Sitting on the down side
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been wondering what am i living for..why am i living....
theres nothing i look forward for ahead of me....
Just feeling empty inside of me.
sigh.... -
We live to die.
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Whats wrong?
Encounter any problems??? -
What triggered this thought? How long have this(idea) been staying with you?Originally posted by babyreyes:been wondering what am i living for..why am i living....
theres nothing i look forward for ahead of me....
Just feeling empty inside of me.
sigh.... -
for a week or so...Originally posted by M©+square:What triggered this thought? How long have this(idea) been staying with you?
as for wat triggered it.... i cant remember...unless i get reminded of it.
Sinc young, i have a habit of throwing all unhappiness behind me and not looking back. Then the things will lay behind me untouched and forgotten. Perhaps till the day that i get reminded of it..i will remember wat happened.
Speaking of it now...it sounds like im an escapist. oh boy..tats bad.... -
in a way, im too.Originally posted by babyreyes:for a week or so...
as for wat triggered it.... i cant remember...unless i get reminded of it.
Sinc young, i have a habit of throwing all unhappiness behind me and not looking back. Then the things will lay behind me untouched and forgotten. Perhaps till the day that i get reminded of it..i will remember wat happened.
Speaking of it now...it sounds like im an escapist. oh boy..tats bad....
den when i finally have time to slow down, everything suddenly appear in my mind.
wad to do.. sigh and move on lor. -
i know.. but sometimes....Originally posted by Ito_^:in a way, im too.
den when i finally have time to slow down, everything suddenly appear in my mind.
wad to do.. sigh and move on lor.
if u cant find the root problem, u can never uproot the problem... -
what makes u think so negative?
lots of setbacks in the past?
if you think of urself as no life
then take a moment to slow down ur step and think, why do u want to live in this world?
to make a name for urself, to prove ur worth, to enjoy life, or to be filial to ur parents by doing all those i listed in in red
think yourself as like a asset in this world, if you see urself with no life, then what bout the sick elders in old folks home whom their relatives dun visit them anymore, what gives them the will to continue to live on this world?
if they have a reason, and they live happily
if they can do it, why not u? -
reproduce?
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i tink u need to go out and busk into sunshine and moonlight instead of coming to sgforum
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felt that way frequently
maybe mid life crisis -
maybe you need to open up yourself a bit.
tell us some of the probs that are affecting your thoughts.
Sometimes, by saying it out, you will actually feel better too..
I told people many times, life is full of ups and donws. If you think you have reach the lowest point in your life, then you shld feel happier because things cannot go worse than that anymore. you can either stay stagnant at that low point for a while more, or go up and be happier, but definitely not worse.
Whatever triggers your unhappiness, everyone probably had some experiences in one way or another. Stay happy with a positive mindset.
cheers...
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relax. it's part puberty.
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keep going dun slow down else ur problems u left behind will catch up wif u
we're in the same boat! -
relax i think every1 has had this thought..if its the past then u've got to let it go and move on with life. Make a goal or a target for yourself n achieve it. Theres alot more to life. you've got 1 life 1 lifetime make full use of it..Originally posted by babyreyes:been wondering what am i living for..why am i living....
theres nothing i look forward for ahead of me....
Just feeling empty inside of me.
sigh.... -
what if some wishes an end to it all?
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many people at one time or another have these thoughts. but see? so many survive.
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Hmm... Somehow like what I'm feeling around these days..Originally posted by babyreyes:for a week or so...
as for wat triggered it.... i cant remember...unless i get reminded of it.
Sinc young, i have a habit of throwing all unhappiness behind me and not looking back. Then the things will lay behind me untouched and forgotten. Perhaps till the day that i get reminded of it..i will remember wat happened.
Speaking of it now...it sounds like im an escapist. oh boy..tats bad....
Things just sort of suddenly 'hit' me...?
But I guess the difference is really that I'm still handling it pretty well... And nope.. I don't feel like I'm an escapist at all.... More like something else... Like... I'm a devil trying to pretend that I'm a happy human...?
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The more you worry about this, the worse it gets.... if you simply wallow in the melancholy knowing that it will sooner or later go away, it goes away very fast.
Unless of course there are real reasons behind it. Beware of things like false expectations in life and or deep seated uncertainty and loss of directions. That can lead to many serious problems later on. -
Thanks for the replies...
Yesh...still finding the meaning... perhaps im still arnd cos im still finding the meaning on why i am here.
I wont deny tat disappointments in life have somehow damaged my outlook of life.
Perhaps my expectations way too high? I start to have preference. If this cant work, probably that will be just gd enuff. Soon i realised that things dont really matter that much anymore. now ive no ieda wat im trying to say. *faints* -
Do something for others.
The Christians believe in it.
The Muslims believe in it.
The Buddhist believe in it.
The Sikhs believe in it.
All the great religions believe in it.
There must be something in it.
It is the secret to greatness and riches.
If you can make something that many people want or need.
And if half the people in the world buys one each, you would be rich.
Like Bill Gates.
And have a purpose to live too.
I,I,I all the time leads to despondency. -
Take things slowly lah... One step at a time....Originally posted by babyreyes:Thanks for the replies...
Yesh...still finding the meaning... perhaps im still arnd cos im still finding the meaning on why i am here.
I wont deny tat disappointments in life have somehow damaged my outlook of life.
Perhaps my expectations way too high? I start to have preference. If this cant work, probably that will be just gd enuff. Soon i realised that things dont really matter that much anymore. now ive no ieda wat im trying to say. *faints*