Do you have a point in life where....
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you just suddenly felt so pissed off at life for no reason. Not exactly for no reason, like I can sense what's the problem but yet, I can't say that I can pinpoint the real reason behind it and take steps to solve it.
I'm currently in this mood right now. Maybe it's all the stress that's starting to creep up. Maybe it's my diet, my schedule, my activities, my committments etc etc. I'm beginning to start feeling irritated and disgusted at the littlest(sp?) of things that I can't see eye-to-eye too.....Arrrrgggghhhh.....
Am I making sense here? If not, please dun mind me. I hope by ranting here, I can release some of my pent-up anger out.
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Cheerful Cheers CM
(whoops..thanks to bbb note..i always get mix up when i am busy :lol
Dun worry..u can rant here all u want...we are here to help you
maybe u need to do some thinking and jotting?
and derive from it?
but dun worry..we are all here to help you
maybe u could ilst your problems first?
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
maybe the problem lies with u and not that person?
try to relax, and not getting frustrated easily.. go for a breather, a movie, have a gd laugh or cry, then control urself, ur mood swings.
eat some chocolates if u dun mind putting on weight and having pimples break outs! -
CM hor.Originally posted by StarPuppy:Merry Meet MC Dun worry..u can rant here all u want...we are here to help you
maybe u need to do some thinking and jotting?
and derive from it?
but dun worry..we are all here to help you
maybe u could ilst your problems first?
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
and hor.. duiz.. y follow Oceanos ar? -
r u getting PMS?
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The thing is I'm not pissed off anyone in particular, just that there are some matters that I just feel angry(maybe it's too strong a word, maybe disgusted better) about.Originally posted by browniebaobao:maybe the problem lies with u and not that person?
try to relax, and not getting frustrated easily.. go for a breather, a movie, have a gd laugh or cry, then control urself, ur mood swings.
eat some chocolates if u dun mind putting on weight and having pimples break outs!
Chocolates......hmmm.....maybe I shall treat myself to a hearty meal and forgot it all.....
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Sorry, not convenient to list them here.Originally posted by StarPuppy:maybe u could ilst your problems first?
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy -
If men can have PMS, then I suppose yes.Originally posted by blackchickenahkai:r u getting PMS? -
Well, what is it about those matters that make you angry? Is it a situation where nothing seems to turn out right no matter how hard you tried?Originally posted by CoolMyth:The thing is I'm not pissed off anyone in particular, just that there are some matters that I just feel angry(maybe it's too strong a word, maybe disgusted better) about.
Chocolates......hmmm.....maybe I shall treat myself to a hearty meal and forgot it all.....
I went through that phase a few weeks ago... nothing seemed to tun out right despite all my best efforts. Felt extremely out of control with my life. Got the situation more or less under control now. -
tell u what..Originally posted by CoolMyth:If men can have PMS, then I suppose yes.
u sit down and think bout yr life..
i mean really sit down or lie down
then think bout it..
usually that help me a lot..
but i dont know for you.
u may feel a bit better..
haha
..men can cry to eh...so dont be shy..
find yr gf and pour out to her yr problems/..then cry..
haha...
1) can make u feel better
2) can make yr gf know the soft side of u
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Ya, something like that.Originally posted by fudgester:Well, what is it about those matters that make you angry? Is it a situation where nothing seems to turn out right no matter how hard you tried?
It's like no matter how hard I tried, the results ain't coming to my expectations. I think my expectations have been much lowered but still I can't reach them. Made me feels like a failure....
I even ask myself if I were to keep going, what's the point of working so hard if I were to achieve the below-than-expectations result....
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Me no gf.Originally posted by blackchickenahkai:find yr gf and pour out to her yr problems/..then cry..
haha...
1) can make u feel better
2) can make yr gf know the soft side of u 
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i think you are jus feeling bored in life....
well, we are here for you to rant your stuffs dude..
find some stuffs to do lah...i m sure, being kept occupied, you will be happier!
cheer up! -
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Army life will make this feeling a norm la.Originally posted by CoolMyth:you just suddenly felt so pissed off at life for no reason. Not exactly for no reason, like I can sense what's the problem but yet, I can't say that I can pinpoint the real reason behind it and take steps to solve it.
I'm currently in this mood right now. Maybe it's all the stress that's starting to creep up. Maybe it's my diet, my schedule, my activities, my committments etc etc. I'm beginning to start feeling irritated and disgusted at the littlest(sp?) of things that I can't see eye-to-eye too.....Arrrrgggghhhh.....
Am I making sense here? If not, please dun mind me. I hope by ranting here, I can release some of my pent-up anger out. -
Quite true.Originally posted by nullifi3d:Army life will make this feeling a norm la. 
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That sounds like exactly like me a few weeks ago.Originally posted by CoolMyth:Ya, something like that.
It's like no matter how hard I tried, the results ain't coming to my expectations. I think my expectations have been much lowered but still I can't reach them. Made me feels like a failure....
I even ask myself if I were to keep going, what's the point of working so hard if I were to achieve the below-than-expectations result....
*sigh*
Everything seemed to screw up for me all at once - below average mid-term test results (in spite of the fact that I did study hard), financial problems, added responsibilities (I had to give more tuition sessions due to my financial problems), my calculator malfunctioned (had to buy a new one), my pencil box went missing (had to buy nearly $20 worth of stationery)... the list goes on.
But then I realised - hey, it can't be so bad. I can't expect to get first class honours or anything, but even if I do screw up, surely I can't screw up that badly. No matter how bad things seem to be, there's always someone out there who's having it worse than you.
The key here is to be realistic. Some things are truly out of control, no matter how hard you try and how much effort you put in. The more important thing is to realise that it is your effort that truly matters and not just the results. Sure, results are of course important, but what's more important is how you get the results, and not just getting the results itself.
Like I said, be realistic. Maybe you can't be the best, but certainly you can't be the worst, either. Just put in your best effort and hope for the best. -
most of the time.
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I understand the point of "trying your best and appreciate your own effort made" but I guess most people would want others to appreciate what they have done.Originally posted by fudgester:That sounds like exactly like me a few weeks ago.
Everything seemed to screw up for me all at once - below average mid-term test results (in spite of the fact that I did study hard), financial problems, added responsibilities (I had to give more tuition sessions due to my financial problems), my calculator malfunctioned (had to buy a new one), my pencil box went missing (had to buy nearly $20 worth of stationery)... the list goes on.
But then I realised - hey, it can't be so bad. I can't expect to get first class honours or anything, but even if I do screw up, surely I can't screw up that badly. No matter how bad things seem to be, there's always someone out there who's having it worse than you.
The key here is to be realistic. Some things are truly out of control, no matter how hard you try and how much effort you put in. The more important thing is to realise that it is your effort that truly matters and not just the results. Sure, results are of course important, but what's more important is how you get the results, and not just getting the results itself.
Like I said, be realistic. Maybe you can't be the best, but certainly you can't be the worst, either. Just put in your best effort and hope for the best.
The situation here is quite pragmatic. People only appreciate your results, not your effort. I think the general perception is still that results is equivalent to effort made. The better stuff that you can show to others, the more effort you are seen to have made.
Nobody cares a hoot about people with average results. -
I can understand that the situation is indeed pragmatic and others only care about your results...Originally posted by CoolMyth:I understand the point of "trying your best and appreciate your own effort made" but I guess most people would want others to appreciate what they have done.
The situation here is quite pragmatic. People only appreciate your results, not your effort. I think the general perception is still that results is equivalent to effort made. The better stuff that you can show to others, the more effort you are seen to have made.
Nobody cares a hoot about people with average results.
But you may want to ask yourself this: are you living your life for yourself, or are you living your life for what others think of you? -
maybe can put more effort into your 'work' to get the 'results' you desire? this helps set u apart from the other average joes
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I know how it feels of not being appreciated.
Be patient in whatever you do, sometimes we have to look at 'tian shi di li ren he" (i hope u understand) and a little bit of luck.
men do have mood swings too ar.. at least, some of the men I know also have PMS. haha..
anyway, pamper urself this weekend, have fun, relax, and get energized. -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:I know how it feels of not being appreciated.
Be patient in whatever you do, sometimes we have to look at 'tian shi di li ren he" (i hope u understand) and a little bit of luck.
men do have mood swings too ar.. at least, some of the men I know also have PMS. haha..
anyway, pamper urself this weekend, have fun, relax, and get energized.
I do take a few breaks here and there but I can't totally hang loose. Exams are coming and I need to make the preparatory work before really burying myself in my notes and books. -
Hmmm if I don't know why I am so cranky, normally telling myself that IT IS A PASSING PHASE helps.
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I would say that I experienced this kinda phase from time to time. Experienced it even more often when my exams are around the corner and especially when I get my exams results back time....then i will start to feel like life is unfair to me, like no matter how hard I tried I couldn't achieve my own personal expectations...Originally posted by CoolMyth:you just suddenly felt so pissed off at life for no reason. Not exactly for no reason, like I can sense what's the problem but yet, I can't say that I can pinpoint the real reason behind it and take steps to solve it.
I'm currently in this mood right now. Maybe it's all the stress that's starting to creep up. Maybe it's my diet, my schedule, my activities, my committments etc etc. I'm beginning to start feeling irritated and disgusted at the littlest(sp?) of things that I can't see eye-to-eye too.....Arrrrgggghhhh.....
Am I making sense here? If not, please dun mind me. I hope by ranting here, I can release some of my pent-up anger out.
I dunno if it is studies that stress you out here, thought I suspect it could be one of the reasons...I guess for now you just need to relax and think that...even though your result is not what you expected, tell yourself at least you have tried your best? And that's all that matters...
Of cos I dunno what are the other causes to you feeling this way, so i can't help much there...unless you wanna come on MSN and share them with me la