wat shld i do?
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my story....
i got his email address when he was looking for a song which i successfully found it. added him on msn coz it was also the same email address.
subsequently i asked for his hp no. & we both exchanged hp no.
i made use of the song to get his contact.
To the_den: if u get to see her again, try to say 'hi' & strike a conservation. see if u have any similar interests & from there, find an opportunity to get her contact.
but then he is leaving next mth....
i dunno wat to do. confess?
i wont be at workplace for 6 working days due to some commitments & tat leaves 9 days to see him ard.
so far we have gone out for lunch a few times & most of the time we talk abt more personal stuff than work. sometimes we can have a sms conversation from afternoon to night, exchanging abt 20+ sms each. sometimes he initiates the smses but most of the time it was me who started it first, same as for msn.
i have asked him out before with my friend but we didnt get to meet tat day as i lost my hp the day before & there were last minute changes which he couldnt contact me(coz i lost my hp). the first time i asked him out, he said he wasnt free on tat day but would be free the following week. but i was glad he didnt turn down the meeting straight without indicating he wants to go out.
i dunno wat to do with the remaining 9 days. when he told me he is tendering his resignation letter last thu, i was speechless for a while thou i knew it was on his mind all along.
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well.. best thing you could do as a friend is to give him a farewell party? or tell him he's a interesting person and you would want to know him more.
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hmm wld a farewell party seem inappropriate coz he is resigning due to the work stress & low pay there?Originally posted by dunn1e:well.. best thing you could do as a friend is to give him a farewell party? or tell him he's a interesting person and you would want to know him more. -
subsequently i asked for his hp no. & we both exchanged hp no. i made use of the song to get his contact. if u get to see her again, try to say 'hi' & strike a conservation. see if u have any similar interests & from there, find an opportunity to get her contact.
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huh.. which part are you confused abt?Originally posted by browniebaobao: -
you should call him.
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talk to him
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subsequently i asked for his hp no. & we both exchanged hp no. i made use of the song to get his contact. if u get to see her again, try to say 'hi' & strike a conservation. see if u have any similar interests & from there, find an opportunity to get her contact.Originally posted by morningglory:huh.. which part are you confused abt?
"if u get to see her again..... contact"
him or her?
tot u alrd got his hp number?
then wat "if u get to see her again?"
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Originally posted by morningglory:
it's too late man, find another guy and give him your best wishes
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[b]my story....
i got his email address when he was looking for a song which i successfully found it. added him on msn coz it was also the same email address.
subsequently i asked for his hp no. & we both exchanged hp no. i made use of the song to get his contact. if u get to see her again, try to say 'hi' & strike a conservation. see if u have any similar interests & from there, find an opportunity to get her contact.
but then he is leaving next mth....
i dunno wat to do. confess?
i wont be at workplace for 6 working days due to some commitments & tat leaves 9 days to see him ard. so far we have gone out for lunch a few times & most of the time we talk abt more personal stuff than work. sometimes we can have a sms conversation from afternoon to night, exchanging abt 20+ sms each. sometimes he initiates the smses but most of the time it was me who started it first, same as for msn.
i have asked him out before with my friend but we didnt get to meet tat day as i lost my hp the day before & there were last minute changes which he couldnt contact me(coz i lost my hp). the first time i asked him out, he said he wasnt free on tat day but would be free the following week. but i was glad he didnt turn down the meeting straight without indicating he wants to go out.
i dunno wat to do with the remaining 9 days. when he told me he is tendering his resignation letter last thu, i was speechless for a while thou i knew it was on his mind all along.
wat shld i do?
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:
oh..haha...the 'his' refers to my crush.
[b]subsequently i asked for his hp no. & we both exchanged hp no. i made use of the song to get his contact. if u get to see her again, try to say 'hi' & strike a conservation. see if u have any similar interests & from there, find an opportunity to get her contact.
"if u get to see her again..... contact"
him or her?
tot u alrd got his hp number?
then wat "if u get to see her again?"
telling who? [/b]
'her' refers to the threadstarter the_den's crush from the above link. i was telling the_den if he saw her again, try to say hi & talk something.
sorry...i forgot to paragraph for the part.
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Originally posted by morningglory:
humm after reading your story i find one part a bit strange.
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[b]my story....
i got his email address when he was looking for a song which i successfully found it. added him on msn coz it was also the same email address.
subsequently i asked for his hp no. & we both exchanged hp no. i made use of the song to get his contact.
To the_den: if u get to see her again, try to say 'hi' & strike a conservation. see if u have any similar interests & from there, find an opportunity to get her contact.
but then he is leaving next mth....
i dunno wat to do. confess?
i wont be at workplace for 6 working days due to some commitments & tat leaves 9 days to see him ard. so far we have gone out for lunch a few times & most of the time we talk abt more personal stuff than work. sometimes we can have a sms conversation from afternoon to night, exchanging abt 20+ sms each. sometimes he initiates the smses but most of the time it was me who started it first, same as for msn.
i have asked him out before with my friend but we didnt get to meet tat day as i lost my hp the day before & there were last minute changes which he couldnt contact me(coz i lost my hp). the first time i asked him out, he said he wasnt free on tat day but would be free the following week. but i was glad he didnt turn down the meeting straight without indicating he wants to go out.
i dunno wat to do with the remaining 9 days. when he told me he is tendering his resignation letter last thu, i was speechless for a while thou i knew it was on his mind all along.
wat shld i do?
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why
you say you like the guy? he smsed you a few times rite?
He is willing to go out with your then why are you so worried?
From what i notice the guy knows what he wants and if he wants to go let him go and find a new job.
Wats is the point of confessing so fast and he agrees and after a few months break cos you do not know him well?
I would recomand that you stay put and do not confess so fast. Love is not to be hurried and will only cos you to look strange to him.
come on lar after a few sms and calls a girl says she likes you ? will the guy get a shock of his life? Take it slow. If he leaves then still comes back to look for you then there is some hope that he likes you. If not is just a waste of time. -
both of you have each others' contacts, so whats the fear about?
so what if he is leaving? You mean, couples must all work in same place?
If you really become couple, you will think twice in working in the same place!
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so desu ka~Originally posted by morningglory:oh..haha...the 'his' refers to my crush.
'her' refers to the threadstarter the_den's crush from the above link. i was telling the_den if he saw her again, try to say hi & talk something.
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How about becoming a friend he can talk to...?Originally posted by morningglory:hmm wld a farewell party seem inappropriate coz he is resigning due to the work stress & low pay there? -
sometimes we do talk a bit abt our feelings abt work or personal life. but sometimes when i wanna talk to him, i dunno wat topic to talk abt when i see him on msn. he also doesnt msn or sms me much. so i just 'watch' him gaming away while on msn. how do i start a topic naturally & also wont appear like a pest to initiate conversations so often?Originally posted by Devil1976:How about becoming a friend he can talk to...? -
Find subjects to talk about... Conversation is a form of art and a basic communication in relationships... If you feel that you don't know what to talk about with him today, how do you suppose you could easily survive a relationship with him for the rest of the future days...?Originally posted by morningglory:sometimes we do talk a bit abt our feelings abt work or personal life. but sometimes when i wanna talk to him, i dunno wat topic to talk abt when i see him on msn. he also doesnt msn or sms me much. so i just 'watch' him gaming away while on msn. how do i start a topic naturally & also wont appear like a pest to initiate conversations so often?
Talk about interest, daily happenings and experience.. Personal opinions.... PSLE oral test also do that yeah? Don't have to teach you again...?