Loss of fren
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I just lost a fren becoz i comment on her figure
I merely said she had good figure, she got angry and ignore me for weeks
then after tat told me, the relation cannot return to like before the incident -
sorry for laughing.
i think u shld scold her instead. -
I find it extremely weird too!..
She said its something that i shld not say to a girl
But i been saying similar things to my other female frens and they dont react this way.
How weird that a comment like that made me lose a fren.. its first time in my life.. how abt u guys? -
I guess she thought u r trying to hint her smth
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Funny that I thought I've just read an article about how the local girls are complaining that we guys don't compliment them back some time ago...? <>
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wat a joke .. i always tok c0ck with my females frens , say them b!tchy and s!uty .. lol ..
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Most probably she thinks u are like other guys.. look at places that u shouldnt in her perception.
My ex also like that.. before we were together.. i noticed he like to comment about some passerby's figures, whether they are proportional or not etc. Then I actually asked him did he ever looked at my boobs since I notice that he looked at other girls. He admitted he did lor. Then I told him err.. I juz felt kind of awkward.. and told him maybe I will distant myself from him. I juz feel uneasy to know that I'm being looked at. -
i think it depends on how you put it to her.
"wah, ler sibei tualiap." (stands akimbo and laughs like stephen chow)
of course she gets angry.
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whats wrong with your bf looking at your boobs?Originally posted by browniebaobao:Most probably she thinks u are like other guys.. look at places that u shouldnt in her perception.
My ex also like that.. before we were together.. i noticed he like to comment about some passerby's figures, whether they are proportional or not etc. Then I actually asked him did he ever looked at my boobs since I notice that he looked at other girls. He admitted he did lor. Then I told him err.. I juz felt kind of awkward.. and told him maybe I will distant myself from him. I juz feel uneasy to know that I'm being looked at.
if he likes you isnt it good that he likes every part of you? -
we were not together yet then.. juz normal frens.Originally posted by dragg:whats wrong with your bf looking at your boobs?
if he likes you isnt it good that he likes every part of you? -
hey brownie i guess u somehow think like her but at a milder extend
would u get angry and then strike off this person as a fren? isnt that abit too much? afterall i already apologise
seriously i cant accept it!. but there is nothign i can do..lanlan loh -
erm if a guy doesn't look at you won't you feel insulted that he feels you are not even worth looking at??
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It could be the way u talk abt it.. maybe ur expression, ur tone.. sounds like u were joking, sarcastic or even pervertic. Perhaps she is already not feeling gd abt her figure, and she felt that u were rubbing into it. Or perhaps she duno you long enough and was shocked when u told her that she has a gd figure? Maybe she can't accept it too?Originally posted by soulness:hey brownie i guess u somehow think like her but at a milder extend
would u get angry and then strike off this person as a fren? isnt that abit too much? afterall i already apologise
seriously i cant accept it!. but there is nothign i can do..lanlan loh
I duno.. maybe you two dun know each other well enough. That's why the reaction. -
it was on sms...so no tone or looks watsoever..
and i was saying it in a joking manner
and i also didn know she got mad, until she ignore me -
erm.. y did u sms her that?Originally posted by soulness:it was on sms...so no tone or looks watsoever..
and i was saying it in a joking manner
and i also didn know she got mad, until she ignore me -
sms and msn are HORRIBLE communication tools ..
depending on the state of mind of the reader, your words can lose/change it's meaning ... I have first hand experience ... Minimise sms and msn usage ...
Call or meet up please -
Goody goody girl never see the world before.....
reaction so big.........
macham a kid......
Give her some time to become more mature. -
how would she know your good intentions if you say it via sms? sms is open to interpretation after all
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its the way she condammed it as something negative dats the problem.Originally posted by alexkusu:how would she know your good intentions if you say it via sms? sms is open to interpretation after all -
if a guy sms that I have a good figure all of sudden...I will think he is kinda desperate and drunk..or just high..I mean..text messages dun have much expression, cant blame me for thinking that way.
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It is obvious you know nothing about guys or men. Normal friends, uncle, passerby, neighbour, your boss, your cousins, if they are male they will take notice of your body, especially your boobs.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Most probably she thinks u are like other guys.. look at places that u shouldnt in her perception.
My ex also like that.. before we were together.. i noticed he like to comment about some passerby's figures, whether they are proportional or not etc. Then I actually asked him did he ever looked at my boobs since I notice that he looked at other girls. He admitted he did lor. Then I told him err.. I juz felt kind of awkward.. and told him maybe I will distant myself from him. I juz feel uneasy to know that I'm being looked at.
Men are pervs.. You can look at my other topics. I dun believe any guy who says that he is otherwise. -
To the OP, you can tell that friend, bah leh.. Dun want to be friend, then forget about it. Also add to her that she is naive and has no idea as to what goes on in men's head. Tell her to be happy I didn't fantasize banging on you.
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this is very true.Originally posted by pwnz0r:It is obvious you know nothing about guys or men. Normal friends, uncle, passerby, neighbour, your boss, your cousins, if they are male they will take notice of your body, especially your boobs.
Men are pervs.. You can look at my other topics. I dun believe any guy who says that he is otherwise.
but pervs is too strong a word to use. -
I guess it's just kinda weird if someone suddenly sms you something like that?Originally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:if a guy sms that I have a good figure all of sudden...I will think he is kinda desperate and drunk..or just high..I mean..text messages dun have much expression, cant blame me for thinking that way. -
As a friend he say something like that to you... End up you still became gf and bf...??Originally posted by browniebaobao:Most probably she thinks u are like other guys.. look at places that u shouldnt in her perception.
My ex also like that.. before we were together.. i noticed he like to comment about some passerby's figures, whether they are proportional or not etc. Then I actually asked him did he ever looked at my boobs since I notice that he looked at other girls. He admitted he did lor. Then I told him err.. I juz felt kind of awkward.. and told him maybe I will distant myself from him. I juz feel uneasy to know that I'm being looked at. "