is it wrong to have many ex girlfriend?

• antoh

  15 Apr 06, 22:01

  My current gf told me that i m not mature in relationship.
  
  do you have such a problem?
• FireIce

  15 Apr 06, 22:04

  how many u had?
• alwaysdisturbed

  15 Apr 06, 22:04

  its nt wrong...
  
  but shws hw easy u take things when it comes to matters of the heart...
• antoh

  15 Apr 06, 22:07

  i have 5 before
  
  when i m 17 where i dont know anything about love ...
  when 20, she wants to go for studies
  when 22, we cannot get along with each other
  when 23, when she run away with my best buddy
  when 24, when i feel she is not the person for me
• antoh

  15 Apr 06, 22:11

  Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:

  its nt wrong...
  
  but shws hw easy u take things when it comes to matters of the heart...

  she is saying that i m very inmature in handling relationship. easily broke off.
  
  
• Devil1976

  15 Apr 06, 22:19

  Originally posted by antoh:

  she is saying that i m very inmature in handling relationship. easily broke off.
  
  

  Saying you're immature because of that alone...? Quite unlikely... You mean she don't know about that before...?
  
  How long have you been with her...? Likely that some other things which might be bothering her...? Like... Your mentality with relationship and hers' are quite different....?
• alwaysdisturbed

  15 Apr 06, 22:24

  Originally posted by antoh:

  she is saying that i m very inmature in handling relationship. easily broke off.
  
  

  i dunoe abt dat bcoz i dunoe u personally...
  
  i tink she has her own perspective. u shldn't take it so seriously. everyone has their own views. juz b urself...
• darknessfall

  15 Apr 06, 23:38

  just tell her that you will work your best and make sure she is your last gf..
  say something sweet lah...no need to teach you such things right, since you are sooo experienced!
• Itachi

  16 Apr 06, 03:19

  yea.. tell her and make sure u mean it!!
  
  relationship maintenance is important and not easy though =)
• mhcampboy

  16 Apr 06, 03:27

  i got an ex before. she had much much more ex than u did. uncountable. but at least our relationship last for 3 years. maybe your case...i give you 7 years like tat lar...
• BadzMaro

  16 Apr 06, 04:19

  I dun think its wrong to have many ex's. Relationships dont work out...somtimes shiet happens , u move on..find new one. Unless u have always tried to salvage the relationship , its not wrong to have many ex's. If u have too high a number of ex's... normallly u will be branded as a playa... so it kinda depends how u handled ur previous relationships.
• browniebaobao

  16 Apr 06, 09:04

  it's not wrong.. perhaps god wants us to meet many wrong persons before meeting the right one...
  
  im always someone's 4th or 5th.. im never someone's first.. lol...
  
  i have girl frens who have 11.. but the 11th is probably her last.
• alexkusu

  16 Apr 06, 09:07

  Originally posted by antoh:

  My current gf told me that i m not mature in relationship.
  
  do you have such a problem?

  if u still havent changed or learned from past rs, then probably..yeah
• wxboi

  16 Apr 06, 10:50

  Originally posted by antoh:

  My current gf told me that i m not mature in relationship.
  
  do you have such a problem?

  not serious enough? i dunno leh...nv been to 1 before
• BrUtUs

  16 Apr 06, 10:53

  Originally posted by antoh:

  My current gf told me that i m not mature in relationship.
  
  do you have such a problem?

  dun tink it matters cos u might be looking for the right one... but it might not be a good stat if u hv legions of ex though...
• ditzy

  16 Apr 06, 11:15

  Its not wrong. Its only wrong when you have sex with all of them and claim later you have so many sex partners before.
• Itachi

  17 Apr 06, 02:06

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Its not wrong. Its only wrong when you have sex with all of them and claim later you have so many sex partners before.

  i was oso tinking abt tt.. whether did he had sex wif all of them..
• Devil1976

  17 Apr 06, 12:36

  Originally posted by Itachi:

  i was oso tinking abt tt.. whether did he had sex wif all of them..

  Does that matter....?
• Itachi

  17 Apr 06, 12:49

  no.. just wondering...
• blackchickenahkai

  17 Apr 06, 12:50

  what if i dont ave any ex gf?
  does it matter?
• nullifi3d

  17 Apr 06, 16:00

  Originally posted by antoh:

  My current gf told me that i m not mature in relationship.
  
  do you have such a problem?

  Once a player, always a player dude. Your tagged for life.
• snop_coolz

  17 Apr 06, 16:51

  it isnt wrong..it just mean that ur previous girlfriend arnt the one meant for u..it is wrong if u started off with the..i just wanna flirt around mentality though...
• silv3rgal

  17 Apr 06, 16:58

  what has your maturity has to do with the number of exes u have...?
  is your current gf unhappy about your maturity, or the number of exes u have?
  
  but actually.. if all your exes left u... (instead of the other way) you should really question yourself whats wrong on your part and improve on it, if not the same will happen all over again and again *touchwood*
• M©+square

  17 Apr 06, 17:43

  Originally posted by nullifi3d:

  Once a player, always a player dude. Your tagged for life.

  For this case. I bet to differ.
• cyrusv

  17 Apr 06, 19:54

  dude g.b.u