No motivation...

• dejunked

  5 Apr 06, 22:28

  Happened quite long ago, wooed a girl for 2 years to no avail, went through poly then wanted to woo some other girls.
  Then everytime after a few days i give up, then it occured to me that I was thinking of her all the time and at the same time I was afraid i will fail again.
  
  Any methods like yoga to help me?
• alexkusu

  6 Apr 06, 04:49

  post in chitchat What yoga exercises to recommend?
• Devil1976

  6 Apr 06, 08:31

  Originally posted by dejunked:

  Happened quite long ago, wooed a girl for 2 years to no avail, went through poly then wanted to woo some other girls.
  Then everytime after a few days i give up, then it occured to me that I was thinking of her all the time and at the same time I was afraid i will fail again.
  
  Any methods like yoga to help me?

  Err... You want Yoga to help you in what sense...?
• M©+square

  6 Apr 06, 08:32

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Err... You want Yoga to help you in what sense...?

  
• dejunked

  6 Apr 06, 10:38

  I mean whether can yoga help?
• dcx

  6 Apr 06, 11:13

  Originally posted by dejunked:

  I mean whether can yoga help?

  help wat?
  
  yoga can help to circulate your bloodflow and bend your body freely if you manage to attain at the highest level...ai mai?
• Devil1976

  6 Apr 06, 11:23

  Originally posted by dejunked:

  I mean whether can yoga help?

  If you're thinking having yoga to help you on your mental state, it'll probably take VERY VERY LONG man....
  
  And besides... That alone can't help you much with your problem.. Most probably..?
• Parka

  6 Apr 06, 12:12

  This guy's mental?
  
  Kidding.
• DailyFreeGames.com

  6 Apr 06, 12:16

  Originally posted by dejunked:

  Happened quite long ago, wooed a girl for 2 years to no avail, went through poly then wanted to woo some other girls.
  Then everytime after a few days i give up, then it occured to me that I was thinking of her all the time and at the same time I was afraid i will fail again.
  
  Any methods like yoga to help me?

  You failed coz you using the same methods over and over again, then become predictable, then maybe that's why it didn't work. I am sure there is a solution to every problem and you just need to change the current methods you use to woo her, then perhaps you can find the solution.
• starExcaliblur

  6 Apr 06, 12:41

  Originally posted by dejunked:

  Happened quite long ago, wooed a girl for 2 years to no avail, went through poly then wanted to woo some other girls.
  Then everytime after a few days i give up, then it occured to me that I was thinking of her all the time and at the same time I was afraid i will fail again.
  
  Any methods like yoga to help me?

  
  
  Err, u want yoga to help u forget the girl u wooed 4 2 yrs but to no avail or help u woo other girls ?
  
  If u had successfully wooed another girl 2 bcome ur gf, will u still b thinking of the 1 u wooed 4 2 yrs but to no avail.
  
  If yes, r u being fair 2 ur gf when u r physically with her while thinking of another girl u fail to woo ?
  
  
• yoghurt

  6 Apr 06, 12:43

  sign up for a "how to woo women" course
  
  stuff like dat just cant help u with it dude, diff. girls expect diff. typa treatment frm the 'woo-er'
• coffeeortea

  6 Apr 06, 12:54

  no offence but.. yoga? come on man.. whats next? cooking lessons to improve your english?
• wxboi

  6 Apr 06, 16:43

  Originally posted by coffeeortea:

  no offence but.. yoga? come on man.. whats next? cooking lessons to improve your english?

  
• nullifi3d

  6 Apr 06, 18:55

  Originally posted by dejunked:

  Happened quite long ago, wooed a girl for 2 years to no avail, went through poly then wanted to woo some other girls.
  Then everytime after a few days i give up, then it occured to me that I was thinking of her all the time and at the same time I was afraid i will fail again.
  
  Any methods like yoga to help me?

  don't end up like me - 1 month to enlist before NS and still no gf. i wasted my 3 years in poly studying and socialising but no investing of feelings.
• dcx

  6 Apr 06, 20:10

  Originally posted by nullifi3d:

  don't end up like me - 1 month to enlist before NS and still no gf. i wasted my 3 years in poly studying and socialising but no investing of feelings.

  If 1 month before enlistment you've a gf...good luck to u..
• valerieee

  7 Apr 06, 01:09

  time to move on dude.get engaged in sports.
• R3SsH|n

  7 Apr 06, 01:22

  Originally posted by nullifi3d:

  don't end up like me - 1 month to enlist before NS and still no gf. i wasted my 3 years in poly studying and socialising but no investing of feelings.

  u are making me sad...dun say already...
• Li Ka Shing

  7 Apr 06, 03:20

  I think I know what's the relationship with yoga......yoga has some spiritual aspects and also it's a form of excercise, perhaps this young man was seeking to strengthen his mental faculty, calm down his anxiety, and bolster his self confidence and self assurance.
  
  Well, yes I think you can try doing yoga for that. It will help you.
  
  But I think perhaps you can focus more on that aspect, the mental aspect, by doing meditation, and reading self-improvement/ motivational books, for example.
  
  Also, just do it.
• ubermagicseller

  7 Apr 06, 03:30

  Why would it be a waste? I think people often forget what their actual goals are.
  
  Ask yourself, you go poly for what? Woo girls?
  
  Of course, you are going in there for a diploma! So concentrate on getting a diploma, dont worry too much about other stuffs. Prioritise your work and aims.
• Devil1976

  7 Apr 06, 11:39

  Originally posted by Li Ka Shing:

  I think I know what's the relationship with yoga......yoga has some spiritual aspects and also it's a form of excercise, perhaps this young man was seeking to strengthen his mental faculty, calm down his anxiety, and bolster his self confidence and self assurance.
  
  Well, yes I think you can try doing yoga for that. It will help you.
  
  But I think perhaps you can focus more on that aspect, the mental aspect, by doing meditation, and reading self-improvement/ motivational books, for example.
  
  Also, just do it.

  Yes, I can sort of agree with you... But ultimately, he'll still have to tackle the root of his problem...?
• Devil1976

  7 Apr 06, 11:40

  Originally posted by dcx:

  If 1 month before enlistment you've a gf...good luck to u..

  
• casino_king

  7 Apr 06, 11:42

  Originally posted by dejunked:

  Happened quite long ago, wooed a girl for 2 years to no avail, went through poly then wanted to woo some other girls.
  Then everytime after a few days i give up, then it occured to me that I was thinking of her all the time and at the same time I was afraid i will fail again.
  
  Any methods like yoga to help me?

  Just go out with as many girls as possible who is willing to hang out with you. Don't look at every girl like a potential. Hang out chill out learn to get along with people... Yoga? hahaha!!!!!
• iceFatboy

  7 Apr 06, 14:20

  if you really fancy this first gal, why not learn to appreciate her and get to know her better. just let her know you better too.
  
  surely, over time, you have matured, show her that new angle of yours.
  
• dejunked

  7 Apr 06, 23:51

  thanks for the help, i hope to get well soon
• darknessfall

  8 Apr 06, 00:52

  i think he wanted yoga to calm himself down, or to have a peaceful mind so that he will not keep thinking of the gal...
  
  but if you really like her, ask her out..(rem to check her status first)
  good luck