How to know her better
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recently i got to know tis girl from friendster 1 mth ago and we exchanged msn add. the first time we chatted she asked for my hp no.
but the problem is im in the army now so i seldom chat wif her now and we only chatted a few times. since i dun really know her tt well i also duno what to msg her except good night msges. i keep pondering over whether to call her but afraid we wun haf anything to talk about. do you think asking her out next week will be a good thing?
serious hor.. no lame pple here. -
but i tot ur a playboy?
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tt was long time ago liao..
wah lau i say serious liao.. still wana mock me
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oui.. call her la. wait for what? wait for qing1 ming2 to come ah?
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we only chat a few times leh..
somemore we are like total strangers lidat.. call her later nth to talk how?
i did wanted to call her during my call admin time but always got second thought.
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if u r shy, then dun approach lor.
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who got experienced same problem as me before?
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if you dont have prepared topics to talk about, it can really be awkward during the conversation. worse if she is not good at talking too.
before you call, think about what to talk. any common interests, hobbies? -
tts what im worried about lor.. tis Gwangetto guy dun understand la
haha duno if tell her about army life good anot leh.. got plenty of funny stuff regarding my army life now to talk about -
why get stressed over what topic to talk over the phone?
just ask her out for a movie/coffee....
after going out and doing things together...then will have more topics to talk about liao ma...otherwise hardly know each other how to chat on the phone?
(real-life experience...all started from an email address a friend gave me )
*pls dont go and talk non-stop abt your army life...she might pretend to listen but in fact getting very bored liao -
wah from an email add? lol..Originally posted by thoreldan:why get stressed over what topic to talk over the phone?
just ask her out for a movie/coffee....
after going out and doing things together...then will have more topics to talk about liao ma...otherwise hardly know each other how to chat on the phone?
(real-life experience...all started from an email address a friend gave me )
*pls dont go and talk non-stop abt your army life...she might pretend to listen but in fact getting very bored liao
anw i decided to ask her out for a movie next week..
and nope i wun talk non-stop about army of cuz.. juz a few funny experiences
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my friends does that..but dun have the problems u have.Originally posted by playboy_1985:who got experienced same problem as me before? -
you are just longing to have a stead la...since you in army and you see the rest of your platoon mates who have their gf to look forward to when they book out...
forget about it.... -
Be natural.
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like what i said above.. if you are posting such replies you can post it in other thread. knn mofo.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:you are just longing to have a stead la...since you in army and you see the rest of your platoon mates who have their gf to look forward to when they book out...
forget about it....
and that is just your bloody assumption. not all the people are like what you said above. -
Hey there Player..Originally posted by playboy_1985:recently i got to know tis girl from friendster 1 mth ago and we exchanged msn add. the first time we chatted she asked for my hp no.
but the problem is im in the army now so i seldom chat wif her now and we only chatted a few times. since i dun really know her tt well i also duno what to msg her except good night msges. i keep pondering over whether to call her but afraid we wun haf anything to talk about. do you think asking her out next week will be a good thing?
serious hor.. no lame pple here.
A meeting would be pretty harmless if you chose to keep it that way And it is probably a better way of knowing someone better. Just be yourself, I know it is easier said then done because you are meeting the girl for the 1st time, but best is being yourself. Don't be so fake lah.. Meeting people for the first time can be quite an interesting event. Because both of you are totally unknown to each other, so objective is get to know each other(obviously duh!! hehe 
) Try to find out her interests. See if it matches yours. For example she likes sports and you too. So you can go on talking about sports.
So bottom line, yeah, asking her out next week could be a good thing and a pleasant outing , if you chose to keep it that way, and hopefully she does too.
Hope my crapZ helps..
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knn...you don't wanna listen to the truth...yet you expect other people to give you advice...if you cannot accept the truth...then go hang your horse prick or something...Originally posted by playboy_1985:like what i said above.. if you are posting such replies you can post it in other thread. knn mofo.
and that is just your bloody assumption. not all the people are like what you said above.
fuck off la...motherfucker... -
Chill man, i guess he's just anxious for answers. Chill!~
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slowly chat to her once a week thru MSN first, try getting her to relate problems to u. and try to understand her.
once u've passed that stage u can start messaging her every day asking how's she and stuff like that.
then start calling and play it from there. u might be able to get her,but if u aren't able to, just be a friend.. -
If ur serious about her good,but then again she might nt b itnrested in uOriginally posted by playboy_1985:recently i got to know tis girl from friendster 1 mth ago and we exchanged msn add. the first time we chatted she asked for my hp no.
but the problem is im in the army now so i seldom chat wif her now and we only chatted a few times. since i dun really know her tt well i also duno what to msg her except good night msges. i keep pondering over whether to call her but afraid we wun haf anything to talk about. do you think asking her out next week will be a good thing?
serious hor.. no lame pple here.
also if ur a hum sup forget it -
x 2. Pls keep your cool people.Originally posted by 00900:Chill man, i guess he's just anxious for answers. Chill!~ -
Here's a few nice Idea, talk about her ?Originally posted by playboy_1985:tts what im worried about lor.. tis Gwangetto guy dun understand la
haha duno if tell her about army life good anot leh.. got plenty of funny stuff regarding my army life now to talk about
Maybe the movie you watched ?
Sometimes,
understanding someone is simpler then you think.
Sometimes its not.
Why don't you open up to her ?
Some people are quite shy about opening up.
Well its easier to say that she's not interested.
Any girl would be interested in any guy, unless the guy himself makes himself interesting right peeps ?
He's not wrong and you're not wrong.Originally posted by playboy_1985:like what i said above.. if you are posting such replies you can post it in other thread. knn mofo.
and that is just your bloody assumption. not all the people are like what you said above.
Its just you guys personal issues, lets not break a sweat here shall we ?
Ressh|n is right, Humans do have the longing for a companion,
It makes you human.
You can't denial that its your instinct, or you desire for companion ship that lead to this ?
Resshin's just picking on your skin,
anyway...
You gotta cool down lover boy.
Look on the bright side,
At least you have an beginning to a solution.
Means and methods, no preference,Originally posted by beavan:slowly chat to her once a week thru MSN first, try getting her to relate problems to u. and try to understand her.
once u've passed that stage u can start messaging her every day asking how's she and stuff like that.
then start calling and play it from there. u might be able to get her,but if u aren't able to, just be a friend..
but...
You have to decide,
Whether she likes you to contact her everyday ?
or she doesn't.
This is what you must understand first.
She needs her space and privacy, so just have to find out on your own right ?
Talking or chatting online with her seems to be a good idea, same goes for sms.
Just take ur time to know her.
Who knows she may open up more then u think ?
Advices to you is :
Be yourself, and know your grounds.