Maybe what he's trying to say is that your personalities don't match? I don't know... -
Why hang out with a guy who puts u down? Look for someone who can appreciate your good qualities.Originally posted by YuPLeNg:what kind of stunt do you mean? its definitely not playful tone. He's very convinced that i am a stupid woman....
Guess my life is boring compared to his..Im more down to earth kind...He's the funky and wild type... -
inner beauty is just good charateristics.... like kind hearted, sweet, cheerful, polite...etc.
by the way, the way your "friend" said all those things to you, he/she does not have any inner beauty either.... so it's not your loss!!! -
inner beauty is the X factor which makes someone stand out in a crowd of girls you see everyday. If the guy cannot see it or treasure it means he does not feel anything for you.Originally posted by YuPLeNg: My friend said this to me, "I was initially attracted to you because I thought you look like someone with lots of inner beauty. But now, I realised you don't have any. So basically, you don't have inner beauty nor outer beauty. "
What was that supposed to mean? Im so shocked and lost. What exactly defines inner beauty?
Looks like im not cut out to be a woman....haha...
Inner beauty is the believe in oneself. The strength to stand up and say that you are who you are no matter what people say. You live life for yourself not for any others. Thats why is stronger the outer beauty becos outer beauty will fade in time but inner beauty will not and it will grow stronger against all odds. -
Inner beauty refers to the beauty of the character and personality of a person pocessed.
Inner beauty is real and natural, not make up. -
Is very mean to call a person stupid.Originally posted by YuPLeNg:what kind of stunt do you mean? its definitely not playful tone. He's very convinced that i am a stupid woman....
Guess my life is boring compared to his..Im more down to earth kind...He's the funky and wild type...
Why should you respect him when he is the dumb one who cannot see thru it all.
You have done so much for him and he still call you names.
One day when he grows old, he will know how people feels when he lose his looks.
stay away from this type of guys. -
wahlew, who's so zek ark?
ur potential?
gees..
how can one see the inner beauty at first sight? Doesn't make sense.. -
exactly!!~ +1Originally posted by browniebaobao:wahlew, who's so zek ark?
how can one see the inner beauty at first sight? Doesn't make sense.. -
....is something you don't know its existence unless you get in touch with that person for long. for this to happen, you must got the look first, so people will want to know you, then explore your inner beauty later on. life is cruel isn't it?
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i don't know how to classify him..my ex? or my friend?.....Anyway he said that he's stupid too cause he don't know how to be a good bf to me too...He's too used to his gfs doting on him and giving in to him all the time.. Perhaps we are just from 2 different worlds bah...
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Hmm.. he must have seen your lungs, heart, kidneys, liver etc before cos thats your 'inner beauty'. He's actually saying, 'you're in poor health see a doctor soon.....'
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inner beauty is good character and attitudes.. Of cse, to be mutually attracted to each other, you need chemistry and timing too...
Looks are impt for first impression...As time goes by, good nature is more impt..
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he's saying pretty much what everyone else is saying, "you're a fat bi.tch and haven't got a prayer in hell of getting laid."Originally posted by klishcia:Hmm.. he must have seen your lungs, heart, kidneys, liver etc before cos thats your 'inner beauty'. He's actually saying, 'you're in poor health see a doctor soon.....' -
From my point of view, it's the guy's problem.
I suppose most people have about almost the same definition of inner beauty, but apparently this guy doesn't seem to find HIS definition of inner beauty. Different people have different tastes. It doesn't mean you don't have inner beauty just because one guy said so. I'm sure that are many other people who know and can see your inner beauty. I agree with gerrykoh, its better not to hang out with him. -
Inner beauty is those things that the person has within and do (whether to you or others) that touches (your) heart/s. Everyone has that but there are those who truly exhibit and give it and there are those who doesn't readily give but wants it to/from others.
In your case, your guy is the type that wants it from others but I don't see him giving it to you.
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Originally posted by YuPLeNg:what kind of stunt do you mean? its definitely not playful tone. He's very convinced that i am a stupid woman....
Guess my life is boring compared to his..Im more down to earth kind...He's the funky and wild type...
You are who you are, not what people say you are.