help needed...
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I just get to know this gal who is in the same class as me, we didn't tok much with each other during the first few days of our poly life maybe cause we are not quite familiar with each other...but we have been quite close lately, always chatting in msn... but i am very weak in a conversation... i alway can't find gd topics to chat with her... so guys, wat are the topic u chat with gal u just know for like a month?
also i am quite sure tat i am starting to have feeling for her...so how do i know when is the right time for me to confess my feeling to her? do i wait for her to show sign of interest or do i just confess to her?
thanks guys
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i tink cannot confess too fast to the gal... will scare them away one... about topics ar... tok about sch work, movie, tv show, freak incident, hobby, anything...
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Hijack the lecture and use mic to announce your love for her to the whole LT.
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I tink u shuld give it some time, bah. Sometimez nt gd to juz focus on one gal. Now i tink not the rite time to say anything.
Nvr rush love or feelin. Maybe wen u confirm it not crush den u tell her. But fr now juz take it ez okie? -
alright guys thanks for the reply... i will take it slow then...
but wat about the topic...i really had a hard time trying to find a topic to chat with her... chat about sch work it gets boring...then other topic only last for a while... i really need help on this... -
just say hi!
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not enuff, u you should learn from Singapore idol commercial, stand in front of her and sing.... I know u like me, i know u doOriginally posted by zhjjhz888:Hijack the lecture and use mic to announce your love for her to the whole LT. -
if no topic den dont tok lor.. tell jokes to her lor.. lol
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how do guys normally start a conversation with gal? and how do u take the conversation to the next lvl? like get to know each other better... know more about each other personal things...
sry guys for all the trouble... but when it come to this kind of things, i am really at a lost...i don really know how to interact with gals, although i am gd interacting with the guys... -
music... always music... dont know if it works with sg girls... but it certainly works with australian girls... woot!
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thats a balance between chatting on msn and pissing her off by being a irritatin pest...
find that balance...and you will be fine...
me haven...
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btw...i can confirm you are suffering from the "i just got into poly...i must find a stead soon" syndrome...
feelings?impossible...you only known her for a couple of weeks...don't tell me talking to her on msn...looking at her in class...and you fall in love with her? i bet you wouldn't even know if she has the wierd habit of stealing underwear and smelling them...if you do...will you still have "feelings" for her?
take the rest advice...take it slow and continue to be friends...try going out as a group then slowly observe her reactions to you and your reaction to her...after that...then start going out alone...
oh yea...i strongly disagree to classmate and classmate relationship...like people say....xiang jian rong yi...xiang chu nan... -
To add on. if u really like her. take your time la, y so kan cheong? u sacred other guys strike first?
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I think u are really too rush liao..
juz one month and u think u have feelings for her liao..
u go poly with the objective to find gf ma? -
Maybe it's one sight loveOriginally posted by browniebaobao:juz one month and u think u have feelings for her liao..
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Just find some common topic between both of u Ba. Dunno this will work anot
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Don't worry no gf in poly won't die one la.Originally posted by Saber_Wolf:I just get to know this gal who is in the same class as me, we didn't tok much with each other during the first few days of our poly life maybe cause we are not quite familiar with each other...but we have been quite close lately, always chatting in msn... but i am very weak in a conversation... i alway can't find gd topics to chat with her... so guys, wat are the topic u chat with gal u just know for like a month?
also i am quite sure tat i am starting to have feeling for her...so how do i know when is the right time for me to confess my feeling to her? do i wait for her to show sign of interest or do i just confess to her?
thanks guys -
like u said it's only a few days..Originally posted by Saber_Wolf:I just get to know this gal who is in the same class as me, we didn't tok much with each other during the first few days of our poly life maybe cause we are not quite familiar with each other...but we have been quite close lately, always chatting in msn... but i am very weak in a conversation... i alway can't find gd topics to chat with her... so guys, wat are the topic u chat with gal u just know for like a month?
also i am quite sure tat i am starting to have feeling for her...so how do i know when is the right time for me to confess my feeling to her? do i wait for her to show sign of interest or do i just confess to her?
thanks guys
establish good friendship with her first b4 doing anything.
oh ya don b 2 late to express your feeling to her also, and of course not too early too -
A good conversation is very important. Work on it before anything. Give yourself more time.
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Observe what is her interest or hobby. Example, if she like animals, you can talk to her about animals. Join the same ECA as her also is a good choice. Get to know her friends, so you can know her better.
Once there was this guy who always stood outside my house listen to what I am doing. He gathered a lot of things about me, like what I like to eat, my interest, what kind of prince charming I want... etc. It frigthen me and I change school. You can tried his pattern but don't ever let her find out. -
thanks for the reply guys!
sry...i know tat i am being too rush now...
i will just take it one step at a time...
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If there is effort required to keep the conversation flowing, then perhaps she's not the right person or its not the right time to pursue her. It only shows how incompatible you both are. Can't you be comfortable with silences with each other? Seems like better not pursue unless things change.
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The more you try to find a topic, the less you will get. Perhap, find out what interest her most, do some research on it, than you have some common topic to talk aboutOriginally posted by Saber_Wolf:I just get to know this gal who is in the same class as me, we didn't tok much with each other during the first few days of our poly life maybe cause we are not quite familiar with each other...but we have been quite close lately, always chatting in msn... but i am very weak in a conversation... i alway can't find gd topics to chat with her... so guys, wat are the topic u chat with gal u just know for like a month?
also i am quite sure tat i am starting to have feeling for her...so how do i know when is the right time for me to confess my feeling to her? do i wait for her to show sign of interest or do i just confess to her?
thanks guys 
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the people that post here have some good sense lucky for you no crapper come here and post..........and I am having the same problem as you but........when she don't reply to your message try to prompt her once on other question or topic instead of going back to the same one because she might find it uncomfortable to talk about a particular topic or answering a questions
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All the talking is useless unles u bring her out!Originally posted by Saber_Wolf:how do guys normally start a conversation with gal? and how do u take the conversation to the next lvl? like get to know each other better... know more about each other personal things...
sry guys for all the trouble... but when it come to this kind of things, i am really at a lost...i don really know how to interact with gals, although i am gd interacting with the guys...