^Delta^'s Story - Not a happy ending
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The above emoticon says it all.
I asked the girl i so adored since last year today to be my gf... Her answer was 'no'. I want this thread to be a guide to all the guys here as not to make the same mistakes as me. I thought the courtship went flawlessly but I was wrong. I overlooked a very important factor.
Reasons?
She said that she still din noe me well enuff even though we knew each other for close to a year. As in she din noe me well enough as a person to trust me. To her, I was always this mysterious guy whom she knew was caring and nice to her but she did not really find out my traits, good or bad thru our conversations. I was to blame. I was afraid of being labelled as a pest, those who chatted up gals every other day. So I made our conversations, online or real life, infrequent. I thought this would keep the feeling of mystery and that she would not be bored easily... Sometimes being too careful can kill bigger plans. She said that I wld hav been considered if i had made talked to her more.
Which brings into the picture another factor. There is another guy who also liked her since last year but he basically crapped to her alot. So he was in the game from the very start whereas I was always the mysterious shadow disappearing and reappearing in her life. And what really hurt was the fact that she told me jus noe that she had decided to giv tat guy a chance. In fact, they would be attached real soon.
I dun noe... Lost and forlorn I am... I should steer clear of her faculty for a while, I dun noe how I will feel seeing her hold hands with another guy. Its a terrible feeling.
But I asked her twice and that was it. I dun push. I am not a pushy guy. On no account does a gentleman force a gal to reply the way he wants. If I dun get it, so be it. It will hurt for me, but better me hurt than a friendship destroyed.
And to guys who think that simply because a gal has been accepting your gifts and smiles to you and such... Pls dun be mistaken... Alll gals are different... Each has her unique way of expressing her feelings. To her, my tokens were jus gifts of friendship. To think that a supposedly open minded person like me failed to read this. Ah, how one sided love blinds and conjures up beautiful mirages.
Yeah basically everything was perfect jus now. The beautiful evening sky, the brightly lit CBD area, the Esplanade waterfront... But all that was lost when her reply came.
Waht will I do? Well I will steer clear of relationships for a while, I need time to heal and feel human again, and most importantly I need to revaluate myself and figure out what went wrong. I will be a better person before I step into the love arena again.
Lat but not least, I would like to thank my friends who have been such a great help to me over the past few months...
1). FeowFeow - For ur mature and sensible advice, u hav always played the role of a big sister. I love ur gift ideas and thanks for recommending so many nice restaurants and cafes to me.
2). Mao x 2 - Especially last year, thanks for giving me advice thru PM.
3). Elektra - For always listening to my grouses. I miss the good old days of crapping
Plus PinkyGal76, LarrenV2003, DRX, Smudgey, Starpuppy, NekoRin and others... U guys are great... I love u ppl =)
In real life, I would like to thank Biquan, Melissa, Jookai, Jieying, Elektra, Rebecca, Aimei, Calvin, Ben and last but not least my jiu-gui buddy Jingyang
with all ur support and advices and ideas. Rest assured that I appreciate all of all of ur advice and help. -
i feel for you...you are right...in no ways a guy should ever push a girl to make a decision...
guess...this solves my problem... -
/me pat pat delta*
dun let this make u skeptical of girls or r/s.
Allow yourself some time to get over it, and hopefully you will meet someone who will reciprocate when you are ready.
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Gosh this is sad but all i can say is all is not over yet...
It is easier said better than done....even i myself cannot accept failures in other aspects especially r/s.
But anyway i apologise for the other time in the thread plus the outing for smudgey jie bday that i jesting to everyone to bet about your odds of your success in winning the gals hand. Next time when we go outing all drinks for you is on me as a form of consolation & sincerety.... really feel bad about this.
Nevertheless dun let this affect your trip to JB 2morrow & your other plans to work part-time durign your school break. Today u feel that u are a complete zero but 2morrow be a hero as your responsibilities in life is waiting for you to be accomplished.
Bout Au Revior -
Hey Bro,
I know how you are feeling right now.
Don't be too upset. You did the right thing to express your feelings.
At least you won't have any regrets for not doing so.
Time will heal the pain.
That's all I have to say.
Mushy Gang will always be there for you! -
Anyway 2morrow be a hero in your go cart racing.......
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who?! what where?Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Anyway 2morrow be a hero in your go cart racing.......
who here dare to go go karting without asking mi to go along???
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ALrite ppl, I need some sleep, need to go JB tmr...
Goodnight...
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going to JB for go karting? permas Jaya?Originally posted by ^Delta^:ALrite ppl, I need some sleep, need to go JB tmr...
Goodnight... -
Enjoy yourself, Dude!Originally posted by ^Delta^:ALrite ppl, I need some sleep, need to go JB tmr...
Goodnight...
It's a good time for you to heal too. -
Yupz... But my mood had been spoilt already... Nvm... NitezOriginally posted by HENG@:going to JB for go karting? permas Jaya? -
my racing team is based in permas jaya u know. can consider my home ground now.Originally posted by ^Delta^:Yupz... But my mood had been spoilt already... Nvm... Nitez -
I managed to sleep for one hour plus... but i dun think i can slp anymore now... Plus I had a horrid nightmare jus now...
Time for a shower... Setting off soon... Cya folks tonight when I return... -
Everything happens for a reason
Take this from someone who has confessed to someone she liked for 4 years and got rejected twice
But I couldn't be happier now, and I believe one day you will find the right person and be happy again as well
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Originally posted by rainee:Everything happens for a reason
Take this from someone who has confessed to someone she liked for 4 years and got rejected twice
But I couldn't be happier now, and I believe one day you will find the right person and be happy again as well -
take it as a lesson bah..sum gals like action novels, some like mystery novels, some like romance novels bah. Just a question which novel u want to be.
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Originally posted by rainee:Everything happens for a reason
Take this from someone who has confessed to someone she liked for 4 years and got rejected twice
But I couldn't be happier now, and I believe one day you will find the right person and be happy again as well
(Standing beside MC and imitating 'Devil's look') 
Cheers -
Originally posted by ^Delta^:
The above emoticon says it all.
I asked the girl i so adored since last year today to be my gf... Her answer was 'no'. I want this thread to be a guide to all the guys here as not to make the same mistakes as me. I thought the courtship went flawlessly but I was wrong. I overlooked a very important factor.
Reasons?
She said that she still din noe me well enuff even though we knew each other for close to a year. As in she din noe me well enough as a person to trust me. To her, I was always this mysterious guy whom she knew was caring and nice to her but she did not really find out my traits, good or bad thru our conversations. I was to blame. I was afraid of being labelled as a pest, those who chatted up gals every other day. So I made our conversations, online or real life, infrequent. I thought this would keep the feeling of mystery and that she would not be bored easily... Sometimes being too careful can kill bigger plans. She said that I wld hav been considered if i had made talked to her more.
Which brings into the picture another factor. There is another guy who also liked her since last year but he basically crapped to her alot. So he was in the game from the very start whereas I was always the mysterious shadow disappearing and reappearing in her life. And what really hurt was the fact that she told me jus noe that she had decided to giv tat guy a chance. In fact, they would be attached real soon.
I dun noe... Lost and forlorn I am... I should steer clear of her faculty for a while, I dun noe how I will feel seeing her hold hands with another guy. Its a terrible feeling.
But I asked her twice and that was it. I dun push. I am not a pushy guy. On no account does a gentleman force a gal to reply the way he wants. If I dun get it, so be it. It will hurt for me, but better me hurt than a friendship destroyed.
And to guys who think that simply because a gal has been accepting your gifts and smiles to you and such... Pls dun be mistaken... Alll gals are different... Each has her unique way of expressing her feelings. To her, my tokens were jus gifts of friendship. To think that a supposedly open minded person like me failed to read this. Ah, how one sided love blinds and conjures up beautiful mirages.
Yeah basically everything was perfect jus now. The beautiful evening sky, the brightly lit CBD area, the Esplanade waterfront... But all that was lost when her reply came.
Waht will I do? Well I will steer clear of relationships for a while, I need time to heal and feel human again, and most importantly I need to revaluate myself and figure out what went wrong. I will be a better person before I step into the love arena again.
Lat but not least, I would like to thank my friends who have been such a great help to me over the past few months...
1). FeowFeow - For ur mature and sensible advice, u hav always played the role of a big sister. I love ur gift ideas and thanks for recommending so many nice restaurants and cafes to me.
2). Mao x 2 - Especially last year, thanks for giving me advice thru PM.
3). Elektra - For always listening to my grouses. I miss the good old days of crapping
Plus PinkyGal76, LarrenV2003, DRX, Smudgey, Starpuppy, NekoRin and others... U guys are great... I love u ppl =)
In real life, I would like to thank Biquan, Melissa, Jookai, Jieying, Elektra, Rebecca, Aimei, Calvin, Ben and last but not least my jiu-gui buddy Jingyang
with all ur support and advices and ideas. Rest assured that I appreciate all of all of ur advice and help.
It wasn't even a calculated plan to follow-up and execute third - sixth moves of seduction. It seriously makes no sense by doing something that makes no further meaning later.
You failed because you don't understand AOS and your market yourself along that direction.
In simple, I doubt you were yourself right from the beginning.
But regardless....
/me pat pat
Cheers -
/gives Delta a hug...
Come on dude...
There are loads of gals out there... -
oh Qing ai de......so sad to learn wat happen..... *sob sob*
your heart must be aching like crazy...... do not blame yourself
for not doing this and that hor ....we just cannot turn back the clock
its good to let it all out....go to the beach to scream and shout .....
go do anything to let out yr frustration....just remember not to bottom up
yr feeling ya....
*huggie hug hug*
as wat larling say.....as least you try ma..... if no try you oso never know....
maybe you and the gal are just not meant to be........ come on.....a handsome and
wonderful dude like you will not have lack of female "suitors" ma
Cheer up hor......anything can always sms / pm pinky me oso
We the mushy gang will always be there for you wor
*mushy mushy group huggie hug hug*
muacks muacks -
yeah lotss of girls out there, hope you will find one to your liking man
I admire your spirit and courage -
Well..she gave you an answer...that shld be enough of a good reason for you to move on and forget abt the past..not to say forget, there's no reason for you to think n brood over it...
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pats deltaOriginally posted by ^Delta^:
The above emoticon says it all.
I asked the girl i so adored since last year today to be my gf... Her answer was 'no'. I want this thread to be a guide to all the guys here as not to make the same mistakes as me. I thought the courtship went flawlessly but I was wrong. I overlooked a very important factor.
Reasons?
She said that she still din noe me well enuff even though we knew each other for close to a year. As in she din noe me well enough as a person to trust me. To her, I was always this mysterious guy whom she knew was caring and nice to her but she did not really find out my traits, good or bad thru our conversations. I was to blame. I was afraid of being labelled as a pest, those who chatted up gals every other day. So I made our conversations, online or real life, infrequent. I thought this would keep the feeling of mystery and that she would not be bored easily... Sometimes being too careful can kill bigger plans. She said that I wld hav been considered if i had made talked to her more.
Which brings into the picture another factor. There is another guy who also liked her since last year but he basically crapped to her alot. So he was in the game from the very start whereas I was always the mysterious shadow disappearing and reappearing in her life. And what really hurt was the fact that she told me jus noe that she had decided to giv tat guy a chance. In fact, they would be attached real soon.
I dun noe... Lost and forlorn I am... I should steer clear of her faculty for a while, I dun noe how I will feel seeing her hold hands with another guy. Its a terrible feeling.
But I asked her twice and that was it. I dun push. I am not a pushy guy. On no account does a gentleman force a gal to reply the way he wants. If I dun get it, so be it. It will hurt for me, but better me hurt than a friendship destroyed.
And to guys who think that simply because a gal has been accepting your gifts and smiles to you and such... Pls dun be mistaken... Alll gals are different... Each has her unique way of expressing her feelings. To her, my tokens were jus gifts of friendship. To think that a supposedly open minded person like me failed to read this. Ah, how one sided love blinds and conjures up beautiful mirages.
Yeah basically everything was perfect jus now. The beautiful evening sky, the brightly lit CBD area, the Esplanade waterfront... But all that was lost when her reply came.
Waht will I do? Well I will steer clear of relationships for a while, I need time to heal and feel human again, and most importantly I need to revaluate myself and figure out what went wrong. I will be a better person before I step into the love arena again.
Lat but not least, I would like to thank my friends who have been such a great help to me over the past few months...
1). FeowFeow - For ur mature and sensible advice, u hav always played the role of a big sister. I love ur gift ideas and thanks for recommending so many nice restaurants and cafes to me.
2). Mao x 2 - Especially last year, thanks for giving me advice thru PM.
3). Elektra - For always listening to my grouses. I miss the good old days of crapping
Plus PinkyGal76, LarrenV2003, DRX, Smudgey, Starpuppy, NekoRin and others... U guys are great... I love u ppl =)
In real life, I would like to thank Biquan, Melissa, Jookai, Jieying, Elektra, Rebecca, Aimei, Calvin, Ben and last but not least my jiu-gui buddy Jingyang
with all ur support and advices and ideas. Rest assured that I appreciate all of all of ur advice and help.
well I have not much to say but this.
For every love relationship, we should try our best. Even at times when we failed at least we can tell ourselves honestly is her choice and we have respect her decision. -
Y do ppl like u have to keep posting this thread
Muz u make this a review of my past..?
On ur knees...I want u to beg for Forgiveness! -
SOON you people would be invited for the roles of agents in the next MATRIX CONTINUATION....Originally posted by Yunhaier:
(Standing beside MC and imitating 'Devil's look')
Cheers "