Addicted to sex and porn
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I always have this insatiable urge to fantasize and have sex. Constantly thinking about sex and porn. I have a steady gf, getting married soon. Not young anymore, early 30s. But I still think of sex with other chicks, even when I was at a KTV, I wanted to screw the hostess there.
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see a shrink if you feel that it is not controllable anymore...i am serious...
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costume play with your girlfriend.
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stop going to such places like pubs or night clubs.
get ur focus on smth else instead.
when u r addicted to something, it shows ur focus is very strong in this area. the only solution is to start focusing on smth else that has nothing to do with sex.
also, make an effort to filter ur internet from porns or other gravure sites, such that when u go to those links, it'll be labeled as forbidden.
one thing for sure, get married quickly!
if u make the effort to shun away from porn and not to view women as sex objects, u will succeed.
all it takes is effort and willingness. -
i wonder if his girlfriend sees it coming....
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It is natural to be attracted and want to screw other girls. The real question is how serious is your desire to bang other girls. From what I read, I guess you are on the verge of picking girls up for one night stands.
Only means to prevent this is to not place yourself in such positions where you can be easily tempted. I suggest you keep away from KTVs and other such places. -
Agreed. No point subjecting yourself to temptation and cheating on your wife-to-be even before your marriage...Originally posted by pwnz0r:It is natural to be attracted and want to screw other girls. The real question is how serious is your desire to bang other girls. From what I read, I guess you are on the verge of picking girls up for one night stands.
Only means to prevent this is to not place yourself in such positions where you can be easily tempted. I suggest you keep away from KTVs and other such places.
Stay away from clubs, lounges and other sleazy places too, for that matter. There are pastimes, activities and places you can visit that are much more healthy and wholesome...
Likewise, do not overindulge in porns... play a computer game instead!
Another thing is to remind yourself of your wife... Are you able to look her in the eye and say "I love you" after cheating on her? I came this close to 'crossing the line' during a business trip to Vietnam. In the and, it is the thought of my wife of 10 years that kept me from doing the wrong thing.
I am glad that today I can hold my wife in my arms and tell her I love her, without my conscience nagging at me -
watching porn and imagine having sex with other gals is still OK.
But if you are getting married, dont really go and have sex with some KTV girl or pros.
try something new with your girlfren, dont make the sex life between you and your gf boring. This may really make you want to go for other girls. But it's your responsibility to keep your sex life with your gf, of cos she play a part too.
It's natural that you feel boring having sex with the same girl all the time, so watching porn might help a bit actually, so that you have new ideas to do different things with your gf. -
But after you watched too much porn, naturally you would want to do it right? With other chicks of course...
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If you can't control it then don't watch too much porn lor....Originally posted by getlaid.com:But after you watched too much porn, naturally you would want to do it right? With other chicks of course... -
Can't control dats why i watch.
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Nothing wrong in doing that. A question next to ask is how clean are theyOriginally posted by getlaid.com:But after you watched too much porn, naturally you would want to do it right? With other chicks of course...
. Beside you probably pay heavy for that. When you have the fantacy again, just think that having sex with stranger probably cause you AIDs and that you pay for it. -
What can't control? This is just an excuse. Only animal can't control.
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99.9% right.......if u feel like killing yourself @ that very moment a very strong feeling that u going to do it but still most pple will control themself to cool down,yet u say cannot control......it is just a excuse !!!Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:What can't control? This is just an excuse. Only animal can't control. -
Then it really have nothing to do with the porn...?Originally posted by getlaid.com:Can't control dats why i watch. -
porn can be very addictive.
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Something wrongs with your life,Originally posted by getlaid.com:I always have this insatiable urge to fantasize and have sex. Constantly thinking about sex and porn. I have a steady gf, getting married soon. Not young anymore, early 30s. But I still think of sex with other chicks, even when I was at a KTV, I wanted to screw the hostess there.
What should I do?
Missing on hobbies ?
Entertainment in other forms ?
Well whats really the cause of it I think might be the lack of activity.
If you really think its outta control then u gotta be kidding.
Immerse in something to do other then think about these stuffs.
Might be you need to have a new hobby.
Somethings are just better then sex....