Grow up
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Nowaday I keep hearing people telling me to grow up, I myself is quite puzzled by the fact, I think myself had mature over the yrs.
Is it because of I dun want to attend church anymore, people say I am not there for them. I just dun want to be commited to a religious as I think it is not the right time.
I feel quite angry abt it. Why they say I must grow up? What they mean by growing up, attending church regularly and grow in god?
Pls tell me what to do? -
nononononononononono...what church you attend? those C*H*C?Originally posted by Sakuraflower:Nowaday I keep hearing people telling me to grow up, I myself is quite puzzled by the fact, I think myself had mature over the yrs.
Is it because of I dun want to attend church anymore, people say I am not there for them. I just dun want to be commited to a religious as I think it is not the right time.
I feel quite angry abt it. Why they say I must grow up? What they mean by growing up, attending church regularly and grow in god?
Pls tell me what to do? -
mayb is your thinking still not yet mature?
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usually when ppl say grow up, its related to maturity, not religion...
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then what is the mature thinking? can tell me??
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other church
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maturity can't be taught.Originally posted by Sakuraflower:then what is the mature thinking? can tell me??
none of us here can speak and explain to you, telling you how yoou could change.
only the people around you will know because they get to see your behaviour and mentality first hand. -
they are just trying to outcast you out of their social group...since you don't attend their church anymore...
asking you to grow has the same meaning as "don't be part of us liao"...heck them la..true church go-ers don't act as immature as them...i bet they are just some trendy church going wannabes... -
committing to christianity means that u believe in the Father, Holy Spirit, and the Son. so u believe in the Word of God. nothing else.
the Bible states clearly that one can be uncircumsized and yet circumsized and circumsized and yet uncircumsized. u can do something, but if your heart isnt in it, its pointless. therefore, as long as u believe, u r committed. going to church is all good, but if u dun go, hey, dun go!
they ask u to grow up, its just because they are quite sore that u arent committed (in their own definition), and wanna oust u from their circle (prev poster). -
whatever that means but ya...they just a bunch of posers la...tell them off...give them a middle finger...say fark u...then walk off...
kewl...
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Who are the people telling you that?Originally posted by Sakuraflower:Nowaday I keep hearing people telling me to grow up, I myself is quite puzzled by the fact, I think myself had mature over the yrs.
Is it because of I dun want to attend church anymore, people say I am not there for them. I just dun want to be commited to a religious as I think it is not the right time.
I feel quite angry abt it. Why they say I must grow up? What they mean by growing up, attending church regularly and grow in god?
Pls tell me what to do? -
maturity is....
not needing to ever ask yourself if you're mature enough...?
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why bother about what others say? i do not think that you have done anything immature.Originally posted by Sakuraflower:Nowaday I keep hearing people telling me to grow up, I myself is quite puzzled by the fact, I think myself had mature over the yrs.
Is it because of I dun want to attend church anymore, people say I am not there for them. I just dun want to be commited to a religious as I think it is not the right time.
I feel quite angry abt it. Why they say I must grow up? What they mean by growing up, attending church regularly and grow in god?
Pls tell me what to do?
maybe this is why they tell you to grow up
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Religion is up to you. Don't let the people around you force you into it. And i'm not saying you should rebel against your parents wishes la. Just take their thoughts into perspective and understand why they want you to have faith in something rather than depending on luck.Originally posted by Sakuraflower:Nowaday I keep hearing people telling me to grow up, I myself is quite puzzled by the fact, I think myself had mature over the yrs.
Is it because of I dun want to attend church anymore, people say I am not there for them. I just dun want to be commited to a religious as I think it is not the right time.
I feel quite angry abt it. Why they say I must grow up? What they mean by growing up, attending church regularly and grow in god?
Pls tell me what to do?
Growing for guys starts when they enlist into the army. XD -
Some idiots I've seen, came out like little kids, lacking in confidence and being a total leech.Originally posted by nullifi3d:Religion is up to you. Don't let the people around you force you into it. And i'm not saying you should rebel against your parents wishes la. Just take their thoughts into perspective and understand why they want you to have faith in something rather than depending on luck.
Growing for guys starts when they enlist into the army.XD