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todae the gal i am chasing cried for the first time for me.. She went home and As i was feeling too tired i had a nap and din call her to check her well-being.. den she msged me and said she v sad n disappointed and cried becos i dun care abt her safety...
i mean wats wrong sia... i am veri tired and took a nap which i overslept..
and now i kana treated like this.. '
she dun wanna contact me in the future...
so sad n sianz
sigh.....
Any kind advice from you all??
thanks a lot.. -
Girls want to feel they are loved.Originally posted by c2on2:todae the gal i am chasing cried for the first time for me.. She went home and As i was feeling too tired i had a nap and din call her to check her well-being.. den she msged me and said she v sad n disappointed and cried becos i dun care abt her safety...
i mean wats wrong sia... i am veri tired and took a nap which i overslept..
and now i kana treated like this.. '
she dun wanna contact me in the future...
so sad n sianz
sigh.....
Any kind advice from you all??
thanks a lot..
By the way, did you send her back or she go back herself? If you send her back, I don't think she will expect this call because you saw her safely enter her house. If you didn't, she obviously will expect you to call her to make sure that she is safe.
You say you are chasing her, but your actions are showing otherwise. Girls are pretty sensitive to such things, they take note of every little thing you do for them, like buying things for them, take them to dinner, surprised them once in a while, etc...
Try contacting her again. Say that you were tired and overslept and that's why didn't call her. Try to make up to her. Don't lie. -
how late was that?
she is juz the girl that u are wooing right?
a bit over reacted and demanding i think.
it's only gentleman of u to ask her whether she has reached home safely or wat. but if u dun.. at the most, disappointed ba.. why cry leh?
are u 'not that into her'?
reminds me of that book.
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ahhem! Side-effects of love-sick chinese drama series!
Ok... some girls can be really stubborn... no offense here... And the only way to fix this is to get her to drink enough alcohol that she would forget everything! Usually saying sorry doesn't work in such situations, even if she does accept your apology, in future arguements she might still use this incident against you.
You could try smsing her "Hey, I'm getting really worried about you.. pls reply me alrite?" Then wait for afew days and she might reply. -
if u really wanna get her back as a friend/smt more than a friend..it would do u good to surprise her at her doorstep with some gift/flowers..
try get her down to somewhere quiet and private and talk things out with her
btw how old are u? -
yawn wats new ?Originally posted by c2on2:todae the gal i am chasing cried for the first time for me.. She went home and As i was feeling too tired i had a nap and din call her to check her well-being.. den she msged me and said she v sad n disappointed and cried becos i dun care abt her safety...
i mean wats wrong sia... i am veri tired and took a nap which i overslept..
and now i kana treated like this.. '
she dun wanna contact me in the future...
so sad n sianz
sigh.....
Any kind advice from you all??
thanks a lot..
Girls are always saying this lar.
If she really want decide not to contact you at all why bother to sms you?
Why she cry for you anyway? you bully is it ? -
jus keep apologize lo she will surely soft heart and forgive u deOriginally posted by c2on2:todae the gal i am chasing cried for the first time for me.. She went home and As i was feeling too tired i had a nap and din call her to check her well-being.. den she msged me and said she v sad n disappointed and cried becos i dun care abt her safety...
i mean wats wrong sia... i am veri tired and took a nap which i overslept..
and now i kana treated like this.. '
she dun wanna contact me in the future...
so sad n sianz
sigh.....
Any kind advice from you all??
thanks a lot.. -
chim man....she is only the gal you are chasing and she said such things to you? So, it means she likes you too lah....so damn obvious...
gals are like this...tomorrow, go and find her, ask her to be your gf...sure will succeed...pacify her abit first..