Man can be such bastard...
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Are you trying to stereotype age with irrational behaviour?Originally posted by M©+square:You have not answered.
How old are you?
grrrrrrrrr
/bangs knuckles.
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Man!? You are the bastard not all Man.... Maybe many but not all.
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dude, 10 bucks is not enough leh...Originally posted by Nelstar:Don't like that ma.... try saying this instead...
Sex can be bought with money. Love can't.
If you want sex, go find prostitutes. -
Cherish your gf
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oh i went through the same thing wit my x. he forced me for a year. even when i was ill he would force me to do it with him. now with my fiance. it took him a while to even get me to open back up to the idea of sex.
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Originally posted by Simpleheat:I and my ger have been stead for 6 months.We love each other very much Knowing her ex had taken her first time! My jealously and ego corrupts my mind and I decide to ask her for sex.
It happen in the sat evening,where we went for a stoll in a secluded park. While we were kissing,I suddenly popped the question but she reject bluntly. She said she didn't want! I told her I felt she loved me not enough as she could give her first time to her ex and wouldn't even satisfy my demand.She told me sex shall not use as a guage to measure her love for me and she was not prepared.She told me she agree sex with her ex after 1 yr of courtship while the time for us was not riped.I was infuriated and gave her cold shoulder.Then I decided to leave the park. She immediately follow close behind me. Finally she decided to stop me and pacified me. I could see tears began to roll down from her eyes and her worry face,worried that I will leave her for not giving in to me. She said she may considered it and she began to tremble abit. Although my heart ached for seeing her state. I decided to continued my test of her love for me despite losing the mood for intimate stuff. I then quickly ask demand her on the spot for sex. She was in disarray and I could see her unclear mental state and body language continued to negotiate whether to give in to my demand.We were at that time near a road with many passing-by cars! While I continued demand an answer from her. She finally broke down,closed her eyes and more tears roll down her eyes as she nodded her head repeatly to gesture her submition to my demand! Witnessing from a total 180 degree turn from a no to agree. I was shocked and awakened too. I also realise how much she loves me that she was even willing to submit her body and pride to make me stay beside her!
I realise how inhuman I was. She later informed me she was not comfortable to do it outside and wanted to go to my house to do the intimate stuff! Not going to inform her of my intention,I agreed and brought her back to my home. Just abt to enter house door. I could saw her tense body language ready to submit to me. We made a U-turn and I brought her to void deck where we sat down. I told her I decided not to press her not sex and will not use sex as a gauge to measure her love for me! I told her we will only do it when she was comfortable.I could see she immediately felt relax and broke into a smile and she informed me of her bad sex experience with her ex. I felt sorry for her and decided to make a pact of not having premarital sex. After that I gave her $10 to take a cab home.
After this incident,I realise man can be such bastard which they can abuse their position and their partner's love for them and force them to submit to all kind of their demand.It also let me real life experience the evil tatic depoyed by those bastard which how they forced their partner into giving their first to them and dumped them including my ger ex. I strongly urge all guy who had a wonderful gf who love them so deep,not to play around with their feeling and instead cherish their presence,being faithful.For those who continue thier action ,I believe will suffer retribution
You are playing with fire and turning the flames into a potential conflagration that could have obliterate this relationship beyond your conscious control.
I am safe to say that I understand your situation more than anyone else here, for we have spoken prior before this (although there wasn't any reply back from you).
Your definition of what love is to you is gradually degenerating to your wounded masculine ego and your craving hedonistic self absorbed desire. And if you thought that she must have love you so much that she eventually relented to your sexual request - your grave mistake begin from here.
What happens is that when you requested sex so vulgarly and reduced your level to that of a primitive sentinel with strong animalistic instinct, it tarnished and annihilate the 'you' which she had originally thought she knew. This love that you thought she gave herself to you, is pressured by emotions, which is 24 TIMES stronger than the rational mind.
She gave in not to Love; she gave in to circumstances.
In fact, it will bring stark confusion to her if you accepted her 'decision' and go along with sex.
Then you became a replica of her ex.
Your ego is so severely bruised that you have to assert MCP domination into your relationship. And if you let it evolve longer, your relationship would have been laid with numerous cracks that find difficulty in mending later on. This is a vicious cycle, because of a flawed perception, for her ex 'enjoyed' something which you prized very much, but you are too prudish to understand that sex and love doesn't always necessary come together.
She has already lived out of her past; stop sprinkling salts onto her old wounds.
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please dont stereotype other people with your own standard.
you are a man, you are lousy, you are a bastard. that does not equal to other man being a bastard like you. -
they say a man has two heads..so i reckon he was thinking with the latter..d***head.
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switch the gender around, and substitute the sxx for diamond ring and u will find that women are bas tards too.Originally posted by Simpleheat:I and my ger have been stead for 6 months.We love each other very much Knowing her ex had taken her first time! My jealously and ego corrupts my mind and I decide to ask her for sex.
It happen in the sat evening,where we went for a stoll in a secluded park. While we were kissing,I suddenly popped the question but she reject bluntly. She said she didn't want! I told her I felt she loved me not enough as she could give her first time to her ex and wouldn't even satisfy my demand.She told me sex shall not use as a guage to measure her love for me and she was not prepared.She told me she agree sex with her ex after 1 yr of courtship while the time for us was not riped.I was infuriated and gave her cold shoulder.Then I decided to leave the park. She immediately follow close behind me. Finally she decided to stop me and pacified me. I could see tears began to roll down from her eyes and her worry face,worried that I will leave her for not giving in to me. She said she may considered it and she began to tremble abit. Although my heart ached for seeing her state. I decided to continued my test of her love for me despite losing the mood for intimate stuff. I then quickly ask demand her on the spot for sex. She was in disarray and I could see her unclear mental state and body language continued to negotiate whether to give in to my demand.We were at that time near a road with many passing-by cars! While I continued demand an answer from her. She finally broke down,closed her eyes and more tears roll down her eyes as she nodded her head repeatly to gesture her submition to my demand! Witnessing from a total 180 degree turn from a no to agree. I was shocked and awakened too. I also realise how much she loves me that she was even willing to submit her body and pride to make me stay beside her!
I realise how inhuman I was. She later informed me she was not comfortable to do it outside and wanted to go to my house to do the intimate stuff! Not going to inform her of my intention,I agreed and brought her back to my home. Just abt to enter house door. I could saw her tense body language ready to submit to me. We made a U-turn and I brought her to void deck where we sat down. I told her I decided not to press her not sex and will not use sex as a gauge to measure her love for me! I told her we will only do it when she was comfortable.I could see she immediately felt relax and broke into a smile and she informed me of her bad sex experience with her ex. I felt sorry for her and decided to make a pact of not having premarital sex. After that I gave her $10 to take a cab home.
After this incident,I realise man can be such bastard which they can abuse their position and their partner's love for them and force them to submit to all kind of their demand.It also let me real life experience the evil tatic depoyed by those bastard which how they forced their partner into giving their first to them and dumped them including my ger ex. I strongly urge all guy who had a wonderful gf who love them so deep,not to play around with their feeling and instead cherish their presence,being faithful.For those who continue thier action ,I believe will suffer retribution -
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She said she didn't want!
-Guys, gals don think of sex as something that gauges love. guys may have raging testosterone, but not all gals think sex is even necessary. just show her you love her and respect her, which means no pressuring for sex-
I told her I felt she loved me not enough as she could give her first time to her ex and wouldn't even satisfy my demand.She told me sex shall not use as a guage to measure her love for me and she was not prepared.She told me she agree sex with her ex after [b]1 yr of courtship while the time for us was not riped.
-Duh your gf is a levelheaded gal to not cheapen herself and give in to anyone who asks. 1 yr means she trusted that guy, yet he still turned out to be such an ass. So if u 1/2 yr then already ask for it, means you will forever have that idea to have sex with her in mind. I'm telling you, even if u think u love her a lot, having sex b4 marriage and committment will change you. Don't even have that thought that you will have sex with her b4 marriage, cuz judging by her response to you, she's a gal who treasures her love and herself.-
I was infuriated and gave her cold shoulder.Then I decided to leave the park. She immediately follow close behind me. Finally she decided to stop me and pacified me. I could see tears began to roll down from her eyes and her worry face,worried that I will leave her for not giving in to me. She said she may considered it and she began to tremble abit. Although my heart ached for seeing her state. I decided to continued my test of her love for me despite losing the mood for intimate stuff.
-You were infuriated cuz she refused to have sex with you? BOY! Don't be stupid. The fact that she didn't give in to you means that she trusts that you will respect her. Yet you have shown that she's put her trust in the wrong place.-
-You lost the mood for intimate stuff = you really wanted to have sex if she agreed and NOT JUST TO TEST HER. Which also = you are just like her ex.-
Witnessing from a total 180 degree turn from a no to agree. I was shocked and awakened too. I also realise how much she loves me that she was even willing to submit her body and pride to make me stay beside her!
-As gals, we understand that guys have high sex drive or something liddat. That is the only reason why we tend to give in when guys do something like what you did (stomping off and getting angry cuz we refused to have sex). We noe you guys have this warped thought that having sex = loving u a lot. You noe what I think about guys like this? They just don't dare to find prostitutes. If you have too much sexual tension in you, just go wank yourself. Don't think that a gf is duty-bound to help you relieve your sexual tension. You think it's cuz u love her that's y u feel horny? You feel that even from teenage years lor, b4 u even knew her. Like i said, to most of us gals, sex not = to love. For those of us gals who feel that sex is = to love, those ppl are just too insecure to realise her valuable they are.-
After this incident,I realise man can be such bastard which they can abuse their position and their partner's love for them and force them to submit to all kind of their demand.It also let me real life experience the evil tatic depoyed by those bastard which how they forced their partner into giving their first to them and dumped them including my ger ex. I strongly urge all guy who had a wonderful gf who love them so deep,not to play around with their feeling and instead cherish their presence,being faithful.For those who continue thier action ,I believe will suffer retribution.
-Glad you realised. But there are tons of guys out there who are too dumb to realise. Don't you guys think it's funny to hurt gals. You will suffer when gals decide to hurt you back.-
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the girl also at fualt. since she had precedence of having sex with bfs, she should at least explain and give good reason why she dun want to do so again.
if no reason then must be she dun like him much lor......... -
u fark off la,but at least u realise it in the end
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Woooooo!Originally posted by spencer99:switch the gender around, and substitute the sxx for diamond ring and u will find that women are bas tards too.
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I'm glad you didn't pressurise her in the end... Men are so heartless sometimes.
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Yea... guys.. at least In the End he never do it mahhh right.. anyway i still think that u are a BASTARD for making her cryOriginally posted by candyger:thank goodness u repented.. or else, i dunno what to say liao le..
cherish ur gf manz.
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it's true but at least u admit it. That shows u arent' that bad after allOriginally posted by Simpleheat:I and my ger have been stead for 6 months.We love each other very much Knowing her ex had taken her first time! My jealously and ego corrupts my mind and I decide to ask her for sex.
It happen in the sat evening,where we went for a stoll in a secluded park. While we were kissing,I suddenly popped the question but she reject bluntly. She said she didn't want! I told her I felt she loved me not enough as she could give her first time to her ex and wouldn't even satisfy my demand.She told me sex shall not use as a guage to measure her love for me and she was not prepared.She told me she agree sex with her ex after 1 yr of courtship while the time for us was not riped.I was infuriated and gave her cold shoulder.Then I decided to leave the park. She immediately follow close behind me. Finally she decided to stop me and pacified me. I could see tears began to roll down from her eyes and her worry face,worried that I will leave her for not giving in to me. She said she may considered it and she began to tremble abit. Although my heart ached for seeing her state. I decided to continued my test of her love for me despite losing the mood for intimate stuff. I then quickly ask demand her on the spot for sex. She was in disarray and I could see her unclear mental state and body language continued to negotiate whether to give in to my demand.We were at that time near a road with many passing-by cars! While I continued demand an answer from her. She finally broke down,closed her eyes and more tears roll down her eyes as she nodded her head repeatly to gesture her submition to my demand! Witnessing from a total 180 degree turn from a no to agree. I was shocked and awakened too. I also realise how much she loves me that she was even willing to submit her body and pride to make me stay beside her!
I realise how inhuman I was. She later informed me she was not comfortable to do it outside and wanted to go to my house to do the intimate stuff! Not going to inform her of my intention,I agreed and brought her back to my home. Just abt to enter house door. I could saw her tense body language ready to submit to me. We made a U-turn and I brought her to void deck where we sat down. I told her I decided not to press her not sex and will not use sex as a gauge to measure her love for me! I told her we will only do it when she was comfortable.I could see she immediately felt relax and broke into a smile and she informed me of her bad sex experience with her ex. I felt sorry for her and decided to make a pact of not having premarital sex. After that I gave her $10 to take a cab home.
After this incident,I realise man can be such bastard which they can abuse their position and their partner's love for them and force them to submit to all kind of their demand.It also let me real life experience the evil tatic depoyed by those bastard which how they forced their partner into giving their first to them and dumped them including my ger ex. I strongly urge all guy who had a wonderful gf who love them so deep,not to play around with their feeling and instead cherish their presence,being faithful.For those who continue thier action ,I believe will suffer retribution -
She cries because ...
she thought at last this one is a real trustworthy gentleman, turned out he is just like every other men, they just want one thing.
One and only thing.
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u acted like a jerk. of cos she cried..you dump her in secluded park leh. she follow u prolly same reason...scared....who wanna be alone in such a place? she girl somemore.
well at least u did control urselfand spare a thought for her in the end....although ur thinking in da first place olreadi very skewered liao.
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aiyo
why you all condemn him..
i think it's a good learning experience for him.
how many of us even has the opportunity to learn this?
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How many woman actually need a man to buy her a diamond ring these days?Originally posted by spencer99:switch the gender around, and substitute the sxx for diamond ring and u will find that women are bas tards too.
I believe any working woman can afford to buy herself a diamond ring.
I'm still a student, But I CAN AFFORD IT. -
got one such retard male bastard who ownself stand up liaoOriginally posted by BigBlueBird:YOU ARE SUCH A BASTARD! IF YOU ASKED FOR IT YOU SHOULD JUST DO IT! -
oh really? u really believe he's the only guy who's been a bastard? are u naive or what?Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:From your story I can only conclude you're a bastard. You cannot judge others based on what you did, that's really dumb. It's just like saying, hey I like to eat pasta, and I am a man, hence I conclude all men likes to eat pasta. Where's the logic man?
or are u one of those bastards who are unhappy at being pointed out as one? I sincerely hope not, but u know that what he says has a lot of truth in it, and it's very representative of a lot of men as well. U really think even though other men press their gf for sex, we cannot judge them bastards? I dunno why u think the way u like, but like i said, i sincerely hope u're not one of those bastards. -
believe waht you will but many women still want or expect the man to buy it for her. even if she can afford it.Originally posted by browniebaobao:How many woman actually need a man to buy her a diamond ring these days?
I believe any working woman can afford to buy herself a diamond ring.
I'm still a student, But I CAN AFFORD IT. -
u know, if the story didn't sting so close to the truth, why would so many guys get defensive? No like I said in my previous post, do u seriously think other men are all angels?Originally posted by NewAge:...................... good luck on yr venture. But please u are the bastard not other man.