Originally posted by Ledikusa:
Im .. ur typical neighbour guy...
This year i'll be taking my 'As.. Its already June.. And im even bothered to study at all.. I try to force myself.. But it just didn't work.. I ended up sleeping more.. I believe many of you guys faced this problem before.. Can tell me what made you turn for the better? Because, like you guys, i tried motivating myself with many things... And it doesnt seem to work.. ermz.. Help?
While my A lvls looks such a distant memory that it is almost prehistoric when I look back now(well, maybe that's how little an impression it left on me)

, I can certainly empathise with what you're going through.

Personally, I must admit I didn't study much(and I'm not encouraging you to take after me

), but I don't think I did badly at all. Basically, what motivated me then was just a matter of comprehending where I wanted to go(from aspiring to be at the world's best universities in the near future to achieving big goals 20-30 yrs down the road) in life and how my A lvls would open the doors towards fulfilling those dreams. So with all that sorted, motivation wasn't much of a problem, really(to be honest, I'm not sure if my style would work for you if you happened to be one of those just drifting along and haven't really thought about your future and long-term goals).
Nevertheless, do take heed of xXStormFallXx's suggestions(
well, except for points 1 and 2 which I personally disagree with) - however, only apply them if you're certain those styles work for you; afterall, everyone has to figure how he/she studies best. For me, studies were
never matters of life and death - it really is nothing more than just one of the countless games I've played in my life - and contrary to what most Asians would tell you, it's not something you'll look back and dwell too much on on your deathbed. By saying that, of course I do not mean it's totally unimportant and that you shouldn't put in a single iota of effort, but it certainly helps if you understand studies is only one of life's many priorities and you enjoy the learning process more than being obssessed with wanting to do well solely for the sake of the grades alone. If you had an interest in what you're learning and are still able to keep a sense of perspective, I'm sure you wouldn't be afflicted by 'pressure/stress' as much as some of your peers are...

Afterall, I've always believed in a philosophy which puts stress/pressure in perspective : "There's no pressure in studies - pressure is when poor people struggle to feed their families, people averting a natural disaster or terminally-ill patients coming to terms with life's challenges". Hope that helps!
