How long will U wait fr a ger to give u an ANS??

• SinGaporGuy

  5 May 06, 20:39

  wowo off cos something decent lah.. illegal things i dun do..
• Sakuraflower

  6 May 06, 00:17

  how ur ask her, is it direct or ur friend drop hints? If it is direct from the ur mouth then wait for her reply. Message her like 1 sms per week. With for abt 3 to 4 months.
  
  then make another decision! keep trying!
  I give u support!
• Sakuraflower

  6 May 06, 00:40

  if illegal, I will be the first to call the 999
• SinGaporGuy

  6 May 06, 13:38

  i think.. we distance away.. we r more of friend material she said. bt nw even on msn we dun chat like last time. haiz.. realli miss her. nw onli time can.. decide the fate bet us.. you yuan wu fen(gt fate bt no chance).. that veri sad..
  bt hate it when gers.. dun tell u directly.. bt say in a veri nice way.. ... there no cmmitment that she must b my gf.. if cannot tell me straight away. dunneed to phase it so nicely.. though i noe its fr my own good
• SinGaporGuy

  9 May 06, 22:09

  just found out that my feeling was correct after all at the beginning... I miss out on the chance.. i wonder will Fate bring the chance back to me and her again?? else.. it will b gone forever..
• TaShA & nAt

  11 May 06, 15:32

  i did not wait... did not ask.... just grab her hand and go... now happily married for 5 yrs wit 2 kids.....
• alexkusu

  11 May 06, 15:34

  Originally posted by TaShA & nAt:

  i did not wait... did not ask.... just grab her hand and go... now happily married for 5 yrs wit 2 kids.....

  woo
  
  me did that too... too shy to ask for answer..jus touch touch finger..then hold hand..
  
  guess some things can remain unspoken
• ILPSY

  11 May 06, 23:02

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  woo
  
  me did that too... too shy to ask for answer..jus touch touch finger..then hold hand..
  
  guess some things can remain unspoken

  Good move if you think that the other person likes you too.
  
  Guys dun wait for my answer! They just hint and hint (max 1 day?) until they decided not to wait anymore! Well, they never thought that when it comes to these hinting games, i am a Moron when decoding them!
  
  
• alexkusu

  12 May 06, 07:12

  
• antoh

  12 May 06, 08:05

  dont waste your time
• killstyle

  12 May 06, 08:22

  I WILL WAIT FOR 16 YEARS!!!!
  
  LIKE YANG GUO!!!!!
  
  
• so_what

  15 May 06, 22:06

  Did she say she would consider n giv u her ans one day if not, 1 or 2 yrs i tink shld be more than enuf, dun waste too much time, by tat time most prob she's attached
• 101wish

  15 May 06, 22:09

  [quote]Originally posted by smudgey:
  [b]
  
  how long are you willing to wait... I've known men who waited years, I know men who wait but date others in the mean time (is that waiting?!)
  
  I AGREE !!! Some guys tend to "keep" that potential gal aside while stil "search" more other gals, if lucky find a better one, if not, stil so-called waiting for tat gal
  
  
• SinGaporGuy

  15 May 06, 22:46

  Originally posted by 101wish:

  [quote]Originally posted by smudgey:
  [b]
  
  how long are you willing to wait... I've known men who waited years, I know men who wait but date others in the mean time (is that waiting?!)
  
  I AGREE !!! Some guys tend to "keep" that potential gal aside while stil "search" more other gals, if lucky find a better one, if not, stil so-called waiting for tat gal
  
  

  some guys R not.. like me.. heheh .. bt the process of waiting in vain.. Is so painful
• SinGaporGuy

  4 Jun 06, 00:30

  it feel sad.. being lonely.. by urself.. haiz..
• alexkusu

  4 Jun 06, 08:38

  u have no friends?
• casino_king

  4 Jun 06, 08:41

  wait some more while she is with someone else? wth They are holding hands and doing other unmentionables while you wait? NO THANKS
• passion_

  4 Jun 06, 10:26

  wait and wait for this xmas. if no reply, time to rock and roll!
• SinGaporGuy

  4 Jun 06, 13:23

  its different.... u tent to shut urself out... no communication.. it seem strange to meet her again.. haiz.. time i hope time will fade..
• Forever84

  4 Jun 06, 22:47

  Years...
  Ur wasting ur time realli... if its not happenin now its not happenin ever.
  
• ChairmanJay

  5 Jun 06, 00:35

  ask her want or don't want. If she don't want you, then why still hangs on to u? is she just making use of you?
• starlightz

  5 Jun 06, 19:53

  well, i waited mine for 2 years... 2 years of suffering, shedding of tears for each other... but in the end we still ended together, and our 2nd year anniversary coming this month liao...
  
  we are planning to get married too!
  
  so dun worry anything is possible, as long as u are sincere enough, it will work... but provided that ur girl is worth all the efforts...
• crazy monkey

  6 Jun 06, 20:59

  if the ger already attached better dun wait too long. may end up receiving her wedding invitation
• xuexue

  6 Jun 06, 21:05

  
  If theres a need to wait... do set a deadline... one week or 2 weeks or 1 month.... dun let it be years... if she feels the same way abt you... dun hv to be so long.... she will love you enough not to hv you waiting.... we all know its torturing.....
• (human)

  6 Jun 06, 21:32

  Waiting is suffering...