My Mum
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I really don't know how and where to start.
I'm confused and my thought are all over. So pls bear with me.
I stumbled upon my mum's diary yesterday when i looked around in her room.
My mum was a Group Director at a local company, but was retrenched in 2004. From what i know she went into business with a long time family friend. I was shocked to read in her diary that she was cheated of her money in the business, owing $500K++ and now prostitute in Singapore, Thailand and Australia.
She wrote that the family friend (who cheated her business) forcibly made her to sleep with him and persuaded her to prostitute.
This is what my mum wrote in her diary...."Yong" refers to the family friend. "Martin" (not real name) is my elder brother. The entry was dated Feb 2005.
"Yong found me my first client yesterday. He's only 22. Very young chap. And I'm 45. I felt so odd kissing him because he's around the same age as Martin. I feel so ashamed of myself. pls God, why do i have to end up like this at my age. Why?? God, help me pls. I beg you. I beg you to please save me. I really can't face my sons"
I also found a copy of dvd in the same cabinet showing her having sex with about 10-12 foreign men. It seems to me most or all of them didn't use condom. She looked so cheap doing all those things for the men.
I grew up seeing her as a confident, firm career woman. But her diary reveals a vulnerable her, and it hurts to see her being manipulated to do things for those men in the dvd. She was even crying in it. I've never seen her so vulnerable and broken. -
whos clone r u?
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Oh god!! im so sorry to hear that! man...it must be hard on u....
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OK, do you want to save your mum? Then you have to wake up and quickly take action.
But dont let her know, that you know.
I cant tell you what to do, and what the action is.
But if you really want to help her, you will know. -
I think this is a lie.
A son would NOT expose these kind of....private stuffs to the WORLD you know. It's like exposing one self naked. Really.
I hope your mom the best. Really and truly. =) -
Hmm...Originally posted by ibanana:I really don't know how and where to start.
I'm confused and my thought are all over. So pls bear with me.
I stumbled upon my mum's diary yesterday when i looked around in her room.
My mum was a Group Director at a local company, but was retrenched in 2004. From what i know she went into business with a long time family friend. I was shocked to read in her diary that she was cheated of her money in the business, owing $500K++ and now prostitute in Singapore, Thailand and Australia.
She wrote that the family friend (who cheated her business) forcibly made her to sleep with him and persuaded her to prostitute.
This is what my mum wrote in her diary...."Yong" refers to the family friend. "Martin" (not real name) is my elder brother. The entry was dated Feb 2005.
"Yong found me my first client yesterday. He's only 22. Very young chap. And I'm 45. I felt so odd kissing him because he's around the same age as Martin. I feel so ashamed of myself. pls God, why do i have to end up like this at my age. Why?? God, help me pls. I beg you. I beg you to please save me. I really can't face my sons"
I also found a copy of dvd in the same cabinet showing her having sex with about 10-12 foreign men. It seems to me most or all of them didn't use condom. She looked so cheap doing all those things for the men.
I grew up seeing her as a confident, firm career woman. But her diary reveals a vulnerable her, and it hurts to see her being manipulated to do things for those men in the dvd. She was even crying in it. I've never seen her so vulnerable and broken. -
Originally posted by skeujin:whos clone r u?
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You know what I think PERSONALLY?Originally posted by LinLing:I think this is a lie.
A son would NOT expose these kind of....private stuffs to the WORLD you know. It's like exposing one self naked. Really.
I hope your mom the best. Really and truly. =)
THIS SON's such a DISGRACE to HIS OWN MUM...
WAIT TILL HIS MUM READS LEARN ABOUT HOW HER SON WRITE SUCH THINGS ABOUT HER JUST TO GET A 'KICK' OUT OF IT....
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Maybe you should try talking to her on this issue.
It's wrong to browse through your mum's personal artifacts without her consent, but you should show to her that you really care and all these "work" she's been doing doesn't come for her own free will.
Tell to her, you had respected and looked up upon her, do it one more time by taking apporiate actions to end her misery.
For her to do these "wrok" ain't easy either, and from the way you've defined, she was possibly been forced and might be extorted into it. Take some regimental and legal actions against the culprit.
More importantly, let your mum know no matter what, you would want to stand by her side. -
Your mum kept a sex video of her acts???...THATS DUMB SH!T. Sorry but i am not convinced by your fantasy story.
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have u consider selling those VCD to earn some pocket money ...
rmb to post online also .... -
Thats a great idea!Originally posted by meltz:
have u consider selling those VCD to earn some pocket money ...
rmb to post online also ....
Hmm, maybe the mum planning to sell the video as 'Mature Tammy XXX Video' to earn side income. -
Maybe she's her own fan....?Originally posted by industrie:Your mum kept a sex video of her acts???...THATS DUMB SH!T. Sorry but i am not convinced by your fantasy story. -
this is serious man,if what u say is true
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true or not... mai ku ku la...
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YOu earn more money by buying globalvoice at 8cents and selling for 18 cents.Originally posted by industrie:Thats a great idea!
Hmm, maybe the mum planning to sell the video as 'Mature Tammy XXX Video' to earn side income. -
Even though it does seem to be written in a serious tone.....
Somehow, I'm having problems accepting the credibility of this story....
To the threadstarter: if what you say is real, please truthfully say so, and accept my most humble apologies.
But if what you say is falsified, get out of this forum immediately - and stay out. -
NVNT!!!
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This is a sick world.
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If what you wrote is true,
But at 45, your mum should know better than to be manipulated or forced to do stuff. There are other options/way out/solutions.
If what you wrote is untrue? Then,
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Your mother is in great desperation and she could not find a better way to raise funds to amass the amount of money she needs. The method she has chosen to earn money is dangerous and risky.
I believe that she needs to be reassured of the fact that she will be forgiven unconditionally and that she would always be loved no matter what happens. Maybe the reason she is doing this is because she fears harmful repucussions, discrimination and the disrespect from her own family. Right now, she needs alot of reassurance and unconditional love to prevent her from hurting herself even more.
That is all that i could say for now. -
Hoya! Hoya!
Let me tell you a little story.
An American senator was visiting a Red Indian tribe, with the hope of getting their vote. The tribe was gathered in the middle of the village, and the senator gave them the political speech. He promised them free medical care, free education, subsidised petrol, and also upgrading with covered walkway connecting all teepees. The tribe yelled Hoya! Hoya! with every promise.
The senator was pleased. He threw in free liquor and cigarettes for good measure. Hoya! Hoya! the tribe screamed.
The senator was mighty pleased with himself.
Later the chief invited to senator to his home for lunch.
On the way the senator saw some prized bulls.
He asked the chief if he could see the bulls up close.
So they stopped the car and the senator got out and proceeded towards the bulls.
As the senator was nearing the bulls the chief called out,"Watch out! do not step on hoya."
ibanana, you need to hold the diary in your hand to post in such detail.
People do not hold another's diary for long. They ususlly peek quickly and remember only sketchy details. -
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ibanana,
Sorry to say your story sounds unconvincing. Firstly, victims who is ashame of their own act will never have any VCD or DVD showing that. Especially so if they are trying to hide their behaviour from their love ones. Secondly, it sounds more like a drama plot than what that is happening in real life. Lastly, $500k is rather a high amount to begin with, there is no way one will be able to repay by engaging in such activities.
On the event that what that you relate is really true, I will advise you to seek professional help immediately.
It is rather absurb to be talking about your own mother in this way and please stop such behavior. If you need help there are other ways of doing so.
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excuse me i dont think this is a time to joke about such matters. stop being so insensitive. can you imagine if this happened to your mOriginally posted by industrie:Thats a great idea!
Hmm, maybe the mum planning to sell the video as 'Mature Tammy XXX Video' to earn side income. 
um?