Why girls are so petty?

• soulness

  11 May 06, 20:35

  This girl i know for almost 1 year, suddenly turn hostile after a harmless comment i made
  
  i wasnt mean harm, insult or anything, it was merely a joke which she took is seriously. Now already about 1month from the incident, she treats me like enemy
  
  no longer the friendly, cute and bubbly girl i know..
  
• HENG@

  11 May 06, 20:36

  if u know girls so petty why u so insensitive?
• StarPuppy

  11 May 06, 20:38

  hmm..what did u say to her?
  
  
• soulness

  11 May 06, 20:39

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  if u know girls so petty why u so insensitive?

  i dunno leh.. my other female frens don react this way..
  they just laugh it off, then this girl took it seriously
  as if i killed somebody..
• soulness

  11 May 06, 20:40

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  hmm..what did u say to her?
  
  

  i just said she look good in that certain dress
  and then she turn from a friendly, cheerful, bubbly girl into a cold monster!
• Aveme

  11 May 06, 20:42

  the dress v ugly kind one ah?
• soulness

  11 May 06, 20:43

  Originally posted by Aveme:

  the dress v ugly kind one ah?

  swimsuit
• Aveme

  11 May 06, 20:47

  Originally posted by soulness:

  swimsuit

  lol maybe she is thinking you are fantasing about her body?
  
  treating you like a color wolf liao lah
• chanff8

  11 May 06, 20:48

  Originally posted by soulness:

  swimsuit

  Wah piang... You sure its just becos of that? Kinda... Unbelieveable...
• HENG@

  11 May 06, 20:51

  Originally posted by soulness:

  i dunno leh.. my other female frens don react this way..
  they just laugh it off, then this girl took it seriously
  as if i killed somebody..

  so u're telling me u basically assumed all girls react in the same way, so u were insensitive. then now that u pissed one girl off, u say all girlS are petty even tho in your own words, "my other female frens don react this way"?
  
  U see how your insensitive assumption and generalisation keeps getting u into hot soup? Don't try to pin the blame on the girl. U're clearly at fault here, for making over-generalised assumptions all the time.
• rathcycle

  11 May 06, 21:18

  For a second, i thought that its a pervert topic as i read it as why are girls so pretty...
• gohkatkat

  11 May 06, 21:20

  Originally posted by soulness:

  This girl i know for almost 1 year, suddenly turn hostile after a harmless comment i made
  
  i wasnt mean harm, insult or anything, it was merely a joke which she took is seriously. Now already about 1month from the incident, she treats me like enemy
  
  no longer the friendly, cute and bubbly girl i know..
  

  if you attack at her emotions.......her past nasty experience.....of course......even for me as a male i would flare up too.......
• soulness

  11 May 06, 21:38

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  so u're telling me u basically assumed all girls react in the same way, so u were insensitive. then now that u pissed one girl off, u say all girlS are petty even tho in your own words, "my other female frens don react this way"?
  
  U see how your insensitive assumption and generalisation keeps getting u into hot soup? Don't try to pin the blame on the girl. U're clearly at fault here, for making over-generalised assumptions all the time.

  why are u so agitated?
  i never blame the girl. i seriously find that comment is NOT offensive
  
  i didn make any assumption, coz this is the way i am and i speak like this. i think ur not helping here, u are just here to flame me.
  
  i don remember any personal feud with u anyway. but why ur words are so harsh and aiming at me?
• SPGKID

  11 May 06, 21:43

  
  Gals are petty ... this is true...
  But some guys are more petty then gals.... trust me.
  
• HENG@

  11 May 06, 21:44

  Originally posted by soulness:

  why are u so agitated?
  i never blame the girl. i seriously find that comment is NOT offensive
  
  i didn make any assumption, coz this is the way i am and i speak like this. i think ur not helping here, u are just here to flame me.
  
  i don remember any personal feud with u anyway. but why ur words are so harsh and aiming at me?

  im not agitated. im just being harsh and frank. don't continue assuming.
  
  Im telling u maybe u don't think u've made assumptions but your title itself says otherwise.
  
  im not treating this as a personal feud(once again, u assume), im telling it as it is. im telling u just becos u find a comment non offensive doesn't mean others won't. im telling u human beings react in a variety of different ways. im telling u to be more mindful of possible consqeuences in future before u speak.
  
  if u think all these things im trying to tell u won't help u, thats your loss, not mine. but u have to stop assuming so much. and before u try to deny, please explain your title, because it seems like u're assuming all girls are petty because of the way ONE girl react. So there, im giving u a chance to explain.
• StarPuppy

  11 May 06, 21:46

  Originally posted by rathcycle:

  For a second, i thought that its a pervert topic as i read it as why are girls so pretty...

  actually me too...
• soulness

  11 May 06, 21:48

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  im not agitated. im just being harsh and frank. don't continue assuming.
  
  Im telling u maybe u don't think u've made assumptions but your title itself says otherwise.
  
  im not treating this as a personal feud(once again, u assume), im telling it as it is. im telling u just becos u find a comment non offensive doesn't mean others won't. im telling u human beings react in a variety of different ways. im telling u to be more mindful of possible consqeuences in future before u speak.
  
  if u think all these things im trying to tell u won't help u, thats your loss, not mine. but u have to stop assuming so much. and before u try to deny, please explain your title, because it seems like u're assuming all girls are petty because of the way ONE girl react. So there, im giving u a chance to explain.

  so ur just annoyed with the 'S" behind the word girl?
  is there anyway i can remove the S? i will do it than to hear ur nagging
  btw u are a girl right? lol
  
  tht explains everything
• soulness

  11 May 06, 21:50

  initially i was thinking maybe it was just my luck to meet such petty girl
  
  i nevr expect to find a 2nd one on sgforums! oh wells, girls are girls
  
  u can even get annoyed with a "S" !
  my apologies then..GIRL!
• Gwangetto

  11 May 06, 21:54

  
• HENG@

  11 May 06, 21:55

  Originally posted by soulness:

  so ur just annoyed with the 'S" behind the word girl?
  is there anyway i can remove the S? i will do it than to hear ur nagging
  btw u are a girl right? lol
  
  tht explains everything

  no im not annoyed with the 'S'. however that conveys that u now think ALL girls are petty. i guess your last 2 statements have shown u're just prone to assumptions.
  
  its too bad u think im nagging. U don't know when people are trying to point out to u WHY things happened the way they do. Of course now u've exercised your inability to realise what u say might be offensive, again.
  
  "btw u're a girl right?"
  
  u assume i am harsh because im a girl,
  
  "that explains everything"
  
  and u assume that all girls would react this way.
  
  now i personally find u rather sexist, and the gloves are off.
  
  its obvious u have a problem with making stupid assumptions. I am quite tempted to put it down to it being because u're a guy, but I won't. Its probably more likely to be because u're a bit of a insensitive moron.
  
  
• HENG@

  11 May 06, 22:01

  Originally posted by soulness:

  initially i was thinking maybe it was just my luck to meet such petty girl
  
  i nevr expect to find a 2nd one on sgforums! oh wells, girls are girls
  
  u can even get annoyed with a "S" !
  my apologies then..GIRL!

  its obvious we have an idiot on hand ladies n gents. he says he doesn't blame the girl, but he keeps blaming her for being petty. And now he's saying im petty as well. oh hilarious!
  
  instead of being able to see how he keeps assuming (eg. girls are girls) he continues in behaving in his pre-historic caveman manner. This total lack of mental capability in seeing where he went wrong, and the persistance in putting the blame on others for being 'petty' is just amazing!
  
  So how many assumptions u wanna make? assume girls are petty, assume im annoyed with the 'S'(it should be the entire context of the sentence we're looking at but your languistic skills and mental capabilities are far too low to realise that), assume that i must be a girl just because im being frank, assume that "that explains everything", assume that im was originally making it a personal feud etc.
  
  What else u wanna assume? Go on, keep being defensive somemore. Accuse me of getting on yr case because im a girl. I love it when idiots continue providing evidence of their stupidity.
• soulness

  11 May 06, 22:16

  hahahahhaa
  
  okok heng
  im insensitive, im stupid, i deserve it
  ok? happy?
  hahahhahahahahhahaa
  
  i find u very amusing btw, not petty anymore
• soulness

  11 May 06, 22:18

  btw i remember talking to u b4 heng
  
  but that time u are a guy right?
  doing motorsport studies in uk or somehting?
  
  but suddenly u become a girl... or did i miss somethign inbetween?
  
• Gwangetto

  11 May 06, 22:19

  assume = making an ass out of u and me.
• soulness

  11 May 06, 22:21

  u can say im assuming etc...caveman mindset or anything
  i dont mind ur flaming
  
  but tell me, how did u become a girl all out of a sudden? or there is a similar nick around?