stagnant in a r/s

• courseclerk

  9 May 06, 17:37

  has any couples been through this stage yet? as in.. sddenly, for a period of time, there's isnt anything to talk about or get excited bout. both feel hard pressed to come out with somehting to talk. though both still love each other but jz doesnt feel like the initial beginning anticipation of something to look forward to all the time
  
  strange? or normal? or something's wrong? anything we can do?
• tiggersgd

  9 May 06, 17:58

  its time u reinvent ur outing. in fact reinvent everything n esp. ur mindset.
  
  have u tried playing board games together in a fast food restuarant? play a round...initiate any topic that comes to mind and continue playing the game. finish a round, pause, talk more or vice versa if the mood is there.
  
  this is just one thing i'll do. it can happen to friends as well...not only will it happen in a BGR. but one reminder, its not only 1 sided.
• laoda99

  9 May 06, 18:00

  It is normal.
• nullifi3d

  9 May 06, 18:59

  Originally posted by courseclerk:

  has any couples been through this stage yet? as in.. sddenly, for a period of time, there's isnt anything to talk about or get excited bout. both feel hard pressed to come out with somehting to talk. though both still love each other but jz doesnt feel like the initial beginning anticipation of something to look forward to all the time
  
  strange? or normal? or something's wrong? anything we can do?

  Play DOTA with her. Sure to end with one of you repeating these few words for any mistakes made -
  
  - PWNAGE
  - GodLIKE
  - First Blood
  - TRIPLE KILL
• Quinsy

  9 May 06, 19:06

  LOL!
• CannyOng

  9 May 06, 21:17

  Bring her for a cable car trip....enjoy the scenery of sg for a while!
• Devil1976

  10 May 06, 12:35

  Originally posted by courseclerk:

  has any couples been through this stage yet? as in.. sddenly, for a period of time, there's isnt anything to talk about or get excited bout. both feel hard pressed to come out with somehting to talk. though both still love each other but jz doesnt feel like the initial beginning anticipation of something to look forward to all the time
  
  strange? or normal? or something's wrong? anything we can do?

  Wah liu... Find SOMETHING to do lah.... If not then both just 'shut up' and enjoy each other's company lor....?? "
• CKeer

  10 May 06, 12:42

  It's a normal period to encounter. Maybe u can try something that u don't usually do on ur dates. Book a chalet or something so that both of u can spend more time together.
  
  Cheers.
  C.K
• Sekundes

  11 May 06, 09:11

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Wah liu... Find SOMETHING to do lah.... If not then both just 'shut up' and enjoy each other's company lor....?? "

  Devil's reply these days have become a little edgy ?
  
  Though I second his opinion =)
• pwnz0r

  11 May 06, 09:27

  No need to consistently do fun or find interesting stuff to talk about. Just enjoy each other's company.. No need so chatty.
  
  Or stimulate her physically
  
  Or tell her you want to have 3-some or fool around.. Sure got effect.
• pinkygal76

  11 May 06, 13:06

  Originally posted by pwnz0r:

  No need to consistently do fun or find interesting stuff to talk about. Just enjoy each other's company.. No need so chatty.
  
  Or stimulate her physically
  
  Or tell her you want to have 3-some or fool around.. Sure got effect.

  oh
• FORGET-ME-NOT

  11 May 06, 14:43

  I encounter it right now. I rather spend time with others.