sianz 1/2.
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-_- really sian 1/2. been crying for the past 2 hrs. my best friend betrayed me. as in today i just discovered that for the past 2 yrs she's been backstabbing me and a few others.. n noe wad? she's the last person i'll even think of doing that cos i HAD 100% trust in her for the past few years. i used to trust all the friends i make n not have my doubts this and that (i admit im rather insensitive for a girl) but i guess i learnt my lesson well the hard way dis time- that i shudnt trust others so easily. sigh. wonder why people just love gossiping and badmouthing ppl for no reason when they arent perfect themselves. seriously i think they gt nth better to do.
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trust should always be earned..
so the next time u wanna trust someone.. ask urself if that person has earned that trust from u..
for now.. learn ur lesson and move on ba
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Hey there.. Well on the bright side at least you got to know about it.. Haiz.. What to do, humans are not perfect. Just cheer up, don't let one person ruin the beautiful meaning of friendships. What's not meant to be is not meant to be yah? Cheer up..
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Yeah. They ain't perfect themselves that's why they're badmouthing you. That's just one of their imperfections. Cheer up. Life is full of imperfect people.Originally posted by papercut87:-_- really sian 1/2. been crying for the past 2 hrs. my best friend betrayed me. as in today i just discovered that for the past 2 yrs she's been backstabbing me and a few others.. n noe wad? she's the last person i'll even think of doing that cos i HAD 100% trust in her for the past few years. i used to trust all the friends i make n not have my doubts this and that (i admit im rather insensitive for a girl) but i guess i learnt my lesson well the hard way dis time- that i shudnt trust others so easily. sigh. wonder why people just love gossiping and badmouthing ppl for no reason when they arent perfect themselves. seriously i think they gt nth better to do. 
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Why do guys never have this kinda problem? That's because they can't be bothered with it.
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Detach yourself.Originally posted by papercut87:-_- really sian 1/2. been crying for the past 2 hrs. my best friend betrayed me. as in today i just discovered that for the past 2 yrs she's been backstabbing me and a few others.. n noe wad? she's the last person i'll even think of doing that cos i HAD 100% trust in her for the past few years. i used to trust all the friends i make n not have my doubts this and that (i admit im rather insensitive for a girl) but i guess i learnt my lesson well the hard way dis time- that i shudnt trust others so easily. sigh. wonder why people just love gossiping and badmouthing ppl for no reason when they arent perfect themselves. seriously i think they gt nth better to do.
Take it easy.
And .......
Backstab her tpp.
We ARE girls, afterall.=) -
stab here. stab there.
when will it end? -
okie la..don't be sad...you need a crying shoulder mahz?
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backstabbing her back is CHILDISH.Originally posted by missqi:Detach yourself.
Take it easy.
And .......
Backstab her tpp.
We ARE girls, afterall.=)
just ignore her.
or when things have cooled off, talk to her about it if you want...
you 'friend' is probably just really insecure.
thats why she sees the need to gossip and talk bad about people.
so that other will accept her.
and also so that she will THINK that if people dislike you due to her crap, at least she will be sure that she wont lose you... -
More evil than me....Originally posted by missqi:Detach yourself.
Take it easy.
And .......
Backstab her tpp.
We ARE girls, afterall.=) -
Drink Brands Chicken Essence and you won't get backstabbed!
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How come girls got so many this type problem huh?
For guys if got anything bu suang will just shoot... -
Originally posted by Devil1976:More evil than me....
Kidding lah.
But meeting such people are inevitable in life.
Better to just brush 'em off. -
Yeah... I was also just kidding...Originally posted by missqi:
Kidding lah.
But meeting such people are inevitable in life.
Better to just brush 'em off.
Seriously... How can ya be more evil than ME....??
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You never know.......Originally posted by Devil1976:Yeah... I was also just kidding...
Seriously... How can ya be more evil than ME....??
HAHAHAHAHAH.
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maybe they feel strongly abt yr flaws or dey r just insecure?
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try not to cry. dont be sad. you dont need friends like that. Stay strong and put a brave front - ignore them pretend it doesnt hurt, move on with your life and have fun making new friends then they can go eat their own words. because after awhile their words wont hurt anymore cos they dont matter to you!!!!
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Orh, sry hor, the 'guys' must spilt into two groups, 'boys' and 'men' , the latter can't e bothered ...Originally posted by newcomer:Why do guys never have this kinda problem? That's because they can't be bothered with it. -
When you do I'll consider 'pai' you as my LORD..?? ~WAHahaha..Originally posted by missqi:You never know.......
HAHAHAHAHAH.
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Just cry it all out till you feel better, then dun even count her as your fren ever and not everyone is like her you need to trust people again even though she betrayed it, she is just not worth it.Originally posted by papercut87:-_- really sian 1/2. been crying for the past 2 hrs. my best friend betrayed me. as in today i just discovered that for the past 2 yrs she's been backstabbing me and a few others.. n noe wad? she's the last person i'll even think of doing that cos i HAD 100% trust in her for the past few years. i used to trust all the friends i make n not have my doubts this and that (i admit im rather insensitive for a girl) but i guess i learnt my lesson well the hard way dis time- that i shudnt trust others so easily. sigh. wonder why people just love gossiping and badmouthing ppl for no reason when they arent perfect themselves. seriously i think they gt nth better to do. -
That's so unlucky. I feel for you.
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the first thing u should do is to get that stupid "friend" of urs out of ur life.Originally posted by papercut87:-_- really sian 1/2. been crying for the past 2 hrs. my best friend betrayed me. as in today i just discovered that for the past 2 yrs she's been backstabbing me and a few others.. n noe wad? she's the last person i'll even think of doing that cos i HAD 100% trust in her for the past few years. i used to trust all the friends i make n not have my doubts this and that (i admit im rather insensitive for a girl) but i guess i learnt my lesson well the hard way dis time- that i shudnt trust others so easily. sigh. wonder why people just love gossiping and badmouthing ppl for no reason when they arent perfect themselves. seriously i think they gt nth better to do.
but... when it comes to trusting people, always begin slowly. do not show others that u dun trust them THAT much, but rather start building up the closeness of the friendship first. have a form of basic trust in it before deepening the level of trust as the friendship moves along.
now, u've learned ur lesson. forgive that "friend" and move on. -
Originally posted by missqi:You never know.......
HAHAHAHAHAH.
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Never look down on the Thousand-years-old-tree-demon (Jian nian shu yao) aka Devil1976.
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talking about you behind your back sometimes isnt backstab.. maybe u complicate things a little... after all she's a precious good friend...
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look on the bright sideOriginally posted by papercut87:-_- really sian 1/2. been crying for the past 2 hrs. my best friend betrayed me. as in today i just discovered that for the past 2 yrs she's been backstabbing me and a few others.. n noe wad? she's the last person i'll even think of doing that cos i HAD 100% trust in her for the past few years. i used to trust all the friends i make n not have my doubts this and that (i admit im rather insensitive for a girl) but i guess i learnt my lesson well the hard way dis time- that i shudnt trust others so easily. sigh. wonder why people just love gossiping and badmouthing ppl for no reason when they arent perfect themselves. seriously i think they gt nth better to do.
take this as a blessing instead...finding out what kind of perosn she is wuld discontinue the trust she had in u
ur gonan meet more of those related ppl in ur working life to come..
take it easy and move on
no cries no hurt
juz smile on