What Happened?
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I'm just a normal nerdy guy, I got a few friends and I'm pretty much happy at that. I avoid fights, I dislike my classmates (but I don't hate) and never got stressed in my life. (Anyone wanna date me... lol)
But something weird happed to me a few days ago. I got this friend-girl (not the other way around) and we're pretty close. I like her but she can get really annoying sometimes. And on that day, she got particularly annoying when I told her to get back my important notes 5 times at 2pm and 3 hours later when I came back, she happly say "I forgot". I was suppose to be used to this, but at that time, I find my hand heading for her but I managed to stop it half way and place it behind my head and I put on a smile...
It was so scary, I hadn't got that angry for a long time. Sure I get angry sometimes but I usually srug it off or let the fight blow over. On that split second, I couldn't control my hand. The last time I couldn't control my hand was back in secondary school and I beat up someone with a broom. I was so unlike me. I got placed in an anger management class for that.
Personally I think this new insident is not a big a deal but I just wanna know another's opinion. -
Follow the hurt.
When she said "I forgot"
Where did it hurt.
Your pride?
Your self-worth?
Tell 5 times, still not effective
you feel...................what?
Identify that.
Deal with the cause, not the reaction. -
Get some self-help book on anger management or try to do some recall and revision from your anger management classes?Originally posted by MohamedF:I'm just a normal nerdy guy, I got a few friends and I'm pretty much happy at that. I avoid fights, I dislike my classmates (but I don't hate) and never got stressed in my life. (Anyone wanna date me... lol)
But something weird happed to me a few days ago. I got this friend-girl (not the other way around) and we're pretty close. I like her but she can get really annoying sometimes. And on that day, she got particularly annoying when I told her to get back my important notes 5 times at 2pm and 3 hours later when I came back, she happly say "I forgot". I was suppose to be used to this, but at that time, I find my hand heading for her but I managed to stop it half way and place it behind my head and I put on a smile...
It was so scary, I hadn't got that angry for a long time. Sure I get angry sometimes but I usually srug it off or let the fight blow over. On that split second, I couldn't control my hand. The last time I couldn't control my hand was back in secondary school and I beat up someone with a broom. I was so unlike me. I got placed in an anger management class for that.
Personally I think this new insident is not a big a deal but I just wanna know another's opinion. -
You are in love with her la brudder.
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xiao di, u must learn to control ur anger... u r only at sch n already tinking of beating ppl up, next time in ns u will be wearing yellow tshirt if u not careful... u should go for anger management class or maybe go into religion to learn abt controlling ur anger///Originally posted by MohamedF:I'm just a normal nerdy guy, I got a few friends and I'm pretty much happy at that. I avoid fights, I dislike my classmates (but I don't hate) and never got stressed in my life. (Anyone wanna date me... lol)
But something weird happed to me a few days ago. I got this friend-girl (not the other way around) and we're pretty close. I like her but she can get really annoying sometimes. And on that day, she got particularly annoying when I told her to get back my important notes 5 times at 2pm and 3 hours later when I came back, she happly say "I forgot". I was suppose to be used to this, but at that time, I find my hand heading for her but I managed to stop it half way and place it behind my head and I put on a smile...
It was so scary, I hadn't got that angry for a long time. Sure I get angry sometimes but I usually srug it off or let the fight blow over. On that split second, I couldn't control my hand. The last time I couldn't control my hand was back in secondary school and I beat up someone with a broom. I was so unlike me. I got placed in an anger management class for that.
Personally I think this new insident is not a big a deal but I just wanna know another's opinion.