Friends.
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I need some, urm, advice.
If your friend starts ignoring you one day but then another day start paying ALOT of attention to you, what does it means??
I don't usually care about these cases but she WAS my best friend once, so I NEED to know. Friends that gives me the cold shoulder are just people who crave for attention, so I don't mind.
BUT WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THAT?! It is like ON and OFF. And I'm really confuse with her intentions. Sometimes, she sounds SO NICE. Sometimes, she sounds like she wants to KILL ME or something.
She will say sarcastically, "Oh hello Weiling" if I say hi to her. But she will say "HEY WEILING!!" sometimes too, shouting like she needed me NOW and NOW and NOW.
What is she trying to tell me? -
Wah lau....case #2 ah....
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live a hermit's life
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Huh?Originally posted by M©+square:Wah lau....case #2 ah....
Urm, not really. I just want to know what is she trying to tell me and thats it.
Besides, I don't really like her too. -
Sorry, but I don't really get it.Originally posted by kopiosatu:live a hermit's life
Are you saying I should live a hermit's life? -
don't like each other.Originally posted by LinLing:Huh?
Urm, not really. I just want to know what is she trying to tell me and thats it.
Besides, I don't really like her too.
mutual feeling
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yess.......that's rite. It's truuuOriginally posted by kopiosatu:don't like each other.
mutual feeling
ok mah
Same same but different la. -
oi discuss location leh, knnOriginally posted by M©+square:yess.......that's rite. It's truuu
Same same but different la.
SMD -
where? when? now ah?Originally posted by kopiosatu:oi discuss location leh, knn -
ya so i can arrange on sunday when i see the mother.Originally posted by M©+square:where? when? now ah?
and at the same time u can take the photos. bring your thumbdrive -
Ok. I think I better give more specific details.
We ARE on good terms.
It is only when I do SOMETHING to make her angry or she did SOMETHING to make me angry then I dislike her or she dislike me.
I feel really upset if she is angry with me. If she sees my face, she pretends to puke. And I felt hurt. But when we are on good terms, she smiles, she laughs. She is a completely different person by then. I like it when she is like that.
But it doesn't lasts forever..
Oh dear, I need to sleep now. I give more details tomorrow. Bye and nightz everyone. -
discuss here or meet up?Originally posted by kopiosatu:ya so i can arrange on sunday when i see the mother.
and at the same time u can take the photos. bring your thumbdrive -
meet la, meet then can pass u photos what!!!!Originally posted by M©+square:discuss here or meet up? -
Come la....who scared who!?Originally posted by kopiosatu:meet la, meet then can pass u photos what!!!!
SMD. -
how old are u guys?
i mean Linlin n friend -
I'm not her friend....Originally posted by alfagal:how old are u guys?
i mean Linlin n friend
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ya lar...who asking u ar...Originally posted by M©+square:I'm not her friend.... 
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I extra....someone say i extra liao....so i Keh Zhua!Originally posted by alfagal:ya lar...who asking u ar...
Chao! -
I guess friendship at your age is like that.... Slowly, should try and learn to respect and treasure your friendship with each more...?Originally posted by LinLing:Ok. I think I better give more specific details.
We ARE on good terms. It is only when I do SOMETHING to make her angry or she did SOMETHING to make me angry then I dislike her or she dislike me.
I feel really upset if she is angry with me. If she sees my face, she pretends to puke. And I felt hurt. But when we are on good terms, she smiles, she laughs. She is a completely different person by then. I like it when she is like that.
But it doesn't lasts forever..
Oh dear, I need to sleep now. I give more details tomorrow. Bye and nightz everyone.
It'll start to realise the importance of a good friendship as you grow older in the future...? 
Though a little 'childish'... One good thing about such a kinda friendship at your age is that at least you can still patch back every now and then quite often... In adults' lives, sometimes it can be quite pretty sad... That ONCE a GOOD FRIENDSHIP is LOST, it might never be found or be the same again.... -
she wants something from you..
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Maybe she is having PMS/ mood swings?
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I'm 11 going to be 12 this year, December 17th.
Anyway, thanks for all the advices.
Today, she totally IGNORED me. "Hello sucker." she said. Then after recess, guess what? "HELLO WEILING!!" and so cheerful.
I don't think it is mood swings, because she is NOT like that with her other friends. For example, Yuan Ying. That time, we were TRAINING on our 1.6km run when Ashley accidentally pushed Yuan Ying to the ground and thus, she (Yuan Ying) couldn't run very fast. After the run, she (Yuan Ying) ignored Ashley when she (Ashley) asked her if she is alright. I asked Yuan Ying afterwards whether she like Ashley or not. She said "NO." and I asked Ashley how she feel. "I feel very upset leh...I pushed her down! But it was accidentally, I swear!! Now she won't talk to me..." and then walks away dejectedly. The PE teacher let us have a 5 min rest and then started training us for the bean-bag run. He divided us into our Houses group (Red, blue, purple and green), and I was in Red House and so is Ashley. She ran quite slower than usual and I asked her why after she came back (I was in front of her), she said that "I still feel upset..what if Yuan Ying don't friend me anymore?!?!" and moped around.
But in the end, of course, Yuan Ying friended Ashley and she (Ashley) was happy. Apparently, even though Ashley said a thousand and one "SORRY YUAN YING!" and a million and one "ARE YOU OKAY, YUAN YING?", Yuan Ying still ignored her. But I made them PATCH IT UP by saying some "magic words".
See? She treats her like this but ME?! It is so totally ON and OFF and ON and OFF.
What IS she trying to TELL ME about?! -
Like...?Originally posted by alexkusu:she wants something from you.. -
I do respect her. I do treasure the friendship. I do cherished the moments and memories we had together, both good and bad.Originally posted by Devil1976:I guess friendship at your age is like that.... Slowly, should try and learn to respect and treasure your friendship with each more...? It'll start to realise the importance of a good friendship as you grow older in the future...?
Though a little 'childish'... One good thing about such a kinda friendship at your age is that at least you can still patch back every now and then quite often... In adults' lives, sometimes it can be quite pretty sad... That ONCE a GOOD FRIENDSHIP is LOST, it might never be found or be the same again....
I know the importance of good friendship though not able to explain it fully. Yes, we can patch it up every now and then but one day, it is bound to die.
I don't know what I did to her. I buy for her things. I lend her money and not expect her to return. I remember her birthdays. I comfort her when she is sad. I say sorry when I did something to make her angry.
So what am I doing wrong? Is there any FLAWS in this friendship that I cannot simply SAVE? -
Well...till den i cant solve mine as well...i treat her quite nice...i did everything for her and one day just becuz i splash water...she hates me till den...ppl is always lidat(ok maybe some) they judge u on de mistakes yet not de gd things or memories...urs at least not as worse me...sometimes i m like ur fren too...sometimes i m cold to my best fren(ex now) den sometimes very gd to her...its not i wanted to...sometimes her attitude turns me off...maybe u should ask her directly ba?Originally posted by LinLing:I do respect her. I do treasure the friendship. I do cherished the moments and memories we had together, both good and bad.
I know the importance of good friendship though not able to explain it fully. Yes, we can patch it up every now and then but one day, it is bound to die.
I don't know what I did to her. I buy for her things. I lend her money and not expect her to return. I remember her birthdays. I comfort her when she is sad. I say sorry when I did something to make her angry.
So what am I doing wrong? Is there any FLAWS in this friendship that I cannot simply SAVE?
my mom always say...hao shi bu chu men...huai shi chuan qian li...mb u did smth? no offence...