confused
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the girl i like is leaving my company on tuesday.should i be a man and tell her i like her
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wat's stopping you?
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i just afraid that afther i tell her she will aviod me liao i rather we be friends
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sure anot?
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GIve it a shot man. IF not you will never know what is the outcome.
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k maybe it is the last chance liao,but recently she like using indirect method to ask me go movie.sometimes i reali wonder does she like me
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you wont know if you don't try.
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wats the confusion? jz go n get her number n jio her out lo...
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Yeap! It's now or never... I always tell myself this. It's your own happiness dude!
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Treat her to dinner and tell her. Go dude! We're behind you! And don't forget to update us!
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You only got monday left liao la, grab this chance...
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If u try, at least u will still get an answer.
but if u dun try, you won't know. You might live to regret. -
tell her! life is too short for regrets. besides, if you are rejected, you won't be seeing her everyday right?Originally posted by celong27:the girl i like is leaving my company on tuesday.should i be a man and tell her i like her -
i believe most of the answers here have been asking you to be proactive and take the initiative. Just tell yourself: If you don't do it you have 0% chance of success. If you do it, you have at least 50% chance success.Originally posted by celong27:the girl i like is leaving my company on tuesday.should i be a man and tell her i like her
It's your call.
Good Luck. -
Confused alright. By telling her you like her does not make you a man. Hello, you are a man.Originally posted by celong27:the girl i like is leaving my company on tuesday.should i be a man and tell her i like her
She's leaving the company.. ok bad enuff but still contactable. You can tell her u like her but dun expect this and that. Looking bk, if you enjoy the company of her ard... good enuff isn't it?
Have u iron ya shirt and pants already?
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Bassie is my hero! '\Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:Confused alright. By telling her you like her does not make you a man. Hello, you are a man.
She's leaving the company.. ok bad enuff but still contactable. You can tell her u like her but dun expect this and that. Looking bk, if you enjoy the company of her ard... good enuff isn't it?
Have u iron ya shirt and pants already? /' -
I agree.. the problem with him is he is expecting an positive outcome, thus creating an unnecessary pressure on himself. Just don't expect anything. Anything can happen.Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:Confused alright. By telling her you like her does not make you a man. Hello, you are a man.
She's leaving the company.. ok bad enuff but still contactable. You can tell her u like her but dun expect this and that. Looking bk, if you enjoy the company of her ard... good enuff isn't it?
Have u iron ya shirt and pants already? -
Yes, please.Originally posted by celong27:the girl i like is leaving my company on tuesday.should i be a man and tell her i like her
What have you got to lose? If you tell her and she accepts you, you'll be in bliss.
If she rejects you, it doesn't really matter since you're not going to see her in the workplace anymore.
Just go for it, man!
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Exactly.Originally posted by dokono:I agree.. the problem with him is he is expecting an positive outcome, thus creating an unnecessary pressure on himself. Just don't expect anything. Anything can happen.
The working relationship helped to take away the first obstacle of knowing that person. Something thats always been difficult... the get to know the person approach.
Alternatively celong27... made inroads to shape the a friendship and remain contactable. You will find more about her outside the working environment. This way, not oni u can see for yaself if she's really the kinda gal u like...also it would create opportunity in that sense.
I'm just wondering abt the worst scenrio la. Cos if u declare and got rejected. Things may changed drastically. It would be even harder to forge a friendship thereafter, perhaps? And thus, limiting ya options n opportunities. -
go for it dude.
we're all behind u. just dun let us down. -
Hmm..Originally posted by celong27:k maybe it is the last chance liao,but recently she like using indirect method to ask me go movie.sometimes i reali wonder does she like me -
hi thanxs guys.after hearing all of your support, i think i will tell her ba.wait for my gd or bad news.
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best wishes to you two.Originally posted by celong27:hi thanxs guys.after hearing all of your support, i think i will tell her ba.wait for my gd or bad news. if really cannot be forever lovers, may u two can be forever friends. -
hmm...is that a good...or a bad thing?Originally posted by Ito_^:best wishes to you two. if really cannot be forever lovers, may u two can be forever friends.