How to deal with jealous people?
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I previously had people bullying or picking on me because they either can't believe I could do so well or they are plain jealous. They like to go like, "huh, sure or not? 'my name here' really do that meh?" very loudly in the public.
I find this very irksome and would to know how to deal with this sort of people. They also like to saboh (play politics). How? I've been affected by it till I can't do well in my studies and now im retaking my exams privately..haix..this really sucks!
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The best way is to ignore them.
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i think the problem is with you and not them, you cannot stop them from being jealous, but you can not let them affect you by ignoring them.
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retaking exams ? LOL .. no wonder they dont believe in watever u do . face it .Originally posted by HarshBrown:I previously had people bullying or picking on me because they either can't believe I could do so well or they are plain jealous. They like to go like, "huh, sure or not? 'my name here' really do that meh?" very loudly in the public.
I find this very irksome and would to know how to deal with this sort of people. They also like to saboh (play politics). How? I've been affected by it till I can't do well in my studies and now im retaking my exams privately..haix..this really sucks! -
1) ignore em.
2) politics them back. im sure u can do better since they not expecting anything.
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Simple solution: stop bragging to these people. Why do you need validation from people whom you don't even like? Heck, discontinue relations with them since they're not your friends.
There are always more people out there you can be friends with. -
The best way to revenge is to prove them wrong, action speaks louder than words. Last time there was this guy who always make bold claims, sometimes impossible things and everyone will say he is crazy obviously, but once he has done enough impossible things (not all, but done enough), people will start to believe that impossible things is not so impossible for people with determination to do it. I am not suggesting people go around claiming they can lift the MRT track on his own, in short, know your limits.
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I dun brag to people neither do I want to prove to them I can do better (or even challenge them).
Btw, the ppl who did that to me are those who goes to ITE, retake or go private schooling (meaning they did badly too)..I was thinking that this is karma or they spend their time 'worrying' that I might beat them =.=" Anyway, my class is a lousy one, always play and play and hiao. Perhaps I could do better if I am on my ownself, self-studying. -
so where u are now?
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no wonder u failed ur exams .. cos u are always giving excuses like " Perhaps I could do better if I am on my ownself, self-studying." come on . stop complaining and go study lar . stop giving urself excuses and u shld be able to pass .Originally posted by HarshBrown:I dun brag to people neither do I want to prove to them I can do better (or even challenge them).
Btw, the ppl who did that to me are those who goes to ITE, retake or go private schooling (meaning they did badly too)..I was thinking that this is karma or they spend their time 'worrying' that I might beat them =.=" Anyway, my class is a lousy one, always play and play and hiao. Perhaps I could do better if I am on my ownself, self-studying. -
make him more jealous, let him burn within LOL!!!
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Now? I'm studying and this is my topic abt how to deal with jealous people and not asking me to go study because you can't be 24/7 studying right? Why can't I let off my steam here?
You may think I like calling the kettle black but they did it to me too so why can't I ask for advice here? -
am i asking you go and study?Originally posted by HarshBrown:Now? I'm studying and this is my topic abt how to deal with jealous people and not asking me to go study because you can't be 24/7 studying right? Why can't I let off my steam here? You may think I like calling the kettle black but they did it to me too so why can't I ask for advice here?
i wanna know which level you studying so we can evaluate the level of maturity you and your friends are right now...
tsk~tsk~~ -
That's not an excuse it's the true! I could finish up 1 whole chapter in my ten yr series within a small amt of time given and the rest I could just play and do something. Anyway, this topic isn't abt me studying so stick to it.Originally posted by forfun_cash:no wonder u failed ur exams .. cos u are always giving excuses like " Perhaps I could do better if I am on my ownself, self-studying." come on . stop complaining and go study lar . stop giving urself excuses and u shld be able to pass . -
There are many people replying here so I cld be refering to one of them, I didn't quote you did I?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:am i asking you go and study?
i wanna know which level you studying so we can evaluate the level of maturity you and your friends are right now...
tsk~tsk~~ So dun assume I might be replying to you.
Anyway, I seen your post and 'where are you now?' could be anything in different tone (whether is it in a mocking or in a good way).
Anyway, it's O's. -
don't talk cock and try to hide...i was the only one asking where u studying now..and u replied with the word NOW?Originally posted by HarshBrown:There are many people replying here so I cld be refering to one of them, I didn't quote you did I? So dun assume I might be replying to you.
Anyway, I seen your post and 'where are you now?' could be anything in different tone (whether is it in a mocking or in a good way).
Anyway, it's O's.
don't lie through your teeth...
tsk...talk about being humble and likable among your friends... -
Please la, the way you speak is so retarded, when did I say something vulgar like cock and all that? You trying to pick a fight issit? lolx, all the post r for here to see why would I lie? there's a 5 min intervals for me of course I can surf ard DUH.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:don't talk cock and try to hide...i was the only one asking where u studying now..and u replied with the word NOW?
don't lie through your teeth...
tsk...talk about being humble and likable among your friends...
yaya, as if you are likable in real life too the way you little bit also flares up shows how childish are you like as if ppl in real life r not giving you enough attention so you direct it to me. yaya i'm soo sorry to not quote you thus seems like ignoring you, you deprived g4y b[b][i]itch. -
so sad huh.....i didn't even complete my education studies overseas due to treachery.....anyway cry more....it helps......
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What happen to you now? alone and typing this? sibei kelian..sigh, shld not be affected..dun wanna end up like you.Originally posted by gohkatkat:so sad huh.....i didn't even complete my education studies overseas due to treachery.....anyway cry more....it helps...... 
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so you are really not likable among your friends ar? they like to sabo you because they don't like you...why they don't like you?because you are so immature...you can't get into their clique so now you are trying to gain pity and make it sound like they are jealous of you...i wonder...who is jealous of not being part of their clique?Originally posted by HarshBrown:Please la, the way you speak is so retarded, when did I say something vulgar like cock and all that? You trying to pick a fight issit? lolx, all the post r for here to see why would I lie? there's a 5 min intervals for me of course I can surf ard DUH.
yaya, as if you are likable in real life too the way you little bit also flares up shows how childish are you like as if ppl in real life r not giving you enough attention so you direct it to me. yaya i'm soo sorry to not quote you thus seems like ignoring you, you deprived g4y b[b][i]itch. -
so what...now you cannot do better than them in terms of studies and you wanna come complaining here about them sabo-ing you and being jealous of you?Originally posted by HarshBrown:I dun brag to people neither do I want to prove to them I can do better (or even challenge them).
Btw, the ppl who did that to me are those who goes to ITE, retake or go private schooling (meaning they did badly too)..I was thinking that this is karma or they spend their time 'worrying' that I might beat them =.=" Anyway, my class is a lousy one, always play and play and hiao. Perhaps I could do better if I am on my ownself, self-studying.
so what you trying to say...because they sabo you...thats why you fail and must take private exams?lol what talking you...
proper advice little girl...if you wanna do well for your private exams...forget about your past class...shut up and start studying...why grumble about your classmates now?when you are all seperated... -
Originally posted by HarshBrown:I dun brag to people neither do I want to prove to them I can do better (or even challenge them).
Btw, the ppl who did that to me are those who goes to ITE, retake or go private schooling (meaning they did badly too)..I was thinking that this is karma or they spend their time 'worrying' that I might beat them =.=" Anyway, my class is a lousy one, always play and play and hiao. Perhaps I could do better if I am on my ownself, self-studying.
if u are doing so well, then why are u retaking ur exam? -
lolx, the insults dun work on me cause I know they didn't do very wellOriginally posted by R3SsH|n:so what...now you cannot do better than them in terms of studies and you wanna come complaining here about them sabo-ing you and being jealous of you?
so what you trying to say...because they sabo you...thats why you fail and must take private exams?lol what talking you...
proper advice little girl...if you wanna do well for your private exams...forget about your past class...shut up and start studying...why grumble about your classmates now?when you are all seperated...
okok i admit I was lazy or weak in the sub that's why I retake my exams. I have to say that I did quite well during sec 1-2 so at that period of time ,they were like jealous, trying to disturb me to gain spotlight. So you now asking, since I so good why I still need to retake? Long story bro...I am not the kind that ace every exams without studying. Ya, true the enviornemnt everything, even teachers affected my overal well-being. In short, from sec 3 onwards, I was combined with another class and my life went downhill there.
True, a bit silly..but just can't let go some the bitterness in me. I am a very sensitive person so I tend to let things go to my head. But ya, part of this thread is a rant. -
Why would I want to be in their clique? All they care is play and play, bully people. The teachers favour them (sheesh) and ignore the ones that truly works. The ones that truly works graduted while the lazy ones stay behind. Sad to say, everywhere I go (even outside) they were try to pick and tease. Ya cause i'm quiet and don't have daring friends to talk back at them. So ya, I became lazy and unwilling to work. School was hellish. So anything wrong I did, I am being laugh at or bullied. It's like..restricting me..
How to tell that they r jealous? There was this person she asks me how much I got for my F&N and I told her my results..in the end, she pout her lips grumpily and went to her friends start whispering. Once, there was a clogged sink and two ppl start accusing me of doing that! anyway, I have a lot of small traumautising events that leads my emotions goes up and down. So I was tired of the politics and start slacking . To make it worse, this girl bully make me feel even more miserable when she makes my crush (he likes me too) doesn't like me anymore. Because my crush is a popular guy in school so she is jealous and she kept clinging on to him
How would I realise the consequences? I am not fully matured and I dunno how to go abt expressing my emotions. Since I made a mistake in the past, I am now of course asking ppl how to deal wif this kind of thing if YOU were in my situation. -
okie...i see your problem...now do you know your solution?
edit:i think your real problem is you are finding something to blame instead of yourself...a state of denial...you feel that your life suck because they sabo you and are jealous of you...i mean..how is that possible?
you feel that because of them...you have to retake your exams...you cannot see the fact that if you had study harder...would you be in the state you are now?
seriously...now is already may...technically you should be seperated with them for at least 6 months...why only now you wanna start blaming them?
the answer to this is that...you are frustrated that you have to retake your Os..and you need some form of outlet to vent out your frustration...and yes..you are using your ex-classmate to put the blame on...although its not totally their fault...but you just needed someone to push the responsibility to...
hard words...but the truth...