Always falling for much much older guys~ is there something
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Hello there! I'm always falling for guys who are 10 years or more ,older than me(16 this year)...
And at this age, I don't know what i should do to make them interested in this young girl ...
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er........r u sure wat u're experiencing is not kind of a crush or infatuation thingy? not tt im putting u down coz of ur age. i'm onli 17 myself....so it's like, i'm kinda thinking like u'r just going thru' a phase of teenage life lo...........
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luvofmine..may i ask u something???how well do u noe these pple whom u claim to fall in love with?? r u sure that u noe them well enough to love them?? i suppose what u r experiencing is juz a crush.. something that most pple will go thru during the teenage years...
juz post if u got any questions...
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Clarify crush and love. At a young tender age, it is very easy to mix up these 2 feelings.
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Yup, I'll like to agree with them but everyone is different. People have always said I like aunties but I like cute charming girls better. Goes to show, what crowd mentality does to me.
By saying older guys, do you know them personally or are they some movie or pop stars you see. It's ok, all part of growing up.
My nieces used to like Terence Cao, (Klactovak turns green and pukes very badly...) ahem... excuse me and they are only 5 years old or 7 at most. Now they see him like uncle (that's me) sees him. So both nieces and uncle pukes when we talk about the same incident. Give yourself some time but don't commit any mistakes. Some of the older guys are really sly, I know... even though I'll be considered an older guy in your books.
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Hmm... How many of those 'older guys' are you talking about...? Perhaps you should consider re-organising some of the friends you go out with..? Like... More exposure to younger guys so that your view might change...?Originally posted by luvofmine:Hello there! I'm always falling for guys who are 10 years or more ,older than me(16 this year)...
And at this age, I don't know what i should do to make them interested in this young girl ...
Any advice??
AnyWAYZ, I CAN be INTERESTED you KNOW...??? ~Wink, wink..~
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Hello there~!
haha...thanks for all your reply..
well, to clarify some stuff..cuz last night, wasn't in a good mood nor in a clear minded state...hmm..
i didn't mean literally "falling in love with" but more of PREFER much older guys...
The friends around me say it's because I'm more mature for my age and thus, i click better with older people..*Laughs*
Since i had my first "crush" until now...all the guys i was interested in(4 to exact) ,are at least 6 years older than me or more *grinz*
And all of you could be right, it may just be a passing phrase...I hope so too! =) -
ok, well........b4 i assume nething, how did u get to know them??Originally posted by luvofmine:Hello there~!
haha...thanks for all your reply..
well, to clarify some stuff..cuz last night, wasn't in a good mood nor in a clear minded state...hmm..
i didn't mean literally "falling in love with" but more of PREFER much older guys...
The friends around me say it's because I'm more mature for my age and thus, i click better with older people..*Laughs*
Since i had my first "crush" until now...all the guys i was interested in(4 to exact) ,are at least 6 years older than me or more *grinz*
And all of you could be right, it may just be a passing phrase...I hope so too! =)
klac: dun tink it's movie stars or wat la......i mean, dunno la, but most prolly not lo, coz if like actors rite, den shud noe tt it's more so infatuation n crush liaoz lo.... -
anyway, could it be that mebbe u feel that they are more mature intellectually (i hope) and tt they'd be able to give a a greater sense of security than guys at ur age can?? just wild guessing....
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t|red: hmm 2 of them were ex-students from my school...they are overaged cuz they are foreigners =)
the other 2 are my friend's friend and friend from church...
hee...i didn't know them from *no good* means.. don't worry =)
and i think u are really right ~ They attracted me because of their maturity intellectually...
Klac: Hmm..*grinz* i think infactuations on stars are different loh...
After all, we know it's quite impossible but in real life, nothing is for sure ...
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Aiyah... very normal one lah...
Just like guys nowadays prefer younger girls. I see a lot of ppl getting 16 17 yr old gfs...
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Agree....
most of the gals now a days will go for guys that are older.
most guys of the same age tend to be more immatured and compared to their gal counterparts. This gap is about 3 years. Considering that, and wanting an older guy, so the age picked for some would be arnd 4 years or more.
In my own opinion, I definately will want a gal that is younger then me to be my gf. Wait she too matured got too many demands.... *ponders* -
Retrac,
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I HOPE NOT lah!!! Then I would stand a chance..??!!Originally posted by luvofmine:Hello there~!
haha...thanks for all your reply..
well, to clarify some stuff..cuz last night, wasn't in a good mood nor in a clear minded state...hmm..
i didn't mean literally "falling in love with" but more of PREFER much older guys...
The friends around me say it's because I'm more mature for my age and thus, i click better with older people..*Laughs*
Since i had my first "crush" until now...all the guys i was interested in(4 to exact) ,are at least 6 years older than me or more *grinz*
And all of you could be right, it may just be a passing phrase...I hope so too! =)
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
Wahz.. seems that I'm really slow manz.. after the thread has finish then I come in.. ehehhe~
Cannot bear bear want to say soemthing. There's also something abt older guys. they tend to be more mature and give a better sense of security.. and many are more financially independent. Not saying that u look at pple's $$$ lahz. but many times, we do look at a whole picture first especially girls. that's y I believe to many matured girls they dun look at physical attraction, but something else.
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Bear,
Sometimes must also leave something for me leh. After you finish posting I like got nothing more to say. sob...
Older guys are good. My secondary school chinese teacher, said that you must pair up a battle-worn gentleman with a pure virginial lady to make the perfect couple.
Because someone who have not seen the world will not treasure a simple lady. Neither will a young guy who have not gone through much hardship values the company of a girl. I guess most people are in relationships for fun nowadays but I don't know how true it is. -
Well, I myself have always prefered mature ladies.
Depending on how well the two can click, if not, given the same age, the gap is still there.
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KlactovakOriginally posted by Klactovak:Retrac,
If you get a matured gf... she can take care of you. hahahaha...
wah raos... then i might as well go find my mother liao. hee hee hee -
Your first "crush" must hav a great impact on u, anyway, it's perfectly normal for u to prefer older guys, but hav u been hurt b4 by a guy younger or same age as u? A frd of mine prefer older guys bcos of this loh...Originally posted by luvofmine:Hello there~!
haha...thanks for all your reply..
well, to clarify some stuff..cuz last night, wasn't in a good mood nor in a clear minded state...hmm..
i didn't mean literally "falling in love with" but more of PREFER much older guys...
The friends around me say it's because I'm more mature for my age and thus, i click better with older people..*Laughs*
Since i had my first "crush" until now...all the guys i was interested in(4 to exact) ,are at least 6 years older than me or more *grinz*
And all of you could be right, it may just be a passing phrase...I hope so too! =)
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luvofmine,
There's nothing seriously wrong lar....... just that young ger look at older guy as more manly and much more mature than the guys of their same age lor
Maybe got something to do with ger mature faster........ i guess eventually yr view will chance lor as u grow older.....
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Mike : hmm, u are right..the 1st crush i had , really did had a great impact on me.. haha
And to answer yr qn, I've never been hurt by a younger or same age guy thanks anyway!
Atti: yeah, i think it's just a passing phrase in growing up..hee
but i don't think my preference will change as I mature or grow older..cuz as we grow older, the age gap will not be very significant.
E.g: 16 yrs old and 26 yrs old
26 yrs old and 36 yrs old
when we are 26, then the 10 yrs difference don't seem to be a huge gap anymore..I don't know why also..but that's how it is ..hee =) -
heyz!! this looks familar.........which topic did i spot it in huh??? hee~Originally posted by luvofmine:E.g: 16 yrs old and 26 yrs old
26 yrs old and 36 yrs old
when we are 26, then the 10 yrs difference don't seem to be a huge gap anymore..I don't know why also..but that's how it is ..hee =) -
well, i shud say it's fair enuf lo. coz i mean, which ger doesn't hope for an older guy for a higher sense of stability n maturity, and also for the same level of intellect.....Originally posted by luvofmine:t|red: hmm 2 of them were ex-students from my school...they are overaged cuz they are foreigners =)
the other 2 are my friend's friend and friend from church...
hee...i didn't know them from *no good* means.. don't worry =)
and i think u are really right ~ They attracted me because of their maturity intellectually...
anywayz, bottom line, it's not wrong lo. n whaddya mean by *no good* means??? hmmzzz... -
Alamakz.. 2nd person complaining that I tok too much liaoz... Fine... I'll keep quiet then.. ehheheh~Originally posted by Klactovak:Bear,
Sometimes must also leave something for me leh. After you finish posting I like got nothing more to say. sob...
Older guys are good. My secondary school chinese teacher, said that you must pair up a battle-worn gentleman with a pure virginial lady to make the perfect couple.
Because someone who have not seen the world will not treasure a simple lady. Neither will a young guy who have not gone through much hardship values the company of a girl. I guess most people are in relationships for fun nowadays but I don't know how true it is.
t|rEd, ur disciple is it?? heheh~ =)
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No lah, can talk a lot but must like pose some questions so we can talk a bit also what.
Got very serious contender leh. T|rEd hor write postings like write 5000 words essay, you know... but I'm not complaining, still secretly learning advanced theory from her. hahaahahhaha
eh? What was this post about? Oh yah, I think older guys tend to be more mature because of more time on this earth. Don't believe? Think back 5 years ago, what were you doing? Want a flash back, you were quarrelling with another classmate and good friend....
"If you don't let me play with your power ranger, I PoK! you. Hng!"... Your friend will go "Don't friend, don't friend lah. You think you damn big ahhh?". Don't laugh, that's what I did last time. Although, I think it was over Macross or Transformers? :p
Was speaking to a girl yesterday, she prefers older guys because she said they were more stable. My answer... NOT all. Heck some of my friends are still fighting over pokemon cards. hahahahaha