how would you feel

• TwinTurbo_Supra

  4 Jun 06, 18:41

  how would you feel if the person you like always comes to you for her relationship problems?
  
  it is a bittersweet experience for me.
• skeujin

  4 Jun 06, 18:43

  does she know u like her in the 1st plc?
• TwinTurbo_Supra

  4 Jun 06, 18:47

  Originally posted by skeujin:

  does she know u like her in the 1st plc?

  no. she treats me like a close friend only.
• Pitot

  4 Jun 06, 18:49

  I think u must make it clear to her. Before u get hurt and before she feels guilty. Dont fall into the same trap that many others fall into.
  
  A quote from a gal who went through this before. " Why must guys n gals end up together?! Why cant they be just friends? "
  
  Sort it out before it all screws up.
• chanff8

  4 Jun 06, 18:49

  At least you got her trust. If she breaks up or anything (I'm just saying if), at least she knows that she can trust you to lend her a shoulder to cry on
• rathcycle

  4 Jun 06, 18:51

  I would still like that girl, if possible console her then biao bai to her.
• Pitot

  4 Jun 06, 18:53

  Originally posted by chanff8:

  At least you got her trust. If she breaks up or anything (I'm just saying if), at least she knows that she can trust you to lend her a shoulder to cry on

  But do you know how bad that feeling is to love someone and yet she dosent know. ANd if she knows. u risk screwing up the whole thing?
  
  You cant bear to see her suffer. You cant bear to see her cry. You cant bear to see her hurt.
  
  So you give her your care n concern.
  You know that it might not be possible.
  But you give ur all without expecting anything.
  And in the end, there is only one loser.
  
  The guy.
  
  Its the threadstarters choice ultimately.
  Of course i'm not saying tat she wont be with you.
  But bear in mind, a gal who just suffered a relationship setback is unlikely to get another guy anytime soon.
• TwinTurbo_Supra

  4 Jun 06, 19:03

  she isnt with anyone now. She has been through 3 relationships with me supporting her.
  
  fortunately for me, all of them were very short.
  
  but she told another friend of her's that she and I are impossible.
• Pitot

  4 Jun 06, 19:04

  Originally posted by TwinTurbo_Supra:

  she isnt with anyone now. She has been through 3 relationships with me supporting her.
  
  fortunately for me, all of them were very short.
  
  but she told another friend of her's that she and I are impossible.

  Is her friend her good or close friend? If so, I suggest u move on.
  
  Unless u are willing to be used time n time again as a spare tyre.
  I'm sorry for being harsh.
• alexkusu

  4 Jun 06, 19:04

  if ur a frend, most likely u will remain that for a long time
• Pitot

  4 Jun 06, 19:06

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  if ur a frend, most likely u will remain that for a long time

  +1.
  
  So please appreciate this relation that you have with her now. Friends better than nothing at all.
  
  I made this mistake in the past. But fortunately for me. She still treat me as a friend. But the feeling is totally different from before. Regret oso no use.
• The Peacemaker

  4 Jun 06, 19:09

  +1
  
  sometimes status quo can be the best. at least for the moment.
  
  good luck.
• TwinTurbo_Supra

  4 Jun 06, 19:10

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  Is her friend her good or close friend? If so, I suggest u move on.
  
  Unless u are willing to be used time n time again as a spare tyre.
  I'm sorry for being harsh.

  i have tried to lots of times, but she just keeps coming back.
  
  and i am already very happy to have her company.
• Pitot

  4 Jun 06, 19:12

  Originally posted by TwinTurbo_Supra:

  i have tried to lots of times, but she just keeps coming back.
  
  and i am already very happy to have her company.

  Move on as in drop the thought of dating her.
  
• TwinTurbo_Supra

  4 Jun 06, 21:41

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  Move on as in drop the thought of dating her.
  

  okok, point taken. thanks for the advice everyone.
• browniebaobao

  4 Jun 06, 23:25

  help him whenever i can.
  
  if he's happy, im happy.
• Patrik

  4 Jun 06, 23:31

  Xin ru dao ge
• snobbish

  4 Jun 06, 23:34

  once a guy who liked me alot drove me to meet another guy friend. On the way he said :''I feel like a fool for sending the gal i like to meet another guy.''
  
• Pitot

  4 Jun 06, 23:35

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Xin ru dao ge

  nice song.
• Pitot

  4 Jun 06, 23:35

  Originally posted by snobbish:

  once a guy who liked me alot drove me to meet another guy friend. On the way he said :''I feel like a fool for sending the gal i like to meet another guy.''
  

  excatly what i mean.
• M©+square

  4 Jun 06, 23:41

  Originally posted by snobbish:

  once a guy who liked me alot drove me to meet another guy friend. On the way he said :''I feel like a fool for sending the gal i like to meet another guy.''
  

  And he's right.
• Ito_^

  4 Jun 06, 23:47

  interesting lor, learn alot more about this person too.
• TwinTurbo_Supra

  5 Jun 06, 00:19

  i just talked to her and i feel even more confused.
  
  go listen to blind by lifehouse, exactly how i feel. sigh.
• Gukkie

  5 Jun 06, 00:25

  When u are willing to help someone expect nothing in return, i've learnt it the hard way..being made use of over n over again by a girl is not a fun thing..i was in exactly the same situation as u..u shud not be too close to her n just move on with ur life as she is the thing thats dragging u down..
• rebound

  5 Jun 06, 00:30

  Originally posted by Gukkie:

  When u are willing to help someone expect nothing in return, i've learnt it the hard way..being made use of over n over again by a girl is not a fun thing..i was in exactly the same situation as u..u shud not be too close to her n just move on with ur life as she is the thing thats dragging u down..

  agree, not able 2 b wif her yet need 2 listen 2 her bgr stroy is hell
  move wif ur life unless u wan 2 try win her heart