Originally posted by casino_king:
OK first I ask her out. She said yes... Good sign for me.
I don't remember I bring her to movie first or dinner at a nice restaurant first or do both on the same date. One day after many many years she reminded me of the restaurant I first brought her... she still remembers!!!
I tell her jokes and she laugh. (good sign)
One day after many many years she said I so funny she thought at that time... "If spend my life with this guy and he makes me laugh everyday like that for the rest of my life also not bad."
Anyway during the first date or second date I hold her hands and she let me, good sign.
So you see... go step by step but you must move... ask for date... hold hands... kiss... get intimate... if you go too fast she scared... if you don't do it because shy, religious, pai say, scared she think you are ser lang... finish lah.
BGR is like that... step by step, step by step, more and more intimate or she try somebody else and another one escaped or hooked by someone else.
the few times i went out with him just before we got together.. i got suanned until i feel like crying

but in the end oso together
