Man can be such bastard...
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I and my ger have been stead for 6 months.We love each other very much Knowing her ex had taken her first time! My jealously and ego corrupts my mind and I decide to ask her for sex.
It happen in the sat evening,where we went for a stoll in a secluded park. While we were kissing,I suddenly popped the question but she reject bluntly. She said she didn't want! I told her I felt she loved me not enough as she could give her first time to her ex and wouldn't even satisfy my demand.She told me sex shall not use as a guage to measure her love for me and she was not prepared.She told me she agree sex with her ex after 1 yr of courtship while the time for us was not riped.I was infuriated and gave her cold shoulder.Then I decided to leave the park. She immediately follow close behind me. Finally she decided to stop me and pacified me. I could see tears began to roll down from her eyes and her worry face,worried that I will leave her for not giving in to me. She said she may considered it and she began to tremble abit. Although my heart ached for seeing her state. I decided to continued my test of her love for me despite losing the mood for intimate stuff. I then quickly ask demand her on the spot for sex. She was in disarray and I could see her unclear mental state and body language continued to negotiate whether to give in to my demand.We were at that time near a road with many passing-by cars! While I continued demand an answer from her. She finally broke down,closed her eyes and more tears roll down her eyes as she nodded her head repeatly to gesture her submition to my demand! Witnessing from a total 180 degree turn from a no to agree. I was shocked and awakened too. I also realise how much she loves me that she was even willing to submit her body and pride to make me stay beside her!
I realise how inhuman I was. She later informed me she was not comfortable to do it outside and wanted to go to my house to do the intimate stuff! Not going to inform her of my intention,I agreed and brought her back to my home. Just abt to enter house door. I could saw her tense body language ready to submit to me. We made a U-turn and I brought her to void deck where we sat down. I told her I decided not to press her not sex and will not use sex as a gauge to measure her love for me! I told her we will only do it when she was comfortable.I could see she immediately felt relax and broke into a smile and she informed me of her bad sex experience with her ex. I felt sorry for her and decided to make a pact of not having premarital sex. After that I gave her $10 to take a cab home.
After this incident,I realise man can be such bastard which they can abuse their position and their partner's love for them and force them to submit to all kind of their demand.It also let me real life experience the evil tatic depoyed by those bastard which how they forced their partner into giving their first to them and dumped them including my ger ex. I strongly urge all guy who had a wonderful gf who love them so deep,not to play around with their feeling and instead cherish their presence,being faithful.For those who continue thier action ,I believe will suffer retribution -
Real story ar?
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How old are you?
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Thats really true,im sorry to hear what has happened to your girlfriend on her first experience and i also can tell that u are a person who loves your girlfriend very much.
Good luck in this relationship. Men can be bastard at times,but it's us men who ultimately make this choice.I salute you for your decision not to have sex with your girlfriend in order for her to prove her love for you
Hello? You are going to press for sex later on? omg...don't press for sex so early man! can you handle the responsibilities? think twice!
On the flipside,i think you are evil to pressure her and make her cry
If you are going to pressure her into having sex with you and by not marrying her later on in your life,you will not be of any difference to the first boyfriend. -
yes i agree tt u r a bastard for playg around w the feelings of some1 important to u...
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man u S.O.B! but i cannot deny.. its not about us being a bastard sometimes.. its about how stupid they are. N hope that these lessons passed down to the other generations will know that love.. is not measured by sex.But as usual.. still happens.. so what to do ? some ppl like u.. will come online n let it out ...
Anyways... whats with the 10 Dollar CAB FEE!
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cool
i will try this sometime -
well i am thankful that u realized your moment of folly in time..
to say u are a bastard would be wrong of me,becuz u did make up for it..take it easy..at least u urself made a complete 180 change by not giving in to your inner desires..brave..
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Hmm.
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now you may think so, later you will think otherwise.
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Originally posted by M©+square:
Can we blanket party this guy?
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Simpleheat, anytime you feel horny in the future try to remind yourself of this incident.
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If he's underage, i'd suggest we counsel him.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Can we blanket party this guy?
underage = 12 yrs and below.
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First your girlfirend is very lucky 2 have found u . Its a very sad thing tat this is happening most guys nowadays no longer understands wats love maybe tat why more n more girls r losing fiath in us n r turning 2 other girls.Second i look down n curse all those idiots out there.
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Many ways to look into it.
He may realise his mistake this time. But now he knows her threshold, he knows he could do it at any other time. She will obey.
That is why test water is a dangerous practice in r/s especially when it's about these issues.
There's first time. There's second and so on.
>>>Simply because - Power is irresistable. He might end up crying.
She might use this incident as very good reason to leave the r/s, or two time.
>>> Power and test water practice backfired. Yes MC's post might be paranoid and cynical.
The purpose is to let him know. All things have effect and consequences. -
you are so bad to do that to your gf.. sobx sobx
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I think he is still ok la compare 2 those tat toys with love
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you are not a bastard for not asking her for sex eventually.
but i feel you're a bastard for making her cry when she already stated she didnt want it. -
Hmmmm sinicker u have a point, so lets this be a reminder tat we must think twice in watever we do
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wah piang... send her home personally lah...Originally posted by Simpleheat:that I gave her $10 to take a cab home.
and, u dun ask sex from a girl at a secluded park..
O pls! U got to set the mood first.. romantic dinner, flowers...
bring her home, romantic music... and turn her on first...
and she will give it to u...
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YOU ARE SUCH A BASTARD! IF YOU ASKED FOR IT YOU SHOULD JUST DO IT!Originally posted by Simpleheat:I and my ger have been stead for 6 months.We love each other very much Knowing her ex had taken her first time! My jealously and ego corrupts my mind and I decide to ask her for sex.
It happen in the sat evening,where we went for a stoll in a secluded park. While we were kissing,I suddenly popped the question but she reject bluntly. She said she didn't want! I told her I felt she loved me not enough as she could give her first time to her ex and wouldn't even satisfy my demand.She told me sex shall not use as a guage to measure her love for me and she was not prepared.She told me she agree sex with her ex after 1 yr of courtship while the time for us was not riped.I was infuriated and gave her cold shoulder.Then I decided to leave the park. She immediately follow close behind me. Finally she decided to stop me and pacified me. I could see tears began to roll down from her eyes and her worry face,worried that I will leave her for not giving in to me. She said she may considered it and she began to tremble abit. Although my heart ached for seeing her state. I decided to continued my test of her love for me despite losing the mood for intimate stuff. I then quickly ask demand her on the spot for sex. She was in disarray and I could see her unclear mental state and body language continued to negotiate whether to give in to my demand.We were at that time near a road with many passing-by cars! While I continued demand an answer from her. She finally broke down,closed her eyes and more tears roll down her eyes as she nodded her head repeatly to gesture her submition to my demand! Witnessing from a total 180 degree turn from a no to agree. I was shocked and awakened too. I also realise how much she loves me that she was even willing to submit her body and pride to make me stay beside her!
I realise how inhuman I was. She later informed me she was not comfortable to do it outside and wanted to go to my house to do the intimate stuff! Not going to inform her of my intention,I agreed and brought her back to my home. Just abt to enter house door. I could saw her tense body language ready to submit to me. We made a U-turn and I brought her to void deck where we sat down. I told her I decided not to press her not sex and will not use sex as a gauge to measure her love for me! I told her we will only do it when she was comfortable.I could see she immediately felt relax and broke into a smile and she informed me of her bad sex experience with her ex. I felt sorry for her and decided to make a pact of not having premarital sex. After that I gave her $10 to take a cab home.
After this incident,I realise man can be such bastard which they can abuse their position and their partner's love for them and force them to submit to all kind of their demand.It also let me real life experience the evil tatic depoyed by those bastard which how they forced their partner into giving their first to them and dumped them including my ger ex. I strongly urge all guy who had a wonderful gf who love them so deep,not to play around with their feeling and instead cherish their presence,being faithful.For those who continue thier action ,I believe will suffer retribution -
Look at the brightside.. at least you she loves you very much despite what a scum you are
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Wait till you tried the Wheelbarrow in the garden..
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if i were her, i would have broke up with u when u insisted.
wahlew, of all things say wat she dun love u, that's y dun give u but gave her ex. tmd~ if u really forced her, then u are really a bastard.