Originally posted by forfun_cash:
1) those very enthu one .. keep on toking craps and jokes ..
2) those very cool ones .. sitting at one corner and well dressed ..
- both guys above are handsome and charming ..
Sorry to say, this is not a good question to ask as it is very subjective. Even though I am a guy, I feel that option 1 could be a sweet talker that gals go bonker while option 2 could be reliable and successful person. Worst, they can just acting as such to garner your interest.
Unfortunately, the scenario below for option 1 can be true:
No substance in whatever he says.
He makes you happy when you are down.
Can be classic clown.
Talk but lack of actions.
Next, option 2 as below:
Could be MCP in disguise.
Secretive yet mysterious that appeals to women.
Can be masking his other weaknesses or bad behaviour.
Can be good husband or monster.
So, you have to go deeper than the looks and the stereotyped behaviour. What are the intrinsic values you are looking for in your man?
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