Does you feel crappy when being criticise?
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Whether if it's at work or school? Sometimes i do
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Yep I do too.
And it irritates me if the critic gives comments that are non-constructive. Criticise with solid backings is so much better. -
The problem is everyone is different in terms of personality and thus will do things differently. Don't take criticisms personally but as a way of learning more about yourself and that person who criticises you. Everyone will always think he is right because it comes from their own point of view and circumstances.
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tt depends.
if the criticism has some tactfulness in it, i might still accept.
otherwise it just suX lah.
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i either listen and accept
or pretend to listen
or completely ignore
or snap. -
I will normally be feeling down if i am being criticise by someone.
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if theres some truth in it...Ill accept it...maybe feel bad... if it just BS like the person criticise for the sake of it...Ill sae "a wise man like me see everyone as wise...some idiot will see others as idiot..."
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nobody can stand criticism.
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who doesnt feel crappy...
but its wat u make out of it...
dun let it get too much into you lor..
some are good, then learn from it lor..if not, then jus dispose it lar -
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if you dont mind what you hear, keep it and maybe try to improve yourself
if you dont like what you hear, throw it our...no need to get mad over it... -
it depends for me, if its someone of importance, or of great significance, then yes, if not.. then i'd probably not give a hoot.Originally posted by Texcoco II:Whether if it's at work or school? Sometimes i do -
yes i do.
but usually it won't last.
self-criticism lasts longer. -
I'll feel bad too. But i rather have it that way. At least u noe there's a problem.
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C'mon, look at the brighter side of the criticism. It's like the "half-empty or half-full glass" concept. Look at it as a criticism to make you do better, or if you choose not to, then it will look like a personal attack, putting your flaw under a microscope for everyone to see.
E.g.:
Your thread title is "Does you feel crappy when being criticise?"... If I were to say, it should be "Do you feel crappy..." instead of "Does you ...", how would you take it?
Would you take it as I am criticizing your english and condemn you for someone who is forever lousy at grammar? Or would you take it as a remark that you will bear in mind, and avoid making such mistakes?...
Simply put, the choice is up to whether you want to feel crappy or not.
Take it easy, dude... Life's too short. -
i try to remember that it is my responsibility to not feel crappy when someone criticised me.
even if someone criticised me unreasonably, i still must try not to feel crappy because i will be the one who feels the emotional pain if i feel crappy.
you may ask, how is that possible?
well, by conditioning, and practising various criticism situation in your mind and reheasing the correct responses. if there are real situations happening to you, try to remember to not feel crappy about it.
we all have been used to feel crappy when being criticised during our growing up years. hence what i am teaching you all about changing these reactions is called....
unlearning and changing the way we react to situations -
repression is never the cure.Originally posted by january:i try to remember that it is my responsibility to not feel crappy when someone criticised me.
even if someone criticised me unreasonably, i still must try not to feel crappy because i will be the one who feels the emotional pain if i feel crappy.
you may ask, how is that possible?
well, by conditioning, and practising various criticism situation in your mind and reheasing the correct responses. if there are real situations happening to you, try to remember to not feel crappy about it.
we all have been used to feel crappy when being criticised during our growing up years. hence what i am teaching you all about changing these reactions is called....
unlearning habits.
wait one fine day u suddenly strip and run around orchard road naked den u noe. -
i am not asking you to swallow the anger...
i am just teaching you all to learn how to not feel the crappiness in you by what we called
unconditioning the sadness
just like how people uncondition their fear to certain things.
i did not say you cannot approach the person and tell him that his criticisim is wrong or what, i am only telling you learn how to not to feel angry in the first place because when you are angry or sad, no one is carrying it for you, but yourself. -
dont know
people never critisize me leh
then how? -
change for the better . even if it's not true
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im resistant to negative criticism, but always willing to hear constructive ones..in fact, i always ask my peers for it
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No
It means I'm worthy of their time and attention to criticise me