She stalks me all the time
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There is this girl I know, I only treat her as a friend. But instead of treating me back as a friend, she stalks me all the time and thinks that I am interested in her. How do i know that? she tells her friend and her friend told me. And the main thing is, i only like her as a friend, not someone special. so how?
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just ask her out and have a talk with her..but tell her gently
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You have a big problem, there is no right solution. Just ask her friend to tell her if you do not have the guts to tell her yourself.Originally posted by cannonprinter:There is this girl I know, I only treat her as a friend. But instead of treating me back as a friend, she stalks me all the time and thinks that I am interested in her. How do i know that? she tells her friend and her friend told me. And the main thing is, i only like her as a friend, not someone special. so how?
If she is psycho then she thinks you do not know your own feelings. You do not know what is best for yourself.
Take one step at a time and ask her friend to tell her then see how.
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however..what are the signs that shes stalking you?
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how old is your desk jet printer?...i mean how old the both of you?
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most girls are like that.....i met a couple of them like the malaysians.......and last time in singapore as well..............as well as other kinds of races.......australian......Originally posted by cannonprinter:There is this girl I know, I only treat her as a friend. But instead of treating me back as a friend, she stalks me all the time and thinks that I am interested in her. How do i know that? she tells her friend and her friend told me. And the main thing is, i only like her as a friend, not someone special. so how?
nothing common......just remember to give A GOOD PUNCH and that will solve the problem to their BTICHNESS! -
she want u boy...
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i will tell her one day.. soon or laterOriginally posted by casino_king:You have a big problem, there is no right solution. Just ask her friend to tell her if you do not have the guts to tell her yourself.
If she is psycho then she thinks you do not know your own feelings. You do not know what is best for yourself.
Take one step at a time and ask her friend to tell her then see how. -
signs? many of them.. want me to accompany her home, keep calling me, keep msging me, even bo liao stuff also must tell me..Originally posted by StarPuppy:however..what are the signs that shes stalking you? -
hmm is the age impt? oh well, i am 19 shes 18..Originally posted by R3SsH|n:how old is your desk jet printer?...i mean how old the both of you? -
just hint to her you like someone else..Originally posted by cannonprinter:signs? many of them.. want me to accompany her home, keep calling me, keep msging me, even bo liao stuff also must tell me.. -
i kanna that b4... she call me i say im busy... she sms me i reply slowly... lols... =xOriginally posted by cannonprinter:signs? many of them.. want me to accompany her home, keep calling me, keep msging me, even bo liao stuff also must tell me.. -
You meet her often or not? Sch or work?Originally posted by cannonprinter:i will tell her one day.. soon or later -
School.. polytechnic. not good to mention which polytechnic so i wont say it if u happen to ask..Originally posted by casino_king:You meet her often or not? Sch or work? -
If she tells her friend that you like her, maybe you can tell her friend that she had misunderstood your 'friendliness'.
Just ask her out and clarify your stand in this case.
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OK wait until after exams then tell her, better just before the long break.Originally posted by cannonprinter:School.. polytechnic. not good to mention which polytechnic so i wont say it if u happen to ask.. -
Couldn't agree more.
When you are going to tell her tat, pls dun hesitate, and put it in a tactful but firm way.
If she shuts you down for being lame and over-sensertive, which could be expected, just laugh along with her, which also meant she still wants this friendship to go on, but not any deeper.
If she is still persistant about it and behaving like something snap inside of her, you could :
1) perhaps give in and have a try in this relationship
2) completely avoid her at all cost. e.g. ignoring her calls, avoid eye contact, no conversation. The message needs to get into her head. Also, ask her friendS for help, hopefully peer-pressure could calm her down.
3)Originally posted by casino_king:OK wait until after exams then tell her, better just before the long break. -
She confirmed not a chio bu, right?
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May I rephrase for you?
He meant, "She's not visually appealling, to you, is it?" 
Originally posted by dcx:She confirmed not a chio bu, right? -
Will he conplain so much if she is one?Originally posted by dcx:She confirmed not a chio bu, right? -
Maybe cannot click loh. Hard to say. If some gals who r chio but behave badly, approaches me, I might get freaked out.
Originally posted by zeny:Will he conplain so much if she is one? -
Originally posted by Boo777:May I rephrase for you?
He meant, "She's not visually appealling, to you, is it?"
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err thats is if he is able to get a chio one.Originally posted by Boo777:Maybe cannot click loh. Hard to say. If some gals who r chio but behave badly, approaches me, I might get freaked out. -
Gals are especially sensitive to the man they like. Maybe you treat her too good, that make her think you like her. Becareful of how you treat her next time, you better let her know early that you don't like her. If you let her know later, she may say you playing her feeling.
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mai geh siao hor.......Originally posted by Boo777:Maybe cannot click loh. Hard to say. If some gals who r chio but behave badly, approaches me, I might get freaked out.