letters/gifts from ex.
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my house gonna be renovated soon. so most probably while packing up, i will have to open the 1st drawer on my study desk which contains all the gifts/letters frm my ex. what should i do with them.. just dump them into the rubbish bin?
heart will pain man.. even after 4 months we broke up.. -
den keep la...memories ma..can show ur new gf also..
nah kidding bout that part..but there's no harm keeping..surely there are good times worth remembering.. -
I still keep stuff from my ex till now. Its all locked in a drawer which I seldom open. Aiyah, but if it dosent serves you anymore, just dump them. One less burden to carry around.
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up to u la..
ask us for wat?
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Can keep lor, if you like. But then if the sight of it hurts u THAT much, then just dump them lor... then try to forget about it and move on with life...
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actually the past shapes the present/future..Originally posted by shade343:I still keep stuff from my ex till now. Its all locked in a drawer which I seldom open. Aiyah, but if it dosent serves you anymore, just dump them. One less burden to carry around.
so when u look at it,u might now understand and know what went wrong if there was a mistake somewhere and not repeat it again. -
If the past relationship causes e to remember nothing but haartache, Im better off without it. But of course, the relationship itself is already a lesson. I suppose those items are not necessary.Originally posted by stellazio:actually the past shapes the present/future..
so when u look at it,u might now understand and know what went wrong if there was a mistake somewhere and not repeat it again. -
but if he is still hurting after 4 months..maybe there were many happy times..Originally posted by shade343:If the past relationship causes e to remember nothing but haartache, Im better off without it. But of course, the relationship itself is already a lesson. I suppose those items are not necessary. -
hmm keep in a box where you wont open again. but you know its still there lo. the memories~ maybe 1 or 2 years later then throw?
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Keep it lor...Its all part of the memories u 2 once shared....Trust me, the pain will all go away one day...But memories will remain with u 4ever...ha
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when i moved... i threw EVERYTHING away...
add more weight for me to carry
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Originally posted by shinta:when i moved... i threw EVERYTHING away...
add more weight for me to carry 
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ok lah.. guess i'll throw them all away. i just cant let go ah.. it's hard. the 7 months was magical..
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aiyah...depends la... this is your how many ex??... if ur first ex...then keep lor....if its ur tenth one....then just throw away laa...u will receive lots again soon. hahah
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5th how? keep half, throw half?Originally posted by mhcampboy:aiyah...depends la... this is your how many ex??... if ur first ex...then keep lor....if its ur tenth one....then just throw away laa...u will receive lots again soon. hahah
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see if you can put the things to good use
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letters are ok to keep as long as your new gf dont mind....
as for the gifts, if you want, keep it..if you dont want, give it to others who might have use for them...
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Keep depending on what kind of ex. If cheated/betrayed.. then throw everything away. If nice person, then most probably keep lor. In fact, im using perfume my ex gf gave me to spray my car
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u did not mention wat gift lehOriginally posted by sinicker:my house gonna be renovated soon. so most probably while packing up, i will have to open the 1st drawer on my study desk which contains all the gifts/letters frm my ex. what should i do with them.. just dump them into the rubbish bin?
heart will pain man.. even after 4 months we broke up.. -
u dun need to keep these stuff...Originally posted by sinicker:ok lah.. guess i'll throw them all away. i just cant let go ah.. it's hard. the 7 months was magical..
everything's locked up here (points her finger at snicker bar's temple)
things may get spoilt, the letters may be torn... but the memories.. are all locked up in our brains -
Sinicker,
You don't hafta dump them if you don't want to. Why don't you use this chance to pack them into a box, & seal it. Don't open it until your wounds have healed.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by sinicker:my house gonna be renovated soon. so most probably while packing up, i will have to open the 1st drawer on my study desk which contains all the gifts/letters frm my ex. what should i do with them.. just dump them into the rubbish bin?
heart will pain man.. even after 4 months we broke up.. -
hMz...i never pack them in a box or hide them...in fact, i put them on my shelves n tables....rather than to avoid them, i face them....
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since you feel this way, keep them.
you can throw them out when u feel like you want to.
But it is not a must to throw it out, I still keep stuff i got from my ex, photos and etc. it's just that to some ppl, throwing these stuff away offer them some sort of closure, but if you do not need to throw them away, then don't. be it if their the past or not, they are still part of your life. memories. I'll treasure mine -
You can keep all you want.
Just make sure your girlfriend or wife doesn't find them.
Or else there will be hell to pay.
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No leh...my gf saw them leh but says nothing leh...Originally posted by charlize:You can keep all you want.
Just make sure your girlfriend or wife doesn't find them.
Or else there will be hell to pay.
Really.