NO NEED him to be there for me anymore
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argh im so pissed... with myself. i've seen his true colours. why the hell did i bother looking into his eyes, and believing his lies again once more?? im stupid, im dumb, im brainless.. im blind. for those who read my the other thread ( http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=183435 ) seems like im in the wrong.. but then.. i just found out.. he's still him. he didnt change.. no, not at all.
when we were still tog in the past, everytime when i asked him wats he doing, he would jus say watching tv.. but now i found out, he's been using the net, and he blocked me in msn, so that he can chat with others.. and i wont know anything even if im online.. becos he would appear offline in my screen.
he even blocked my close frens in his list, afraid that my frens would see him and then give him away.. argh. ASSHOLE.
and when i logged in into his game acc.. i see names which are nt sup to be there, appeared there.. he told me he stopped contacting them, and that he had del them already. yes i went in once in the past, those names were gone.. now, i see them again. which means to say.. again, behind me, he's been contacting with alot of other girls....
godddddddddddd. what have i done to deserve this.. someone pls tell me. and i really thought he changed, to think that everytime i doubt him, he said i kept accusing him.. i felt so guilty for making his days bad.. and now.. im here feeling betrayed.. being lied to.. the second time.
to think that i sent him mails and smses saying im sorry.. and tryin to work things out for this r/s... he actually doesnt give a shyt at all..
im so glad now.. becos wat he did to me, jus let me get over it faster.. but.. im so afraid of trusting guys now.. i guess if i ever have another bf again, i will still keep doubting him and every of his moves.. hais..... -
Ah well.. i guess he fully epitomizes the "A Leopard never changes its spot" theory and "Jiang Shan Yi Gai Ben Xing Nan Yi"...
Find another guy ba
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not every man is like that..
this is a rotten one.
U will meet someone better.
No point getting depressed over him, making yourself so miserable anymore.
Now then u have seen his true colours, u should tell yourself to have a clean break with him lor. -
dats y ppl only hv one chance at my trust...
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yes, determined to never look back again. i looked back once, and i really regretted it.Originally posted by browniebaobao:not every man is like that..
this is a rotten one.
U will meet someone better.
No point getting depressed over him, making yourself so miserable anymore.
Now then u have seen his true colours, u should tell yourself to have a clean break with him lor.
oh ya.. forgot to add in, i did smsed him, thanking him for showing his true colours, making my life simpler, and how he felt abt askin me to change, yet again, behind me, doing stuffs like that. thou im reali disappointed in him, still i hope to see wat his replies will be.. but he nvr reply me leh.. he stopped replying me since 10 jus now. and i discovered all his lies around 2 hours later..
will he reply me tmr?? or will he not have the courage to...
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Y u say dun look back again le then still long for his replies.. forget about them la.. they dun matter anymore le..Originally posted by blueberryjam:yes, determined to never look back again. i looked back once, and i really regretted it.
oh ya.. forgot to add in, i did smsed him, thanking him for showing his true colours, making my life simpler, and how he felt abt askin me to change, yet again, behind me, doing stuffs like that. thou im reali disappointed in him, still i hope to see wat his replies will be.. but he nvr reply me leh.. he stopped replying me since 10 jus now. and i discovered all his lies around 2 hours later..
will he reply me tmr?? or will he not have the courage to... 
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I think that you expect quite a lot, maybe too much.
Seems like perhaps you might be pushing the envelope a bit in many insignificant things..like game accounts.
My two cents. -
thats wat im gonna do in the future.Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:dats y ppl only hv one chance at my trust... -
Friendster ruins lives.
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but.. i wanna know how his replies will be.. then again.. maybe i shld jus screw that and forget abt it la.. haha..Originally posted by Qing^.^:Y u say dun look back again le then still long for his replies.. forget about them la.. they dun matter anymore le.. -
Originally posted by blueberryjam:but.. i wanna know how his replies will be.. then again.. maybe i shld jus screw that and forget abt it la.. haha..
I tink he no face reply u de ba..
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since his true face is seen then forget about it and leave...Originally posted by blueberryjam:argh im so pissed... with myself. i've seen his true colours. why the hell did i bother looking into his eyes, and believing his lies again once more?? im stupid, im dumb, im brainless.. im blind. for those who read my the other thread ( http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=183435 ) seems like im in the wrong.. but then.. i just found out.. he's still him. he didnt change.. no, not at all.
when we were still tog in the past, everytime when i asked him wats he doing, he would jus say watching tv.. but now i found out, he's been using the net, and he blocked me in msn, so that he can chat with others.. and i wont know anything even if im online.. becos he would appear offline in my screen.
he even blocked my close frens in his list, afraid that my frens would see him and then give him away.. argh. ASSHOLE.
and when i logged in into his game acc.. i see names which are nt sup to be there, appeared there.. he told me he stopped contacting them, and that he had del them already. yes i went in once in the past, those names were gone.. now, i see them again. which means to say.. again, behind me, he's been contacting with alot of other girls....
godddddddddddd. what have i done to deserve this.. someone pls tell me. and i really thought he changed, to think that everytime i doubt him, he said i kept accusing him.. i felt so guilty for making his days bad.. and now.. im here feeling betrayed.. being lied to.. the second time.
to think that i sent him mails and smses saying im sorry.. and tryin to work things out for this r/s... he actually doesnt give a shyt at all..
im so glad now.. becos wat he did to me, jus let me get over it faster.. but.. im so afraid of trusting guys now.. i guess if i ever have another bf again, i will still keep doubting him and every of his moves.. hais..... -
*pat* *pat* dun get upset cos of this jerk.. cheer up and time to get urself together and move forward!
of cos guess this incident will make u wary of guys le.. but u muz noe gd guys exist de hor.. like *ahem* mi..
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it was frm frenster?Originally posted by ditzy:Friendster ruins lives. -
Originally posted by blueberryjam:argh im so pissed... with myself. i've seen his true colours. why the hell did i bother looking into his eyes, and believing his lies again once more?? im stupid, im dumb, im brainless.. im blind. for those who read my the other thread ( http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=183435 ) seems like im in the wrong.. but then.. i just found out.. he's still him. he didnt change.. no, not at all.
when we were still tog in the past, everytime when i asked him wats he doing, he would jus say watching tv.. but now i found out, he's been using the net, and he blocked me in msn, so that he can chat with others.. and i wont know anything even if im online.. becos he would appear offline in my screen.
he even blocked my close frens in his list, afraid that my frens would see him and then give him away.. argh. ASSHOLE.
and when i logged in into his game acc.. i see names which are nt sup to be there, appeared there.. he told me he stopped contacting them, and that he had del them already. yes i went in once in the past, those names were gone.. now, i see them again. which means to say.. again, behind me, he's been contacting with alot of other girls....
godddddddddddd. what have i done to deserve this.. someone pls tell me. and i really thought he changed, to think that everytime i doubt him, he said i kept accusing him.. i felt so guilty for making his days bad.. and now.. im here feeling betrayed.. being lied to.. the second time.
to think that i sent him mails and smses saying im sorry.. and tryin to work things out for this r/s... he actually doesnt give a shyt at all..
im so glad now.. becos wat he did to me, jus let me get over it faster.. but.. im so afraid of trusting guys now.. i guess if i ever have another bf again, i will still keep doubting him and every of his moves.. hais.....
Actually you have already seen and knew what you thought you have made a discovery.
It was old news; familiar pain, issues and hurt.
Your greatest fear you pressured into your subconscious, ricocheted back into reality like a powerful spring.
Do you notice your cycle?
P.S: It's always easier to gather courage to move on, than to gather courage and repeat this cycle again.
Cheers -
Originally posted by blueberryjam:yes, determined to never look back again. i looked back once, and i really regretted it.
oh ya.. forgot to add in, i did smsed him, thanking him for showing his true colours, making my life simpler, and how he felt abt askin me to change, yet again, behind me, doing stuffs like that. thou im reali disappointed in him, still i hope to see wat his replies will be.. but he nvr reply me leh.. he stopped replying me since 10 jus now. and i discovered all his lies around 2 hours later..
will he reply me tmr?? or will he not have the courage to...
wat for still wait for his sms?
heck him la..
if me, i will delete all contacts, all his smses etc liao. -
come on! in r/s, sometmes, it works, sometimes, u failed...
you found a rotten partner, but it shouldnt deter you from moving onto a new r/s too..
even if you find a good guy, he may also thinks you are not suitable for him..
to work out a stable long r/s, both parties have to work together..
wish you all the best in your new search for a Mr Right that suits you! -
Let's see it from this angle:
First, he cheated on you. Then he said sorry and that he was a fool to leave you. Then he, again, cheated on you. Who is to blame in the FIRST place? HIM. Who is to blame in the SECOND place? YOU. Who is to blame in the THIRD place? BOTH of you.
Why? Ok.
First, he cheated on you and left you heart-broken. His fault.
Second, he said sorry to you but you doubt him but you still say sorry to him. Your fault because he is probably thinking this. "I can cheat on her again cause' she feels lost without me."
Thirdly, he cheated on you yet again and you STILL sent him a SMS. Both fault. He cheated on you again, and you still sent him a SMS which will make him think that you LOVE him TOO much. Even if the SMS says something bad about him or whatever.
He is just the rotten apple in your "Love basket". See? You picked up the WRONG apple to stay with. So now he is thrown out of the basket. Sooner or later, another apple will come. Get it? It continues. And continues till' your fated person comes along. =) -
Originally posted by blueberryjam:im so afraid of trusting guys now.. i guess if i ever have another bf again, i will still keep doubting him and every of his moves.. hais.....
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Originally posted by blueberryjam:
actually i have another viewpoint...did you ever consider maybe he blocked you and your friends cause of your overbearing and controlling attitude towards him after the first time he flirted...cause if he really told you he was interacting with other girls, whether flirting or not, you would sure to have blown your top etc...so maybe he was wanted some peace and quiet and not have a person dictating what he should or should not do...hence the aforementioned actions taken. however i would not discount the fact that he might done things behind your back either, just that the information provided is inadequate for me to come to an instant conclusion, so i think it would really depend on the content of his sms reply, if he ever replies that is. just my 2 cents.[/b]
argh im so pissed... with myself. i've seen his true colours. why the hell did i bother looking into his eyes, and believing his lies again once more?? im stupid, im dumb, im brainless.. im blind. for those who read my the other thread ( http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=183435 ) seems like im in the wrong.. but then.. i just found out.. he's still him. he didnt change.. no, not at all.
when we were still tog in the past, everytime when i asked him wats he doing, he would jus say watching tv.. but now i found out, he's been using the net, and he blocked me in msn, so that he can chat with others.. and i wont know anything even if im online.. becos he would appear offline in my screen.
he even blocked my close frens in his list, afraid that my frens would see him and then give him away.. argh. ASSHOLE.
and when i logged in into his game acc.. i see names which are nt sup to be there, appeared there.. he told me he stopped contacting them, and that he had del them already. yes i went in once in the past, those names were gone.. now, i see them again. which means to say.. again, behind me, he's been contacting with alot of other girls....
godddddddddddd. what have i done to deserve this.. someone pls tell me. and i really thought he changed, to think that everytime i doubt him, he said i kept accusing him.. i felt so guilty for making his days bad.. and now.. im here feeling betrayed.. being lied to.. the second time.
to think that i sent him mails and smses saying im sorry.. and tryin to work things out for this r/s... he actually doesnt give a shyt at all..
im so glad now.. becos wat he did to me, jus let me get over it faster.. but.. im so afraid of trusting guys now.. i guess if i ever have another bf again, i will still keep doubting him and every of his moves.. hais..... -
Hi BBJAM.Originally posted by blueberryjam:argh im so pissed... with myself. i've seen his true colours. why the hell did i bother looking into his eyes, and believing his lies again once more?? im stupid, im dumb, im brainless.. im blind. for those who read my the other thread ( http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=183435 ) seems like im in the wrong.. but then.. i just found out.. he's still him. he didnt change.. no, not at all.
when we were still tog in the past, everytime when i asked him wats he doing, he would jus say watching tv.. but now i found out, he's been using the net, and he blocked me in msn, so that he can chat with others.. and i wont know anything even if im online.. becos he would appear offline in my screen.
he even blocked my close frens in his list, afraid that my frens would see him and then give him away.. argh. ASSHOLE.
and when i logged in into his game acc.. i see names which are nt sup to be there, appeared there.. he told me he stopped contacting them, and that he had del them already. yes i went in once in the past, those names were gone.. now, i see them again. which means to say.. again, behind me, he's been contacting with alot of other girls....
godddddddddddd. what have i done to deserve this.. someone pls tell me. and i really thought he changed, to think that everytime i doubt him, he said i kept accusing him.. i felt so guilty for making his days bad.. and now.. im here feeling betrayed.. being lied to.. the second time.
to think that i sent him mails and smses saying im sorry.. and tryin to work things out for this r/s... he actually doesnt give a shyt at all..
im so glad now.. becos wat he did to me, jus let me get over it faster.. but.. im so afraid of trusting guys now.. i guess if i ever have another bf again, i will still keep doubting him and every of his moves.. hais.....
Remember me?? All I wanna say is this....I told you so. Hahaha forget about him la. Use my experience as a bridge to solving your problem.
Cheers -
Originally posted by angelfairy:
this sounds alittle complicated.
actually i have another viewpoint...did you ever consider maybe he blocked you and your friends cause of your overbearing and controlling attitude towards him after the first time he flirted...cause if he really told you he was interacting with other girls, whether flirting or not, you would sure to have blown your top etc...so maybe he was wanted some peace and quiet and not have a person dictating what he should or should not do...hence the aforementioned actions taken. however i would not discount the fact that he might done things behind your back either, just that the information provided is inadequate for me to come to an instant conclusion, so i think it would really depend on the content of his sms reply, if he ever replies that is. just my 2 cents.[/b]
maybe we should just encourage her on getting over this thing? -
X 2.Originally posted by Qing^.^:Y u say dun look back again le then still long for his replies.. forget about them la.. they dun matter anymore le.. -
Originally posted by mhcampboy:Hi BBJAM.
Remember me?? All I wanna say is this....I told you so. Hahaha forget about him la. Use my experience as a bridge to solving your problem.
Cheers
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Hmm.. If only life is that simpleOriginally posted by blueberryjam:thats wat im gonna do in the future.