bf's ex.
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been reading up my guy's blog n gt to noe how much his ex meant to him. his ex is mentioned all the time some recent yrs ago. i dun even exsist in his blog. this is bothering me. wats more, we r quite unstable though both our parents noes us. i reali dunno wat to do. im starting to wonder if i even have a place in his heart. wat do u guys think??
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if u break up, and later on u see his blog is all about you.. wld u be happy?
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hey... i mean jealousy is acting up so..... tats the reason i have doubts in us.
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Blogs ruin lives.
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my opinion is, don't worry about it. he probably blog it all out when he was frustrated and probably depressed at that time. some people will blog only when things gone bad.. the blog doesn't represent the whole him.
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It's always complicating when two loves occupy a heart. -
im wondering if he'd gotten over his ex. or m i jus a substitute? or iszit jus me thinking too much?
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http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=191136
This thread here is a good introduction on what sgforums think about blogs -
sit dwn n have a thourough tok wifhim..tell him how u feel?maybe u will feel better after tt...even if he lie 2 u,at least the jealously wun be tt strong...n i'm sure he wun lie 2 uOriginally posted by VyVy:been reading up my guy's blog n gt to noe how much his ex meant to him. his ex is mentioned all the time some recent yrs ago. i dun even exsist in his blog. this is bothering me. wats more, we r quite unstable though both our parents noes us. i reali dunno wat to do. im starting to wonder if i even have a place in his heart. wat do u guys think?? -
the sad truth is that, guys usually takes a lot longer than girls to get over a breakup.
even if he was the one who initiated it. -
he told mi b4 he'd gotten over her. but i still have doubts in him. his ex msged him on his bday n the msg in kept till now. im not sure if im jus overreacting or wat.
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tot guys get over breakups easily?Originally posted by udontknowme:the sad truth is that, guys usually takes a lot longer than girls to get over a breakup.
even if he was the one who initiated it. -
I am sure he has issues with girls who have tattoos or piercings -
off topic!! haha.Originally posted by DriftingGuy:I am sure he has issues with girls who have tattoos or piercings -
thats what people think.Originally posted by VyVy:tot guys get over breakups easily?
girls fall in love much easier than guys.
but its a lot harder for guys to get over a break up.
learnt it in psych class today... -
wah! never see this nick for a long time.Originally posted by curad:sit dwn n have a thourough tok wifhim..tell him how u feel?maybe u will feel better after tt...even if he lie 2 u,at least the jealously wun be tt strong...n i'm sure he wun lie 2 u -
i suggest u confront him about it. draw the line straight out. let him know how u feel abt him keeping close touch wif his ex.
he will definately be defensive so be prepaired . -
u already said it's his ex lor.
his ex mean his past lor.. y are u jealous over his past?
it will lead u to nowhere wan.. it's the present and the future that matters.
she is someone who spent a period of time with him, someone whom he had feelings for before. If he dun even remember her, then it really shows how lightly he takes r/s as.. -
maybe to him as a guy, it's a time for change?Originally posted by VyVy:been reading up my guy's blog n gt to noe how much his ex meant to him. his ex is mentioned all the time some recent yrs ago. i dun even exsist in his blog. this is bothering me. wats more, we r quite unstable though both our parents noes us. i reali dunno wat to do. im starting to wonder if i even have a place in his heart. wat do u guys think??
imagine u're a guy, everytime u have a gf and u blogged and mentioned her in ur journal... then they become ur ex.
so to him, it might means that if he doesn't blog about u, it could assure him that history would not repeat itself, because he doesn't want to lose u.
as long as he shows his constant affection towards u in those little things, he still loves u.
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ask him...always be open...
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I understand your jealousy. I get that alot too.
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I understand what you're going through. Mine's a similar case. What you want to do is sit down and talk to him about it. If you query too much abt the past, you should be prepared to hear some things that are gonna hurt you. So try not to delve too deep into it. Just talk nicely and slowly, make sure he listens to you. Then listen to his side. If he loves you, he won't allow you to get the wrong idea.
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guys oso like to act cool.Originally posted by VyVy:tot guys get over breakups easily? -
haiya, men are like that la. Girls most of the time have clean breaks. I burn and step on everything sia. He happy happy got so many things of his ex i can open shop. Just let him be la. Otherwise he will call u "the b i t c h who ask me to throw everything away". Haha. I kanna. Be careful.
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more like act tough...Originally posted by Ito_^:guys oso like to act cool.