Is it okay to still have pictures of your ex?

• missqi

  16 May 06, 00:37

  Is it okay to still have pictures of your ex?
  As in in phone, computer, etc.
  I don't like it.
  =(
  LOL.
  And I delete all remnants of past relationships.
• Devil1976

  16 May 06, 00:55

  Ok what... I do have..
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 00:58

  I kept some, threw some..
• Gwangetto

  16 May 06, 00:58

  i do keep it though.. brings back memories but ok wad, it wun kill me.
  
  it's ok as long as u r not that sentimental sort.
• missqi

  16 May 06, 00:59

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Ok what... I do have..

  I don't like.
  =(
  When you're with someone else.
  Like you can't let go.
  Sigh.
  sad.
• missqi

  16 May 06, 01:04

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  i do keep it though.. brings back memories but ok wad, it wun kill me.
  
  it's ok as long as u r not that sentimental sort.

  Oh.
  I'm super duper fuber sentimental.
  LOL.
  I cried when Ethan(M:I:3) married impromtu in the hospital with the stupid ring.
  LOL.
  Perturbs me, the photos, that is.
  LOL.
• Gwangetto

  16 May 06, 01:07

  then what r u waiting for? throw them away la.
• missqi

  16 May 06, 01:15

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  then what r u waiting for? throw them away la.

  Not me lah.
  I wipe out all traces.
  My other half does.
  LOL.
• Gwangetto

  16 May 06, 01:19

  Originally posted by missqi:

  Not me lah.
  I wipe out all traces.
  My other half does.
  LOL.

  oops.. din see properly. haha..
  
  but then many men are like that. although it is their ex, they'd still have feelings left inside, even if much of it is gone.
  
  but females r not like men. if they're attracted, they r attracted and will stay true. but once they're out, they're out.
  
  
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 01:21

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  oops.. din see properly. haha..
  
  but then many men are like that. although it is their ex, they'd still have feelings left inside, even if much of it is gone.
  
  but females r not like men. if they're attracted, they r attracted and will stay true. but once they're out, they're out.
  
  

  so true..
• missqi

  16 May 06, 01:23

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  oops.. din see properly. haha..
  
  but then many men are like that. although it is their ex, they'd still have feelings left inside, even if much of it is gone.
  
  but females r not like men. if they're attracted, they r attracted and will stay true. but once they're out, they're out.
  
  

  I so hate it.
  And childish me wishes for the whatever-you-call-it that Will Smith has in MIB.
  
• SGpork

  16 May 06, 01:25

  nth wrong what to keep..
  
  
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 01:28

  Originally posted by missqi:

  I so hate it.
  And childish me wishes for the whatever-you-call-it that Will Smith has in MIB.
  

  that memory-erasing thingee?
• missqi

  16 May 06, 01:30

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  that memory-erasing thingee?

  YES!!!!!!
  something-something-liser.
  I GOT IT!!!!!!!
  THE NEURALISER!
  =)
  yeah, that.
  How nice eh.
  
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 01:32

  Originally posted by missqi:

  YES!!!!!!
  something-something-liser.
  I GOT IT!!!!!!!
  THE NEURALISER!
  =)
  yeah, that.
  How nice eh.
  

  yea, but abit sad at the same time..
• missqi

  16 May 06, 01:34

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  yea, but abit sad at the same time..

  Memories are memories, but we can generate new ones.
  And live for the future instead of the past.
  Unlike me, always stuck in a rut.
  Pestered by the ex though and all that sheat.
  -.^
  **shrugs
  =(
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 01:38

  Originally posted by missqi:

  Memories are memories, but we can generate new ones.
  And live for the future instead of the past.
  Unlike me, always stuck in a rut.
  Pestered by the ex though and all that sheat.
  -.^
  **shrugs
  =(

  that makes sense..
  your ex pestering you?
• CannyOng

  16 May 06, 01:44

  I think whether to keep yr ex photo or not must also depend on the reason of the break-up! If yr ex cheat u,being unfaithful,hurt u by beating u up,being super possesive,always threaten u this and that. Then I think it is something wrong of u to keep yr ex photo who u still have a fond memories of him or her?
  
  But in another way round,if u break becos of parent objection,misunderstanding and damaging reason but he/she treat u super good during yr r/s period. I personally think keeping of ex photo to remind of the past memories is valid!
• missqi

  16 May 06, 01:47

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  that makes sense..
  your ex pestering you?

  Yeah.
  Sad.
  While I've been with my current boy for bout 4 months.
  Not to mention my boy keeps pictures of his ex too.
  LOL.
  I like to make clean breaks.
  
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 01:48

  Originally posted by CannyOng:

  I think whether to keep yr ex photo or not must also depend on the reason of the break-up! If yr ex cheat u,being unfaithful,hurt u by beating u up,being super possesive,always threaten u this and that. Then I think it is something wrong of u to keep yr ex photo who u still have a fond memories of him or her?
  
  But in another way round,if u break becos of parent objection,misunderstanding and damaging reason but he/she treat u super good during yr r/s period. I personally think keeping of ex photo to remind of the past memories is valid!

  yep. breaking up because of the latter sucks..
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 01:56

  Originally posted by missqi:

  Yeah.
  Sad.
  While I've been with my current boy for bout 4 months.
  Not to mention my boy keeps pictures of his ex too.
  LOL.
  I like to make clean breaks.
  

  guys usually find it harder to move on, too many "what ifs" in our minds..
• missqi

  16 May 06, 01:59

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  guys usually find it harder to move on, too many "what ifs" in our minds..

  And how do I find out if he's still in love with his ex?
  How pathetic can I get.
  You probably think I'm some fugly loser.
  =(
  *sighs
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 02:06

  Originally posted by missqi:

  And how do I find out if he's still in love with his ex?
  How pathetic can I get.
  You probably think I'm some fugly loser.
  =(
  *sighs

  I'm sure if your bf is in a relationship with you right now, he is devoted to you wholeheartedly. He might still have feelings for his ex, especially if it were his first love, but it's over and he knows it. I keep pictures of my first gf too, as what we had is a part of me that I never want erased. That doesn't mean I won't love my future gf wholeheartedly, heck, I'll even learn to treasure her more.
  
  Trust your bf, give him the benefit of the doubt, he'll love you more for understanding.
• missqi

  16 May 06, 02:07

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  I'm sure if your bf is in a relationship with you right now, he is devoted to you wholeheartedly. He might still have feelings for his ex, especially if it were his first love, but it's over and he knows it. I keep pictures of my first gf too, as what we had is a part of me that I never want erased. That doesn't mean I won't love my future gf wholeheartedly, heck, I'll even learn to treasure her more.
  
  Trust your bf, give him the benefit of the doubt, he'll love you more for understanding.

  Hmmm.
  Please.
  He's even older than you, if your profile is accurate.
  LOL.
  But that was his longesr r/s.
  Hmmm.
  I jealous can.
  LOL.
  And I can't believe I just said that, sigh.
  So down.
• ^spidee^

  16 May 06, 02:11

  Originally posted by missqi:

  Hmmm.
  Please.
  He's even older than you, if your profile is accurate.
  LOL.
  But that was his longesr r/s.
  Hmmm.
  I jealous can.
  LOL.
  And I can't believe I just said that, sigh.
  So down.

  erm, what has age got to do with this?