is it appropriate...

• berll

  2 Apr 06, 17:38

  to ask for someone's msn/num when meeting for the first time?
• alexkusu

  2 Apr 06, 17:39

  if its girl ask, yes. if guys ask, it will look like he's desparate
• beavan

  2 Apr 06, 19:57

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  if its girl ask, yes. if guys ask, it will look like he's desparate

  u wun look like ur desperate if u ask it in a proper manner..
• berll

  2 Apr 06, 23:22

  sometimes it's just like, if you ask you look desperate, but if u don't ask, you never know. it's really a dilemma.
  
  don't you guys have this feeling before?
• ditzy

  2 Apr 06, 23:52

  Originally posted by beavan:

  u wun look like ur desperate if u ask it in a proper manner..

  "Give me your msn please, so I can stalk and rape the sh|t outta you."
• stellazio

  2 Apr 06, 23:57

  actually can..
  
  like ur meet and chat for awhile..
  
  den at the end of the meeting before going seperate ways..."hey i didn't getcha number back there,if u dun mind...."?
• berll

  3 Apr 06, 00:47

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  actually can..
  
  like ur meet and chat for awhile..
  
  den at the end of the meeting before going seperate ways..."hey i didn't getcha number back there,if u dun mind...."?

  so it's ok for you if a guy ask's for your number when both of you meet for the first time?
• anixel

  3 Apr 06, 00:49

  Originally posted by berll:

  to ask for someone's msn/num when meeting for the first time?

  i dun see there's anything wrong with it le
• stellazio

  3 Apr 06, 00:52

  Originally posted by berll:

  so it's ok for you if a guy ask's for your number when both of you meet for the first time?

  if its a guy yes i will have a problem..
  
  if its a girl..i'll be more den obliged to give..
  
  but seriously there is nth wrong..being bold is something good...no risk no gain..
  u never know if that girl might turn out to be the one for u..
• kaobeikaobu

  3 Apr 06, 00:55

  dun think too much...just ask for it.
• berll

  3 Apr 06, 01:03

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  if its a guy yes i will have a problem..
  
  if its a girl..i'll be more den obliged to give..
  
  but seriously there is nth wrong..being bold is something good...no risk no gain..
  u never know if that girl might turn out to be the one for u..

  haha there it is.
  
  but seriously cannot everytime liddat think lah, very headache one.
• stellazio

  3 Apr 06, 01:05

  Originally posted by berll:

  haha there it is.
  
  but seriously cannot everytime liddat think lah, very headache one.

  cuz i'm a guy in the first place..
  
  seriously if u really wana know the girl den ask for it..
  
  dun expect her number to appear in the newspaper the next day for u to call..
• berll

  3 Apr 06, 01:05

  Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:

  dun think too much...just ask for it.

  haha thanks
  
  maybe should just leave it as it is lah
• sinicker

  3 Apr 06, 01:09

  of coz must ask.
• HolySniper

  3 Apr 06, 02:17

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  cuz i'm a guy in the first place..
  
  seriously if u really wana know the girl den ask for it..
  
  dun expect her number to appear in the newspaper the next day for u to call..

  
• ndmmxiaomayi

  3 Apr 06, 02:29

  Originally posted by berll:

  to ask for someone's msn/num when meeting for the first time?

  If together in a group, it's all right. Everybody exchanges. If it's between a boy and a girl, I find it awkward. Same gender is ok. Friends ma.
• alexkusu

  3 Apr 06, 05:16

  Originally posted by beavan:

  u wun look like ur desperate if u ask it in a proper manner..

  do you think its appropriate?
• berll

  3 Apr 06, 23:14

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  do you think its appropriate?

  wahhh so early ah u? going for morning run?
• FBI

  3 Apr 06, 23:14

  Originally posted by berll:

  to ask for someone's msn/num when meeting for the first time?

  why not?
  
  sometimes i do that
• littlestream

  3 Apr 06, 23:18

  Mummy teach "never on the first meeting".
  
  But then again, if don't exchange numbers then how to meet again?
  
  I think if "soon bin/ngam", don't mind to give lah but if "buay soon bin/ngam" then, pai seh, don't give.