Is he sincere?
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Hey ppl, i hav been thking for a few days b4 i decided to hav tis post...
I got to know tis guy recently, then happened tat we were actively chatting to each other online. We enjoyed the conversation between us. He stayed late til morn jus to chat wif me. He even called me at sg odd hrs too. So coincidence tat we both admitted to hav feelings for each other. The problem is currently i'm at overseas now, will not be back for a few mths. As u ppl know tat long distance is difficult to judge as we have not met each other in real.
So folks, do u tink he's sincere to know me or ????? I'm afraid he may find other gals in sg too and forget me kinda waiting in vain in the end... -
from wat u posted is too brief for us to tell u whether he's sincere or not.
feel his sincerity with your heart. can you feel it? -
yes he is
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there's a possibilityOriginally posted by 101wish:Hey ppl, i hav been thking for a few days b4 i decided to hav tis post...
I got to know tis guy recently, then happened tat we were actively chatting to each other online. We enjoyed the conversation between us. He stayed late til morn jus to chat wif me. He even called me at sg odd hrs too. So coincidence tat we both admitted to hav feelings for each other. The problem is currently i'm at overseas now, will not be back for a few mths. As u ppl know tat long distance is difficult to judge as we have not met each other in real.
So folks, do u tink he's sincere to know me or ????? I'm afraid he may find other gals in sg too and forget me kinda waiting in vain in the end... -
Don't commit anything yet. Just remain as friends and meet him for real when you get back.Originally posted by 101wish:Hey ppl, i hav been thking for a few days b4 i decided to hav tis post...
I got to know tis guy recently, then happened tat we were actively chatting to each other online. We enjoyed the conversation between us. He stayed late til morn jus to chat wif me. He even called me at sg odd hrs too. So coincidence tat we both admitted to hav feelings for each other. The problem is currently i'm at overseas now, will not be back for a few mths. As u ppl know tat long distance is difficult to judge as we have not met each other in real.
So folks, do u tink he's sincere to know me or ????? I'm afraid he may find other gals in sg too and forget me kinda waiting in vain in the end... -
+1Originally posted by nullifi3d:Don't commit anything yet. Just remain as friends and meet him for real when you get back. -
Well, coz he n i had been hurt from previous r/s for a couple yrs back, so therefore we stil hesitate for any commitment but at the same time, we oso scare we may lose each other in the end if not confirmed anythg.Originally posted by browniebaobao:from wat u posted is too brief for us to tell u whether he's sincere or not.
feel his sincerity with your heart. can you feel it?
Wat i can say is.. we chatted online for hrs. After a couple of hrs, we were on the phone...hav been days n days... -
and wat i can say us, i can chat online for hours with someone of the opposite gender, chat on phone till almost dawn, but that doesn't mean that we are ready to commit to a r/s.Originally posted by 101wish:Well, coz he n i had been hurt from previous r/s for a couple yrs back, so therefore we stil hesitate for any commitment but at the same time, we oso scare we may lose each other in the end if not confirmed anythg.
Wat i can say is.. we chatted online for hrs. After a couple of hrs, we were on the phone...hav been days n days...
perhaps the liking is there, but im curious, have u two met before? if u have not even met him in person before, then i think it's even harder to tell whether someone is sincere. -
dun count it yet cos let time determine.... continue chat and knwo him more and meet him first b4 confirming ur feelings...
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What makes you think that you won't lose each other if you just make empty unrealiabe promises to each other...?Originally posted by 101wish:Well, coz he n i had been hurt from previous r/s for a couple yrs back, so therefore we stil hesitate for any commitment but at the same time, we oso scare we may lose each other in the end if not confirmed anythg.
Wat i can say is.. we chatted online for hrs. After a couple of hrs, we were on the phone...hav been days n days...
I'm not sure exactly what both of you are into... But if you're into real commitment and a long-term stable relationship, you should be giving each other and the relationship much more respect.. Having more concrete facts before wildfully stepping into it... On the other hand, there's no stopping you from slowly developing further without throwing yourself in at this moment yup...?
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Just take it one step at a time... if you meet somebody else you like then go with the new guy. Otherwise, if you are still available, then when you come back, meet up with him and see. I am sure you are smart enough not to go to dark lonely places with ppl you chat online....Originally posted by 101wish:Hey ppl, i hav been thking for a few days b4 i decided to hav tis post...
I got to know tis guy recently, then happened tat we were actively chatting to each other online. We enjoyed the conversation between us. He stayed late til morn jus to chat wif me. He even called me at sg odd hrs too. So coincidence tat we both admitted to hav feelings for each other. The problem is currently i'm at overseas now, will not be back for a few mths. As u ppl know tat long distance is difficult to judge as we have not met each other in real.
So folks, do u tink he's sincere to know me or ????? I'm afraid he may find other gals in sg too and forget me kinda waiting in vain in the end...
You sre still young so it seems so big a deal to you. You will soon realise that most of the time, it amounts to nothing. Either you can't stand him or he can't stand you or you are attached or he is attached or whatever whatever... so don't commit to anything or anybody (in your own mind) and just relax and take it easy.
When the right one comes along who thinks that you are the right one, you will know.