A serious question.. need advice..
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If your gf broke up with you, she initiated the breakup, then now acting like she's the victim, wanting to commit suicide etc.
And want you back. What would you do. is it worth it? -
what is the reason she gave when initiated the break? if it's a lame one and now wanna reconcile wif u, forget it.
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tell a mutual friend to deal with her...
just in case she does anything... -
same situation as me..Originally posted by dumbdumb!:If your gf broke up with you, she initiated the breakup, then now acting like she's the victim, wanting to commit suicide etc.
And want you back. What would you do. is it worth it?
just act dumb.. -
she can't stand the fact that i'm serving ns. and can't give her time and attention.
and i've got a short fuse. but i'm changing that. -
Don't take her back.
In the first place it was she who made the decision to break up. And now it seems that she realised that she made a mistake. And it seems that she's acting like a spoilt brat to correct that mistake by playing with your emotions and making you feel responsible for her actions.
The very fact that she broke up with you because of NS tells me that she's simply too immature to be handling a relationship. If she can't even handle a few days away from her guy every week, then no way on earth can she handle a long-term relationship. If you go back to her, there's a very good chance that you'll be reopening old wounds and inflicting new ones.
But for goodness' sake, do let her parents and/or friends know about her threats to kill herself if you don't take her back. Never take any suicide threats lightly. -
the story is too vague.. u will hv to read my blog to understand my situation
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i agree...guess she is immature to handle relationships...just let it die down...she will forget about it soon...
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:If your gf broke up with you, she initiated the breakup, then now acting like she's the victim, wanting to commit suicide etc.
And want you back. What would you do. is it worth it?
the first sentence already states her mentality...
under no mature mind...would a girl use suicide as a blackmail attempt to get u back
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so unless you are willing to give us all your blog, im afraid we will not be able to help youOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:the story is too vague.. u will hv to read my blog to understand my situation -
Reminds me of my past relationship. Expected me to take off day to accompany her. If don't give her enough time and attention then she'll kill herself. Ask why others have 8-5 everyday and I don't have?Originally posted by dumbdumb!:she can't stand the fact that i'm serving ns. and can't give her time and attention.
and i've got a short fuse. but i'm changing that.
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hai
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Try her BJ, if good can reconsider.
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if she relli want to commit suicide, she will not go around informing ppl or use it to threaten u
dun fall for it cos if ur heart softened bcos of this, u will suffer more in future -
Please get professional help for her if its the real deal. Shes so emotionally unstable that in the event something does happen, all blame and reasons points to you.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:If your gf broke up with you, she initiated the breakup, then now acting like she's the victim, wanting to commit suicide etc.
And want you back. What would you do. is it worth it? -
hmm
a friend of mine...his gf committed suicide..
now, he's stuck with a bitchy gf.. who nags at him, scold all his frens..restricts his freedom. He wants to break it off..but she threatened him with suicide if he does. Since he carries the guilt of his past ex gf.. he's stuck somewhere in the middle.
so yeah, whether u take her threats seriously or not depends on what kinda person she is. Whether she treats you like the sun and revolves around you or not. -
why your friend so dumb one......Originally posted by alexkusu:hmm
a friend of mine...his gf committed suicide..
now, he's stuck with a bitchy gf.. who nags at him, scold all his frens..restricts his freedom. He wants to break it off..but she threatened him with suicide if he does. Since he carries the guilt of his past ex gf.. he's stuck somewhere in the middle.
so yeah, whether u take her threats seriously or not depends on what kinda person she is. Whether she treats you like the sun and revolves around you or not.
she die also not his tai chi mah. must know how to think
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some ppl not that heartless ma...some ppl care for their exs tooOriginally posted by hisoka:why your friend so dumb one......
she die also not his tai chi mah. must know how to think -
any threats to commit suicide/self-harm should be taken seriously under any circumstances.
unless its way obviously a joke.
whether its your ex, your current gf/bf, whoever...you COULD go to jail if someone commits suicide and you actually knew that they were planning to do so.