Feeling helpless
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my gf just got her examinations results and although it is not fantastic but in my opinion i think is alright. however she feels damn sad about it and all the ways and means that i try to be there for her she just shuts me out
only tell me not to be worried for her and she will be ok but its apparent that she's not ok, and how not to worry?
now i dunno how she is becoz she won't tell me and i dunno what else to do liao. seems like when she's sad she doesn't want me to bother her. then what's my existence for in the first place? hmm.
so anyone encounter such situations before? -
Different people react differently to different situations and in the given predicament, she would be better off left alone if that is what she wants. I don't think you should even equate your existence(or your importance to her for that matter) to being by her side when she's down. Quite simply, just because she wants you to leave her alone doesn't necessarily mean she treasures you less.Originally posted by jeramy:my gf just got her examinations results and although it is not fantastic but in my opinion i think is alright. however she feels damn sad about it and all the ways and means that i try to be there for her she just shuts me out
only tell me not to be worried for her and she will be ok but its apparent that she's not ok, and how not to worry?
now i dunno how she is becoz she won't tell me and i dunno what else to do liao. seems like when she's sad she doesn't want me to bother her. then what's my existence for in the first place? hmm.
so anyone encounter such situations before?
Don't get me wrong - I don't mean you shouldn't give a damn about her. But sometimes, things are better left till she has gotten over her dissapointment(of sorts) before you approach her. -
hey bro...somehow or rather what u said struck a chord in me! thanks. now i think i know how to handle her liaoOriginally posted by walesa:Different people react differently to different situations and in the given predicament, she would be better off left alone if that is what she wants. I don't think you should even equate your existence(or your importance to her for that matter) to being by her side when she's down. Quite simply, just because she wants you to leave her alone doesn't necessarily mean she treasures you less.
Don't get me wrong - I don't mean you shouldn't give a damn about her. But sometimes, things are better left till she has gotten over her dissapointment(of sorts) before you approach her.