dear is harmless..........i always call the people i work with,and the troops when im working with them,wheter i know them or not,,darls,sweety,gorgeous,honey....whatever......it makes them smile,and i smile when i see them smiling....a lot of people do it as a habit,just to make people happy.when im having to live in a camp out bush with 1200 army troops,im gonna try and make them happy,who would want to be locked in camp with 1200 grumpy,homesick guys??? no-one!!! all it takes is a," hey darls,what can i get ya?" and a, "thanks hun!" it brightens up peoples day........its harmless....doesnt mean im flirting with them....cause thats not me....but i like to try and make people happy!

dear is very tame....so dont stress dear!!!
