I think my GF is cheating
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do not waste your time to be with her anymore.sometime life is like that. when a relationship once gone is gone. don't look back. pack up and leave her. life decision cannot keep analyse and until have a clear answer.
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u gonna stop seeing her..
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hmm.. based on the smses alone.. it's still assumptions.
why not talk it out with her and see what she has to say? -
The last thing I should do is to be telling you what to do, for I was once in a very similar situation (minus the abortion) and looking back in retrospect though it wasn't such a bad thing - ending the relationship, I could have done it in a far more amicable manner. I guess there are a few questions you have to ask yourself and she supplement the answers. Are you being over-sensitive? Secondly, if you are certain she is cheating on you, are you able to stand for it? In other words, are you that crazily in love with her that your pride can take the cheating? For one, I do not neccessitate ending a relationship just because someone cheats on the other. In fact, a relationship is like a treatise between two individuals - they dictate the terms and not by convention. Thirdly, I guess this is the most important of the three - will you be better off without her?
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wah seh~ all i noe is if i have a gf and she betray me. i will nv ever forgive her. somemore u say the child is his. this is realli too extreme...
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You shouldn't have read her sms. You never know; it might not be what you think. I think we should ask her to dump you for reading her private stuff.Originally posted by THG:In her sms talking to her own girl friend, i learnt that she is pregnant abt 2 months and that child is the ex bf one and I and her have been together for 1 yr 2 months already. So everybody can see she is sleeping with the ex bf behind my back and have the cheek to sleep with me
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Move on.... she don't deserve you... think about the future... think what you want for your future wife.
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erh.. sh|t.. y tis sounds so like my ex..
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ya, move on.. have a break..it is true love that human are looking for and not out of desperation..imagine after 5 yrs.. u r not what she wants..she will dump you eventually. Who knows after the short break..she might found someone new to fill her emptiness!!! Breaking up is painful..who knows it might be a blessing in disguise? God will rewards those who are strong..
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wow, this kind of girl still your gf?
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Originally posted by xinyi!:i know i'm a cruel bitch so.. my advice to u is.. tell the guy about what she's doing & let him make his own judgment.
the question is.. do u love her?
I think the more appropriate question would be," Does she love him?" -
usually gf and bf read each other sms lor. there is no privacy. Wat is there to hideOriginally posted by casino_king:You shouldn't have read her sms. You never know; it might not be what you think. I think we should ask her to dump you for reading her private stuff. -
If ya serious about her, then talk to her properly about what she wants. If you can't be arsed right now, just treat as f*** buddy and enjoy life. Your choice as the latter would mean not to treat her so nicely anymore.
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well, some dun tink so.. my ex was one of e those who says it's her privacy..Originally posted by pierre^^:usually gf and bf read each other sms lor. there is no privacy. Wat is there to hide she even resort to snatching her hp frm mi to delete... -
change gf..... girls who sleep around... tsk tsk... cmi
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haha i like ur gf's style. i guess that's what you get for breaking that couple up, fuker.Originally posted by THG:I really don't feel like posting the stuff here but after much thinking, i still think this is the best place to post. I won't reaveal any names in my post.
Story goes like that. My GF broke up with her ex bf because of me and now with me. Everytime she still talks abt her ex bf infront of me and I saw in one of her sms that she actually had a child aborted with the previous bf and she didn't even tell me anything abt it and everyday, she is still chatting on line with her ex bf. Now it's another part, this new guy she knew for abt 3 months named John and she sms her friends saying how sweet and nice he is lah all these. She talks bad abt her ex bf infront of me but i know in her heart, her ex bf is still in the no 1 place. Her life is so messy with so many guys. One haven't settle then got another one called John....and the ex bf....the ex bf now got gf liao so i think she is sticking with me.
In her sms talking to her own girl friend, i learnt that she is pregnant abt 2 months and that child is the ex bf one and I and her have been together for 1 yr 2 months already. So everybody can see she is sleeping with the ex bf behind my back and have the cheek to sleep with me -
Any sensible man would dump her right now.
What are you waiting for?
She is cheating behind your back and you still want her? Gosh, this just screams STUPID ARSE!!!!!!!!!
Dump her.
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Are you stupid or what?Originally posted by CyNdI)4.eVa:haha i like ur gf's style. i guess that's what you get for breaking that couple up, fuker.
It is the GIRLFRIEND choose HIM. Not vice versa! -
hmmx..u are just suspecting on things... no concrete evidence.
how about talking to her about the case?
rather than worrying here n there..its better to clarify. -
i agree 2... if thing turn out like wad u think it is den make up ya mind...Originally posted by babyreyes:hmmx..u are just suspecting on things... no concrete evidence.
how about talking to her about the case?
rather than worrying here n there..its better to clarify.
at least if it's not wad u think it is u wun lose de gal u love...
calm down and think... look at de whole pic... -
Haizz....read through and through alot of her msg and she is still thinking abt her ex bf in her sms on the phone with one of her gf. Like asking her friend if she should go back to her ex or not lah and told her friend that she has been thinking about her ex bf everyday. Well anyway going to break up with her at the right time after I finish up with my project. Her ex bf now already got a gf so she is like cannot even go back to him all these. She is just treating me like a life jacket. Everytime she calls me, in less than 1 min, she can say ' I love you' and 'i miss you' so many times and I know she is treating me like her ex bf and saying those words makes her feels like she is saying them to her ex bf. Makes me simply wanna puke. Disgusting
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Do you love her?Originally posted by THG:Haizz....read through and through alot of her msg and she is still thinking abt her ex bf in her sms on the phone with one of her gf. Like asking her friend if she should go back to her ex or not lah and told her friend that she has been thinking about her ex bf everyday. Well anyway going to break up with her at the right time after I finish up with my project. Her ex bf now already got a gf so she is like cannot even go back to him all these. She is just treating me like a life jacket. Everytime she calls me, in less than 1 min, she can say ' I love you' and 'i miss you' so many times and I know she is treating me like her ex bf and saying those words makes her feels like she is saying them to her ex bf. Makes me simply wanna puke. Disgusting -
Are relationships really so difficult? Have a take it or leave it attitute; do your bit to make it work but other than that, leave everything to fate and it should work really well.Originally posted by THG:Haizz....read through and through alot of her msg and she is still thinking abt her ex bf in her sms on the phone with one of her gf. Like asking her friend if she should go back to her ex or not lah and told her friend that she has been thinking about her ex bf everyday. Well anyway going to break up with her at the right time after I finish up with my project. Her ex bf now already got a gf so she is like cannot even go back to him all these. She is just treating me like a life jacket. Everytime she calls me, in less than 1 min, she can say ' I love you' and 'i miss you' so many times and I know she is treating me like her ex bf and saying those words makes her feels like she is saying them to her ex bf. Makes me simply wanna puke. Disgusting
You can only have control over yourself and nobody else. -
give it up....