gals gals gals......
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so many posts in this thread are about the guy liking a gal but dun dare to tell her, or the gal treat the guy as friend only, or gal dun noe guy exist, bla bla bla......
is it just our singapore guys, or do gals here like to twirl our guys round their fingers? -
it's the guy's fault for being humji.
and it's the girl's fault for playing around with the guys' ji.
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I kinda agree with this...unfortunately I was guilty of it many years back...Originally posted by Gwangetto:it's the guy's fault for being humji.
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Actually it's both parties at fault. They only see what's in front of them, sg girl see sg guy and sg guy see sg girl. So their mentality are stucked towards sg guys/girls and they cannot see their future beyond without spending it with sg guys/girls.
So alot of times they will think, sg guys/girls are all like this and that...so it's the norm lor...even if i'm not really happy, but i'll try to convince myself and make myself silly happy that this is the best guy/girl that i'll get in here...my only true love within my world. Well, to all here...since it seems like the norm that is happening around us...so might as well accept the fate since it's the easiest way out for all and get hitched, married, reproduced, and live the safe and normal life like everyone else and trying very hard not to avoid thinking of regret since everyone else is doing the same thing as you, it's very comforting to know.
Whenever a guy/girl complained to me about the other guy/girl, I always have this truth that I really wish to share with them...provided they are open enough to handle the truth. Ask yourself, since you all wanted the other half (guys/girls) to be almost perfect+obedient+absolutely gorgeous/cool+witty+humourous+ETC...are you also on-par with those qualities that you've wished? When you are unable to attract/find the other half, it's never their fault. You are just not good enough to have one.
Remember...whenever you failed to achieve something that you've wanted, it's never anyone's fault but your own fault. Whining and complaining does helps a bit if they can awake you after that, otherwise...you are still back to your same old self and be a regular patron here posting about your repeated loops.
So when is the loop going to end? And when are you going to stop running? -
Wow that's deep. Sometimes I ask myself why I've failed and try to improve on that. It ain't easy but it's a small step towards betterment of yourself.Originally posted by parn:Actually it's both parties at fault. They only see what's in front of them, sg girl see sg guy and sg guy see sg girl. So their mentality are stucked towards sg guys/girls and they cannot see their future beyond without spending it with sg guys/girls.
So alot of times they will think, sg guys/girls are all like this and that...so it's the norm lor...even if i'm not really happy, but i'll try to convince myself and make myself silly happy that this is the best guy/girl that i'll get in here...my only true love within my world. Well, to all here...since it seems like the norm that is happening around us...so might as well accept the fate since it's the easiest way out for all and get hitched, married, reproduced, and live the safe and normal life like everyone else and trying very hard not to avoid thinking of regret since everyone else is doing the same thing as you, it's very comforting to know.
Whenever a guy/girl complained to me about the other guy/girl, I always have this truth that I really wish to share with them...provided they are open enough to handle the truth. Ask yourself, since you all wanted the other half (guys/girls) to be almost perfect+obedient+absolutely gorgeous/cool+witty+humourous+ETC...are you also on-par with those qualities that you've wished? When you are unable to attract/find the other half, it's never their fault. You are just not good enough to have one.
Remember...whenever you failed to achieve something that you've wanted, it's never anyone's fault but your own fault. Whining and complaining does helps a bit if they can awake you after that, otherwise...you are still back to your same old self and be a regular patron here posting about your repeated loops.
So when is the loop going to end? And when are you going to stop running? -
There's some truth to that notion in virtually all facets of life, definitely.Originally posted by parn:Whenever a guy/girl complained to me about the other guy/girl, I always have this truth that I really wish to share with them...provided they are open enough to handle the truth. Ask yourself, since you all wanted the other half (guys/girls) to be almost perfect+obedient+absolutely gorgeous/cool+witty+humourous+ETC...are you also on-par with those qualities that you've wished? When you are unable to attract/find the other half, it's never their fault. You are just not good enough to have one.
Taking studies of the application of IQ's by researchers for instance, many - I say many, and not all - reports have inevitably shown that people with an IQ falling within the range of 90-110(where the bulk of people will fall under) are more likely to be able to 'connect' with others simply on the basis that the probability of someone with that intellect finding another with whom he/she can connect with is far higher than say someone with an IQ of <60 or >135(in both cases, chances of people in either category running into someone sharing the same level of intelligence is merely 1%).
Not digressing further, it clearly shows oftentimes, the kind of people you attract and hang out with are dictated by the qualities(admittedly, some of these - like looks and intelligence - are beyond your control) you possess.
Hence, in essence, it'd only be sensible for people to tailor the expectations of their 'other half' based on their own qualities to enhance compatibility. -
There's some truth to that notion in virtually all facets of life, definitely.Originally posted by parn:Whenever a guy/girl complained to me about the other guy/girl, I always have this truth that I really wish to share with them...provided they are open enough to handle the truth. Ask yourself, since you all wanted the other half (guys/girls) to be almost perfect+obedient+absolutely gorgeous/cool+witty+humourous+ETC...are you also on-par with those qualities that you've wished? When you are unable to attract/find the other half, it's never their fault. You are just not good enough to have one.
Taking the studies of the application of IQ's by psychologists for instance, many - I say many, and not all - reports have inevitably shown that people with an IQ falling within the range of 90-110(where the bulk of people will fall under based on the standardised IQ distribution curve) are more likely to be able to 'connect' with others simply on the basis that the probability of someone with that intellect finding another with whom he/she can connect with is far higher than say someone with an IQ of <60 or >135(in both cases, chances of people in either category running into someone sharing the same level of intelligence is merely 1%).
Without digressing further, it clearly shows oftentimes the type of people you attract and tend to mingle with are dictated by the qualities(admittedly, some of these - like looks and intelligence - are beyond your control) you possess. Hence, in essence, it'd only be sensible for people to tailor the expectations of their 'other half' based on their own qualities to enhance compatibility.