Scared of meeting up the gal i like
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wan to end up back then?if not,back off nowOriginally posted by Texcoco II:There is this for gal I like in my school for quite some time liao. She get to know my interest in her after my friend told her. She show some interest to me too. But since tat day when she knows that i like her. We exchange MSN (somehow i managed to get ur hp no from her, we SMS and MSN chat often) The problem now is i start to feel scared finding her around in school. Wshen we saw each other i tend to pretend not to see her it like pai seh (she also ab. Cos of this fear i wasted like 2 mth liao....she told my friend that i keep avoiding her, and i guess i hurt her too as she told her friends like i no longer interested in her. She still try hinting me, we managed still to keep contact in MSN and occasionally SMS, (call her only once), She suggest that we meet up in sch and chat I agree but still this fear put me back....i was afraid that after that meeting things may go bad for me, low confident, but that was not me years ago with my first love....what's more, i start to feel the very same thing as the author of this thread http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=192435
Can someone help? I guess as i grow older i become more and more humji liao
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No guts no glory pal... everything scared this scared that.. no need to live liao...
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The wise one speaks.Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:No guts no glory pal... everything scared this scared that.. no need to live liao...
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mai suan leh...Originally posted by M©+square:The wise one speaks.
next time i dun post liao.. i scared ppl say me wrong or suan me... -
Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:mai suan leh...
next time i dun post liao.. i scared ppl say me wrong or suan me...
Sorry....! I don't anyhow sei le....forgive me!!!! -
sorry no cure liao lah!Originally posted by M©+square: Sorry....! I don't anyhow sei le....forgive me!!!!
u make me scared and afraid of posting liao..
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If you are, you are... If you're not, you're not... One of the worst things is ending up something which is not really you and switch her off that way....Originally posted by Texcoco II:Actually my REAL fear is tat i might talk or do something silly that might make her think that i am not actually whatever she had of me in her mind. This fear is very intense that i could not focus watever i am doing when in front of her
If she has to avoid you because she don't like you, just accept it... If you have to live with so much 'fears' on your head while you're with her, how far do you think that will get you? -
u like her,she like u...
SO WHAT THE HELL ARE U WAITING FOR?!
I'll say go for it,not everyone is so lucky...grab the chance before u miss it -
u may want to try to jio her for some activities instead???
eg. badminton? swim? ktv? movies?
den u won't have to worry abt saying wrong things.. or dunno wat to do...
cos usually when ppl play, they more relax mood..
n easier to break barrier...
n u'll have something to talk about after that also..
hope it helps -
are you scared of making a fool of yourself in front of her?
just be yourself.... I know its hard cos you will be trying to impress but I think gals will be more impressed if you be yourself -
Ehhh, can u give mi her msn addr then
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hey dude. be a man! do the right thing! do not a expect a gerl to make the 1st move. and if u really fancy her, stop telling around ur frds u have no feelings no. that's quite a 'stupidity' thing to do. u are just hurting her again and again [provided if she REALLI fancy u]. -also. ur situation is consider a lucky one, u like her she like u. exchange msn add, then WHY WAIT?
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Humph.....can remove my topic from "featured topic" from the main page mah.....? very embarassing leh!
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ok .. completely hopeless . you two will NEVER be together . move on ..Originally posted by Texcoco II:Humph.....can remove my topic from "featured topic" from the main page mah.....? very embarassing leh! -
i also very shy.
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i got a idea.... you can pm me her msn contact and hp no. i will help you....hahahah
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Originally posted by 798:i also very shy.
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Balless or whatever. You guys dont know how It truely feels unless you experienced it. I too, had an experience like this before. We always chat on phone, msn, sms. But when she asked me to meet her. I did'nt dare, Its not about whether you had the balls or not. Its just human nature to be afraid of such things.
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Originally posted by rikki:Balless or whatever. You guys dont know how It truely feels unless you experienced it. I too, had an experience like this before. We always chat on phone, msn, sms. But when she asked me to meet her. I did'nt dare, Its not about whether you had the balls or not. Its just human nature to be afraid of such things.
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well u got a good foundation liao so wat u need is actions to date her out... afraid? aiya, let me tell u, if u continue to contact by text n sms u will lose the chance of be wif her cos if u 2 like tat will be too comfort to talk by text n might lose the will 2 talk in person... now now tink of it this way u dun action, another guy take action then U LOSE.... so pick up ur balls n go up to her n say a hi will do... after tat is how u socio liao.... remember no action no gain... n u will be crying at the side tat another guy had taken her as gf...Originally posted by Texcoco II:There is this for gal I like in my school for quite some time liao. She get to know my interest in her after my friend told her. She show some interest to me too. But since tat day when she knows that i like her. We exchange MSN (somehow i managed to get ur hp no from her, we SMS and MSN chat often) The problem now is i start to feel scared finding her around in school. Wshen we saw each other i tend to pretend not to see her it like pai seh (she also ab. Cos of this fear i wasted like 2 mth liao....she told my friend that i keep avoiding her, and i guess i hurt her too as she told her friends like i no longer interested in her. She still try hinting me, we managed still to keep contact in MSN and occasionally SMS, (call her only once), She suggest that we meet up in sch and chat I agree but still this fear put me back....i was afraid that after that meeting things may go bad for me, low confident, but that was not me years ago with my first love....what's more, i start to feel the very same thing as the author of this thread http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=192435
Can someone help? I guess as i grow older i become more and more humji liao 
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Really yawns ..Originally posted by rikki:Balless or whatever. You guys dont know how It truely feels unless you experienced it. I too, had an experience like this before. We always chat on phone, msn, sms. But when she asked me to meet her. I did'nt dare, Its not about whether you had the balls or not. Its just human nature to be afraid of such things.
"we guys dont know how it truely feels unless we experienced it ? Its just human nature to be afraid of such things ? " ..
eh mai jiao wei lah . Just pick up your courage for once and ask her will die is it ? ive been thru it for 2 times already .. ya the first time i admit im quite afraid but the trick is .. if you really dare to pick up your courage to ask the girl for the first time , then 2nd or 3rd time shldnt be a problem . Unless you tell me you dont even dare to spar 1 v 1 with a guy .. els i really nth to say . -
Sorry, beyond our power...Originally posted by Texcoco II:Humph.....can remove my topic from "featured topic" from the main page mah.....? very embarassing leh! -
Looks like everyone's supporting you to go up to her n let your feelings towards be known to her....
In simple, do it or fcuk it....... -
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isn't that the same meaning?Originally posted by dcx:Looks like everyone's supporting you to go up to her n let your feelings towards be known to her....
In simple, do it or fcuk it....... -
I am not sure what else can i say to encourage you..Originally posted by Texcoco II:Actually my REAL fear is tat i might talk or do something silly that might make her think that i am not actually whatever she had of me in her mind. This fear is very intense that i could not focus watever i am doing when in front of her
but this
If a girl loves you even you do anything silly she will be very happy.
Thats a fact.
If a girl does not love you, even u give her diamond rings or act as a perfect gentleman it does not help at all.
bare this in mind girls only give a limited time for you to have a chance to ask her to be her gf. After this time limit nothing else will change her mind.
In the past i was like you... worry about how the girls will find me.
But i soon realise that if you do not have the guts to show the girl you like her then someone else will.
I lost many chances cos i was too late in my apporach.
the girl is already hinting you my friend...
just a bit more.
In relationship a guy is suppose to lead do you really want her to say she wants you to be her bf?