Originally posted by Marco_Simone:
I asked this gal out in my neighbourhood.She is friend's friend.She said she's kinda occupied on weekdays and weekends which means you know la...
She's not like a knock out babe or anything.She is merely average (of coz would look good with makeup),just that she is tall.And not as if I am fat and disgusting...
I think you're not thinking when you post this thread.
Let's say there's a insurance agent asked you for a drink, but you're occupied on 24/7.
Are you obligated to join her for coffee? Maybe...
Then you have to consider is the time worth spending.
Then you have to think about the piorities.
Likewise, to this friend's friend, you're a stranger. High defence state.
She is not obligated to accept your invitation...to be crude is. She's not dao - shes just not interested.
Yes, she's not interested in you.
So she won't want to waste her time drinking coffee with someone when she could spend her time doing something fruitful/meaningful.
(to some people, they find watching K-drama vcds more joy than to meet up with strangers like you. No offence.) It's a general remark.
Like i've mentioned...it's crude. But it's true.

It's not that she's dao. She's just not interested.