Friends dun fit...
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Sigh... i cant make frenz in class...they seem to be giving me rejection...they think i m some sort of evil person...just becuz i got not doing well with some ppl in class...talk to them also no use...seems that they r faking...
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You can still find friends outside your class. No point being friends with them if you know they will hurt your feelings or showing you '2-faces'. Spend your time doing well in your studies than worrying about this. Prove to them that you are not as bad as what they think.Originally posted by OasisBlue:Sigh... i cant make frenz in class...they seem to be giving me rejection...they think i m some sort of evil person...just becuz i got not doing well with some ppl in class...talk to them also no use...seems that they r faking... -
sec?poly?
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Sec 2...i wis hto make friends fro mother classed but...they all take dat i m a criminal...everytime i pass ppl from other classes, normally frenz of those from my class, they will stare...everyone of them...its so scary..
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Maybe you should check if anybody is spreading rumours about you...
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Ask yourself - What did you do to give them such an impression.
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u steal things izzit?
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dont worry so much boy... i got to know my best pals when i was sec 4...
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Try making new friends or u can clear ur doubts abt this problem. See are there any rumour bad abt u. There are alot of pple out there!
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just an assumption...are u a foreigner?
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nah... anyway i ahve to repeat i m a girl...
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shy girls tend to be very underrated. Why don't you open up once in awhile.Originally posted by OasisBlue:nah... anyway i ahve to repeat i m a girl... -
i do...but i just cant help it...
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haha
frankly speaking... i'm in poly for 1 yr le
Until now.... i still think some of them r quite fake
Those some of them are in my clique, i just ignore them
U are not the only one facing this kind of prob... even adults do experience this kind of problem,
Dun wry k? u can join CCA mah...normally..i find my "REAL" friends there..
dunno y lei...so strange... -
Let me tell you my story.
Last time, when i was in lower sec, they kept calling me gay. I do not know why but it always seems that there must be a gay in every class, so i turned out to be the one. But luckily i got a bunch of friends in class who knows whats my sexual preference. So i turned my anger from those name callings into motivation to study and ended up with 12 for L1r5 for my sec 2 streaming exam and those motherfcukers who mock at me got lower grades than me so they were streamed into other classes. I ended up with some of my good friends in the same class. I could say that moment was one of the most memorable period of time i had in my secondary school days...
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can't make frens? there must be other reasons. not tt u didn't do well in class.
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u tell them lor, call u gay one more time and u put dustbin on his head. But make sure u train up 1st
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I have the same problem too. Know what? it's cause they see u dao or they just think you very weird or is some kind of ppl tat live under the rock so they stae at you like as if you are from outer space. Or you always appear as very meek so they dun like being wth ppl who r defenceless. Instead, they like ppl who have a stronger outlook (confidence) cause so they wont be labelled as nerd or being easy to bullied.
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Chey you posted a topic abt ur major friend problem...ya they have been spreading rumours about you..so you feel this way. Pls do not repeat, i say, do not repeat my mistake.
I was like you , head bow down with mian chou chou expression...not worth it i tell you. In the end, they are the ones enjoying life to the fullest. -
hey OasisBlue, sorry to hear that..
seems that your r/s with your classmates are not improving yet..
did you do what we had advice you the last time? -
u will have to open up...cos someone that young won't automatically approach you..maybe if you have some gathering...say u wanna join...then work it out from there...espeically june holiday coming...
then if your studies is good...offer to help those who aren't doing very well...then let them get notice of you...
i know as a girl...it gets kinda awkward sometimes..but still u have to speak up...
maybe your classmates aren't as bad as you think they are...try to find out why they sort of "don't like" you? -
Well.. june holi...dere is a chalet outing...but i dun wish to go...first my ex best fren will be irritated to see me dere...and i wun be welcome...they will just leave me alone...without a clique...Originally posted by R3SsH|n:u will have to open up...cos someone that young won't automatically approach you..maybe if you have some gathering...say u wanna join...then work it out from there...espeically june holiday coming...
then if your studies is good...offer to help those who aren't doing very well...then let them get notice of you...
i know as a girl...it gets kinda awkward sometimes..but still u have to speak up...
maybe your classmates aren't as bad as you think they are...try to find out why they sort of "don't like" you? -
Not meek...but they think i m weird or maybe those who live under the rock...they think i m not a good person...they think i m bonkers(those insane ppl) and i m classified as highly dangerousOriginally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:I have the same problem too. Know what? it's cause they see u dao or they just think you very weird or is some kind of ppl tat live under the rock so they stae at you like as if you are from outer space. Or you always appear as very meek so they dun like being wth ppl who r defenceless. Instead, they like ppl who have a stronger outlook (confidence) cause so they wont be labelled as nerd or being easy to bullied. -
12 is easy. if they didn't get it then they really should knock the wallOriginally posted by Mariner:Let me tell you my story.
Last time, when i was in lower sec, they kept calling me gay. I do not know why but it always seems that there must be a gay in every class, so i turned out to be the one. But luckily i got a bunch of friends in class who knows whats my sexual preference. So i turned my anger from those name callings into motivation to study and ended up with 12 for L1r5 for my sec 2 streaming exam and those motherfcukers who mock at me got lower grades than me so they were streamed into other classes. I ended up with some of my good friends in the same class. I could say that moment was one of the most memorable period of time i had in my secondary school days... -
ignore them la. rumours will always be rumours, its only weak ppl dat gets pleasure from slandering defenceless people and make themselves feel good. no matter the reason, im sure things will get better in the future.
i get that alot when i was in secondary school.
take pride in yourself, dat u are not guilty of any things that tarnish your own reputation.
my current project makes dun like me too. they probably think im a rich bastard or something. and in the beginning, im often not around in the lab. now, they themselves are not around 90% of the time.
but i not rich.