Weird habit of mine
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shucks... r u someone i know? jeeezus cries! u m or f?
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Go see a psychiatrist ( forensic preferably since they deal with criminals)Originally posted by Ratemelooks:hi, first of all..I like to stalk ppl..especially ppl that I know e.g ex classmates, friends, relatives etc. bescailly ppl that I find fun to stalk, i will stalk (excluding ppl that i do not know)
btw, my way of stalking is looking at their friendster profiles for very very long or try to find them anywhere and create coincidence that i met them. the problem is..i am a very quiet person and also, i dont talk to the ppl i know..but somemore i wanted to tok to thme but im shy..btw, i lost contact wif most of them for 1 and a half yrs liao..as im now at home doing nothing..probably going to study.
how? the more i stalk them, the more distant i felt..i admire their active lifestyle as i browse their profiles..i am now stagnant and sitting at home shaking legs..nope i have no friends..somehow i wish i am someone else and not me. also, even if ppl talk to me face to face..i dao them but actually, i prefer to stalk them instead as i felt it's more exciting and it spice up my life ..
how? how i wish i cld stlak them by following them behind as they continue their lifestyle..
or see a psychologist.
You need help and you better get help or else you end up in jail for stalking -
maybe ur one of the ppl he's stalking.. as he's stalkin silently.. u wun know..Originally posted by tt3:try on me leh... sounds fun 2 me... -
To be honest, I think being stalked sounds kinda fun and exciting too. *shruggs* It brings in excitement in my life...
Anyway, I think I understand why people like to stalk. It's somewhat like the thrill gamblers' get from gambling, shoplifters get from, yeah you know, or... say, umm... anyway, the thrill. Frankly speaking, I'll like to stalk somebody soon enough, just not with those pictures but just... following, knowing things. -
Forumites, pls be more sensitive in your comments.
Topic starter, as much as some of the forumites are just bubbling craps... Some of their advices can be considered... Do consult a professional if you feel that you cannot handle your situation yourself. What you've described is indeed not a very healthy activity and it could possibly be quite intrusive and disrespectful to others' privacy.
If you still insist on having your thread closed, pls post your request in this thread and I shall have it done for you. Thanks. -
You should find something to do in your life. An aim. Perhaps join a club to make new friends or pick up a new hobby to take your mind off your previous aquaintainces. Read a book? There are many things you can do! Pick up a new language, volunteer in some charity organisation... something meaningful. what's your interest? Since you are free enough to "stalk" people, why not use the time for something else? you wont think of such demoralising things when you occupy yourself with other things. When you start working you wont have as much time for yourself. Make full use of your free time.
Being quiet and shy is not necessary a bad thing. Imagine if all the people in the world were social animals.
Think of your good points! Your friends may not have the good points that you have...
Anyway, i dont think checking out other people on friendster is called stalking behavior. It's more like kaypohing around. I bet a lot of ppl does that.