I'm a few years older than you, yet I have not gone into any relationship.Originally posted by isolation:I am a 22 years old NSF who will be ORD on the August. Unlike most of the people in my age group, I have not gone into a relationship before in the past 22 years of life.
During the 4 years in my secondary school, there are 3 girls whom I tried to win their hearts (at the different period of course, I am not the kind who likes to step into 2 boats with 1 leg) but I failed.
Later during the 3 years in my poly, because I am studying electronics engineering in the poly and there are at most 3 girls in my class but all are none of my type. Furthermore I am worried that whether I can handle a relationship during my NS days in which our personal time are limited so I didn't pursue a relationship.
However during my NS days, there are quite a number of my army mates with a girlfriend and most of them, surprisingly can handle the relationship well.
Now I am left with less than 4 months to ORD and I feels that it might be the time for me to find a girlfriend as I am already 22 years old yet I have not gone into a relationship before.Furthermore if I continues to be single my parents and relatives will 'pressurise' me.
So how should I start to looking for a girlfriend or rather, what should I do next?![]()
jus look on the bright side of life.. maybe u can focus on ur career but at the same time make more frenz ba.. good luck to u.. cheer up remember there's always someone for everyone..Originally posted by isolation:I am a 22 years old NSF who will be ORD on the August. Unlike most of the people in my age group, I have not gone into a relationship before in the past 22 years of life.
During the 4 years in my secondary school, there are 3 girls whom I tried to win their hearts (at the different period of course, I am not the kind who likes to step into 2 boats with 1 leg) but I failed.
Later during the 3 years in my poly, because I am studying electronics engineering in the poly and there are at most 3 girls in my class but all are none of my type. Furthermore I am worried that whether I can handle a relationship during my NS days in which our personal time are limited so I didn't pursue a relationship.
However during my NS days, there are quite a number of my army mates with a girlfriend and most of them, surprisingly can handle the relationship well.
Now I am left with less than 4 months to ORD and I feels that it might be the time for me to find a girlfriend as I am already 22 years old yet I have not gone into a relationship before.Furthermore if I continues to be single my parents and relatives will 'pressurise' me.
So how should I start to looking for a girlfriend or rather, what should I do next?![]()
If you just sit down and let fate decide everything for you, then you can never expect to be happy.Originally posted by isolation:Thanks everyone for the suggestions, consolations and encouragements.
Sometimes I was thinking whether we should pursue our happiness and not let the fate decide it or we shall just leave it to fate to decide.![]()
Originally posted by Nikar:They are only attracted to your fame, wealth, position, charisma, ....and so on. When you fall, they automatically fall out of place and everything goes out of sync themselve.
don't worry about the girls.
like i used to hear this sentence from some of the world's greatest playboys in the past : [b]Forget the girls. Focus on your career and your passion in life. The girls and other fancy things will automatically fall in place and sync themselves later.[/b]
Maybe he wants to find like-minded people here and pm her...Originally posted by leddy:dude... if u spend less time on sg forums, and more time socialising, you wont be alone now! hheee
My poly results are not that good to go local U so I can't get into local uni. So now my planning is to work after ORD.Originally posted by leddy:u should try for university if possible... lots of chance to meet ppl in uni and u may find a girl there
even u said it's close...enough saidOriginally posted by NewAge:U sure boh the weather station is close to 100% on the prediction on the weather.