shd i tell?
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hey guys, i have this problem... i have come to know this ger in australia for almost 8 months now, i really liked ( or maybe loved ) her alot. sometimes, i thinks that she likes me too but till now i am too scared to ask her about it. as i am not entirely sure wheather she really liked me or not as sometimes she will somehow avoids talking to me, but whenever we talked we can talk a lot and both were very happy.. and in a months or so i will be going back to sg, and now i am thinking shd i tell her that i liked her? i was thinking of writing a letter hehehe (bit outdated ) along with the thing that she asked from me earlier... or shd i just talk to her face to face.. i dont know.. i am just scared of being rejected..
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Rejection is better than regret.
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for this case, u can msn or email to bring ur feelings across
you can have time to compose the text
oso reduce the awkwardness and the pressure of talking face to face
sometimes when tt person is in front of u, u will forget wat u want to say or just blurt out wrong things.. -
well she dont use msn, so is it better for me to send email instead of handing a paper mail over to her? does that matter ;p
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quick question: do u like harry potter?
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harry potter? y? i think i am ok with the show. only manage to watch the goblet of fire.
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face to face ar.. since u feel comfortable talking to her.. also show ur sincerity..
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lol,were there australian chics in that movie?Originally posted by alexkusu:quick question: do u like harry potter? -
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=185149
Damn, i was stunned for a moment, but i dont think its, her as the girl i mentioned is a chinese. and i am still in australia. her thread states that the guy left to sg alr.[/quote]
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Dun delay liao lah.....Juz tell ur face to face....
If kanna rejected at least can go to SG wif no regrets....
If kanna accepted den u can continue the long distance relationship mah..... -
ya, rejection is better than regret...
but then again, you are going back singapore..what about her? she australian? if so, better think twice of the long distant r/s....well, its really up to you...
good luck, buck up...
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jus do it...
if u really like her and intends to keep it going... no amt of distance can seperate... dat is if u really like n u wun not mind any, n i mean any, ways 2 communicate wif her... rem... its not e quantity of time but e quality of time. -
well think face to face is the way, i dropped a note today, but still too shy away from telling her my feelings...haiz.. still procrastinae, also dont want to disturb her mental state as she is having exam ...
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You know when its time to tell her and tell her you must.
Even if she rejects you, you must know that between you two, both of you still can be friends.
The rest is up to fate and chemistry to decide.
Live your life with no regrets man.
Treat this as a life experience.
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Rejection is part of life... If you're afraid, don't try...Originally posted by pingumy:hey guys, i have this problem... i have come to know this ger in australia for almost 8 months now, i really liked ( or maybe loved ) her alot. sometimes, i thinks that she likes me too but till now i am too scared to ask her about it. as i am not entirely sure wheather she really liked me or not as sometimes she will somehow avoids talking to me, but whenever we talked we can talk a lot and both were very happy.. and in a months or so i will be going back to sg, and now i am thinking shd i tell her that i liked her? i was thinking of writing a letter hehehe (bit outdated ) along with the thing that she asked from me earlier... or shd i just talk to her face to face.. i dont know.. i am just scared of being rejected..
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why not write a letter and pass it to her by hand, saying that you have an important message to give to her?
If she reads it and rejects, well, sad for you. But if she read it and accepts, good for you, and she can have a hand written momento from you. -
u gonna love those kangaroos!Originally posted by pingumy:hey guys, i have this problem... i have come to know this ger in australia for almost 8 months now, i really liked ( or maybe loved ) her alot. sometimes, i thinks that she likes me too but till now i am too scared to ask her about it. as i am not entirely sure wheather she really liked me or not as sometimes she will somehow avoids talking to me, but whenever we talked we can talk a lot and both were very happy.. and in a months or so i will be going back to sg, and now i am thinking shd i tell her that i liked her? i was thinking of writing a letter hehehe (bit outdated ) along with the thing that she asked from me earlier... or shd i just talk to her face to face.. i dont know.. i am just scared of being rejected..
anyway jus do it! Be a man! -
why not write a letter and pass it to her by hand, saying that you have an important message to give to her?
I kind of accompany a gift that comes a long with a short note to her. not saying that i like her or anything, just hope she think of me or something like that. She seems happy before i gave her the thing. but after she read the notes she seems like before... and when my fren asked her weather she will miss me when i goes back to singapore in front of me, she were just like clenched her fist and smile ( dont know what does that implies? ) girls any idea?
If she reads it and rejects, well, sad for you. But if she read it and accepts, good for you, and she can have a hand written momento from you. -
ouch........clenching her fist and smiling??? that could mean 1 of 2 things:
either 1: she hates the idea of you going back to singapore so much that when someone mentions it....she gets angry;
or 2: she wishes you never told her how you feel about her,because now she realises she likes you also,and she is angry with herself that she didnt tell you sooner....and she is just so angry with herself that when someone mentions it....she gets annoyed.so shes angry at you....but even more angry at herself.
personally,i think it sounds like number 1.
but she feels there is nothing she can do about it.she probably thinks you wouldnt or couldnt stay in aus even if she did tell you how she feels.
talk to her............see how she really feels....just the two of you..no-one else.
if it doesnt turn out to be the way you want it to be.....then just try your hardest to keep a friendship.
hope ive helped -i only wish i found it this easy to give myself advice.
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Just one sentence which i usually said to my friends, you never know if you never try,
Running away is not a solution but rather facing it, tell her how you feel about her, express your feeling to her, Even if your rejected, at least you've know you tried your best and move on without leaving any regret behind, and you will never know how she feel about you? Take the initative first, Wish you all the Best!
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ouch........clenching her fist and smiling??? that could mean 1 of 2 things:
well, i just hope what she thinks was positive like what you have interpreted. and i do really agree that's its easier to advice people than to yourself. And i will see how it goes the next time i meet her.
either 1: she hates the idea of you going back to singapore so much that when someone mentions it....she gets angry;
or 2: she wishes you never told her how you feel about her,because now she realises she likes you also,and she is angry with herself that she didnt tell you sooner....and she is just so angry with herself that when someone mentions it....she gets annoyed.so shes angry at you....but even more angry at herself.
personally,i think it sounds like number 1.
but she feels there is nothing she can do about it.she probably thinks you wouldnt or couldnt stay in aus even if she did tell you how she feels.
talk to her............see how she really feels....just the two of you..no-one else.
if it doesnt turn out to be the way you want it to be.....then just try your hardest to keep a friendship.
hope ive helped -i only wish i found it this easy to give myself advice.
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u gonna love those kangaroos!
hehe, u see them everywhere man. on side of the road, next to the taxiway. just like cats on the streets, just whole lot bigger !
anyway jus do it! Be a man!
