HOW TO UNDERSTAND A GIRL TRULY!!!
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GUYS help me!! i kinda like this girl and i nv been in a relationship before! But i dunno how to go and really understand her....
im afraid that she think im too bored for her.... -
jus start by being friends wif her.....proceed onli if u feel dat she suits u....
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Chat with her on phone or MSN a few times ,then ask her out for a date like buffet or a simple dinner to develop further. If during the dinner ,u think is positive,more date in future is expected.. If managed to get the first date with her and is late in nite. Remember to send her home personally
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Through frenship lor.. tts the most effective way le
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just be yourself
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Erm, 00900, correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't a relationship about understanding each other? If you wanna truly understand a girl now, then erm, there wouldn't be anything left to understand in a relationship, right? Then how izzit gonna survive till marriage?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by 00900:GUYS help me!! i kinda like this girl and i nv been in a relationship before! But i dunno how to go and really understand her.... im afraid that she think im too bored for her.... -
To understand a girl truly, you have to be a girl. But that would make you lez, surely you understand the undelying implications of such a situation right?
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As a guy, you will have an easier time understanding human genome mapping, thermo nuclear physics or Nanomechanics.
Understanding women?
You might be up for a Nobel Prize if you ever figure that one out. -
when will one person truely understand another person.....
NEVER.
things change, environment change, PPL change.
that's life, understanding your partner is a process...
take your time and let nature take it's course. -
*Claps claps claps*
FeowFeowOriginally posted by smudgey:when will one person truely understand another person.....
NEVER.
things change, environment change, PPL change.
that's life, understanding your partner is a process...
take your time and let nature take it's course. -
Originally posted by 00900:GUYS help me!! i kinda like this girl and i nv been in a relationship before! But i dunno how to go and really understand her.... im afraid that she think im too bored for her....
I think you should start by learning more about yourself first.
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brrr... one thing that never changes.. human instinct.
Could give more details?... like... same class, age, how many bfs she had b4, anything useful. -
sometimes, you cant even understand yourself, let alone understand some other people!
feelings and emotions are tooooo deeeeep for people to grasp... thats y, human are unstable creatures...haha... -
its just like asking how to understand a guy truly.
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If you got lots of money you never need to understand the intricacies of the female mind. Just pay as you go. Then they'll hump as you say.Originally posted by 00900:GUYS help me!! i kinda like this girl and i nv been in a relationship before! But i dunno how to go and really understand her.... im afraid that she think im too bored for her.... -
can u understand why we cant stop time?.why i always kena back stab in dota?.Originally posted by 00900:GUYS help me!! i kinda like this girl and i nv been in a relationship before! But i dunno how to go and really understand her.... im afraid that she think im too bored for her....
no right?>.
so womena re just like those expamples..
u will nvr understand them
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how to understand a girl truely? become one. Otherwise, i don't think u ever will. But perhaps u see, you shouldn't strive to understand girls. U just need to accept them, accept their faults and weaknesses, accept every part of them. U shouldn't need to understand them. And u shouldn't have to understand them and be someone u are not to woo them. If u like her, u should present your true self to her, and let her decide if u're the one for her. If u like her, u will respect AND accept her decision if she thinks u're not the one for her. That way, if she decides u're the person for her, u will know u've met someone who loves u for u.Originally posted by 00900:GUYS help me!! i kinda like this girl and i nv been in a relationship before! But i dunno how to go and really understand her.... im afraid that she think im too bored for her.... -
i got same prob as u. (:
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according to yr nick, u 're a girl leh, how can u not understand yrself?Originally posted by Technomage:i got same prob as u. (: -
Slowly get to know her first. Just befriend her, talk to her, know more about her personality etc. Then show her that you're understanding too and that you care for her. Then slowly slowly convince her to your side...
Well, all the best!
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you know the only thing that really stops you is yourself. the rest are external and not important. what if one day there is a competitor? would that push you to start making your moves or make u sit down and complain to yourself you are ''too boring'' for her?Originally posted by 00900:GUYS help me!! i kinda like this girl and i nv been in a relationship before! But i dunno how to go and really understand her.... im afraid that she think im too bored for her....
If you can't even have confidence in yourself, what makes you think you can take care of her in future?
As for understanding her, well, just observe her actions but not what she says. Her actions are much more important and it's good if they match what she says. -
dude.. tell us the situation first? if not how we help u?Originally posted by 00900:GUYS help me!! i kinda like this girl and i nv been in a relationship before! But i dunno how to go and really understand her.... im afraid that she think im too bored for her.... -
Well she's a schoolmate...1st timer mah dunno wat she will think of me! But i have keep the conversation going on bump into her will stop for a short chat or wat one then sometimes will oso go out together i tried flirting wif her but she always like change the topic dunno is shy or wat
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Hmm...
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Some good and not-so-good advice. Better than nothing right?
How about this? Be yourself and become a friend to her. That's it. Period. Remember, both of you are students in an education institution. Your priority now should be studying and getting the best results you desire.
That's why you can befriend her to understand her better. As most agree, you would still miss out things in the process. Guys are from Mar and girls are from Venus, remember? That is the beauty of a relationship.
Even relationship has different levels to look at. You can choose to be acquaintance, friend, close friend, best friend and subsequently progress to girlfriend, lover, fiancee/fiance and finally husband and wife. Just be sure you are not into puppy love phase as it tends to be short-lived. Unless you believe in love at first sight, you should take heed my advice and the rest as well.
If you are not a genuine MCP or macho guy, I do not see any problems. Take it slowly and it won't be long that girls are looking to date you out.