GF dun want me to be "romatic"....
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After these few weeks with my new gf,it seems that she dun want me to be romantic with her.When i try to be sweet and romantic to her,she pour ice water on me.I really can't understand.Moreover,sometimes the words she say can be so hurting even though she say later that it's a joke.This morning i was joking with her that i got a confession to made and guess what she said...."One more confession and you are history".I can't take this as a joke....
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First off... I don't know your girlfriend but you seem that you love more than she loves you. Hence, you always feel hurt by her... maybe she's just playful, maybe not meant for you.
I don't know your age. So cannot dispense any guerilla tactics of taming your girlfriend unless you're more than 18. hahahahahaha....
Anyway, examine your feelings, examine her attitude, maybe if you describe more about her. More people will be able to help. It's difficult to give any good advice without seeing the whole picture. -
GF dun want you to be romantic, aren't that a good news to most guys?
why sulk.....
Anyway, can tell that yr gf is getting impatience with you, and guess u did better find out why, good to trash things out a little rather than u keep it all by yrself..... unhealthy for the relationship.
All the best.
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nOthiNg iS ImpOsSibLE In tHiS wOrLd
EvEn tHe wOrD ImPoSsiBLe SaYs "i'M pOsSiBLe" -
as always..... ask.
you're not psychic, neither are we.
only 1 piece of advise for u.
"bei song ai gong"
not happy must say out. dun leave it in otherwise nxt time really heat up that time all take out say very jialats one.
got anything must settle on the spot.
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vroom...tingtingtingtingti...vroom~ -
ahem..firstly,i muz tell u guys dat not ALL girls want their guys to be romantic.
Some girls are juz too shy lor,so when u try to be so mushy to her,she'll feel very uncomfortable.
As u said,the both of u had onli been together for 3 wks,there's still lotsa things dat both of u duno abt each other,dun jump to conclusion so fast..get to know each other beta first.Who noes...maybe she's realli a nice ger onli dat u havent find out??
All the best!
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As LoNg As I SHaLL LiVe
I'LL HoLd U dEaR
AnD I wILL rEMiNiScE
Of OuR LoVe ALL ThRoUgH
ThE YeArS.... -
hmm...
perhaps u 2 are not on the same frequency..she treats ur jokes as lousy sense of humour..
i deduce she is the kind tt is more serious and love a fairy-tale romance..
mebe u shd juz give in to if u relli love her so much..
but personally..if relli cannot communicate..then seek someone who will share ur sentiments and feelings.. -
Hmm...maybe you should give my bf a lesson or two on how to be romantic. Hehe. He can be quite an unromantic guy alot of the time. Hehe...I personally think, either there's something wrong with your relationship, if not, your gf must be ultra-realistic kind of person...those who think that all the romantic stuff is impractical and unnecessary. But I guess most gals' hopes are that their bf are sweet, understanding, humourous and romantic! Unless what you did is childish instead of the romantic things that we gals are thinking about. Hehe. Reflect and examine where the problem lies. All the best!